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"There are risks but they are very slight compared to other types of sex. Personally o find sucking a guy with a condom on repulsive. It's like sucking a deflated balloon lol" And the taste is fowl! even the flavoured ones Yuk! | |||
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"There are risks but they are very slight compared to other types of sex. Personally o find sucking a guy with a condom on repulsive. It's like sucking a deflated balloon lol" lol totally agree x | |||
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"I cant understand guys that dont wash there cock i mean cone on its not that hard, pardon the pun also i find sucking rubber to be nasty." Ewwwwww not nice, | |||
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"std's are just as easily spread by oral as with penetration as the infection gets in through the mucus membrane which believe it or not is the same in your mouth as your pussy and it has nothing to do with ppl not washing properly " | |||
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"std's are just as easily spread by oral as with penetration as the infection gets in through the mucus membrane which believe it or not is the same in your mouth as your pussy and it has nothing to do with ppl not washing properly " Actually this is not true. Viral infections such as HIV and Hep B are very seldom transmitted through oral. HPV is but only some strains. Herpes is as well but only type one (which causes cold sores) which 90% of population is a carrier anyway an I would imagine you would not play if you saw someone had an active cold sore. So the actual risk is for the transmission of chlamydia and gonorhea which are both bacterial infections and easily treated with antibiotics. | |||
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"std's are just as easily spread by oral as with penetration as the infection gets in through the mucus membrane which believe it or not is the same in your mouth as your pussy and it has nothing to do with ppl not washing properly Actually this is not true. Viral infections such as HIV and Hep B are very seldom transmitted through oral. HPV is but only some strains. Herpes is as well but only type one (which causes cold sores) which 90% of population is a carrier anyway an I would imagine you would not play if you saw someone had an active cold sore. So the actual risk is for the transmission of chlamydia and gonorhea which are both bacterial infections and easily treated with antibiotics." Actually some of this isn't true either........suggest if you want to know the facts talk to your GUM clinic they are the professionals. | |||
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"std's are just as easily spread by oral as with penetration as the infection gets in through the mucus membrane which believe it or not is the same in your mouth as your pussy and it has nothing to do with ppl not washing properly Actually this is not true. Viral infections such as HIV and Hep B are very seldom transmitted through oral. HPV is but only some strains. Herpes is as well but only type one (which causes cold sores) which 90% of population is a carrier anyway an I would imagine you would not play if you saw someone had an active cold sore. So the actual risk is for the transmission of chlamydia and gonorhea which are both bacterial infections and easily treated with antibiotics. Actually some of this isn't true either........suggest if you want to know the facts talk to your GUM clinic they are the professionals. " Agree, that is the best option. But if you expect 100% guaranteed safe sex just forget it, there is no such thing. | |||
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"std's are just as easily spread by oral as with penetration as the infection gets in through the mucus membrane which believe it or not is the same in your mouth as your pussy and it has nothing to do with ppl not washing properly " This is incorrect!! Its MUCH harder to spread sdi's orally...assuming there's no sore's, inflammation of skin or broken skin on either cock or in the mouth...the mouth is much better equipped to deal with foreign fluids and particles as we are constantly breathing in huge amounts of toxins every day!! | |||
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"well iv sucked a lot and havnt cought anything yet. " Oh well it must be safe then...... | |||
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"well iv sucked a lot and havnt cought anything yet. " YET! | |||
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"Just the same..but signs of catching anything show quicker ...nette" What?!? Ok my final word. Please don't listen to a bunch of people who think they know it all. For your own peace of mind GUM clinic will have all the accurate information and I assume that if you are that concerned you are getting tested regularly anyway so just ask them. at least you will get the facts. | |||
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"Might just be me being excuse the pun "anal" but I would love to be 100% certain I could suck unprotected cock ... I love sucking it so much when dressed and I did love the feeling of sucking the guy without a condom but seems like a big risk .. Xx " Sounds like you should stick to being safe. It only takes one with something like clamydia and you'll wish you hadn't. I'd love to have an ass filled with cum but I never will because it's simply not worth the risk. I'll suck without a condom as will my wife and we hope if we are unlucky enough to catch something that it will be easily treatable. Full sex in either hole is kinda accepted to be more risky to catch nastier std's so we always insist on condoms. I wish we didn't mind sucking latex but we do. If you can cope with it; then well done you. You'll never be 100% safe even with a condom but you're being safer than most. Keep being safe xxx | |||
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"std's are just as easily spread by oral as with penetration as the infection gets in through the mucus membrane which believe it or not is the same in your mouth as your pussy and it has nothing to do with ppl not washing properly Actually this is not true. Viral infections such as HIV and Hep B are very seldom transmitted through oral. HPV is but only some strains. Herpes is as well but only type one (which causes cold sores) which 90% of population is a carrier anyway an I would imagine you would not play if you saw someone had an active cold sore. So the actual risk is for the transmission of chlamydia and gonorhea which are both bacterial infections and easily treated with antibiotics." lol did i say blood born infections? | |||
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"What's the chances of catching something from sucking a unprotected cock ... I really wanna let myself do it but only have once due to me wanting to keep myself safe and clean .. Xx" I know there is a risk but I wonder how much this has been whipped up by the media again. I know a number of people in the music business who regularly have unprotected sex with groupies yet I haven't heard of anyone getting a serious illness ss a result. Not saying you shouldn't take care but so many things are exaggerated these days. One guy has had five kids by five different groupies and there have been three abortions from him too that I've heard of. No wonder he has trouble hitting the high notes these days! | |||
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"Yip...a lot of Docs and clinic's are guilty of scare mongering...the risks are negligible for most of us! " | |||
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"well iv sucked a lot and havnt cought anything yet. YET!" well at least im enjoying myself. | |||
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"I have sucked loads of unprotected cocks and never cough anything, so i'm either a lucky bugger or the risks are very small" You could have the herpes virus and not know it.... | |||
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"I have sucked loads of unprotected cocks and never cough anything, so i'm either a lucky bugger or the risks are very small You could have the herpes virus and not know it...." Like most of the population | |||
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"I have sucked loads of unprotected cocks and never cough anything, so i'm either a lucky bugger or the risks are very small You could have the herpes virus and not know it.... Like most of the population " Exactly my point....thats why I would never say that I've never caught anything........ | |||
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"I have sucked loads of unprotected cocks and never cough anything, so i'm either a lucky bugger or the risks are very small You could have the herpes virus and not know it...." Or, she could be a lucky bugger and not of cought anything. | |||
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"I have sucked loads of unprotected cocks and never cough anything, so i'm either a lucky bugger or the risks are very small You could have the herpes virus and not know it.... Like most of the population Exactly my point....thats why I would never say that I've never caught anything........" everytime I have been tested I have gotten the all clear so as far as i'm concerned I haven't cough anything unless your saying test results are unreliable in which case what's the point in going? | |||
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"I have sucked loads of unprotected cocks and never cough anything, so i'm either a lucky bugger or the risks are very small You could have the herpes virus and not know it.... Like most of the population Exactly my point....thats why I would never say that I've never caught anything........ everytime I have been tested I have gotten the all clear so as far as i'm concerned I haven't cough anything unless your saying test results are unreliable in which case what's the point in going?" as far as I'm aware they don't test for herpes routinely....not unless you have symptoms? | |||
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"I have sucked loads of unprotected cocks and never cough anything, so i'm either a lucky bugger or the risks are very small You could have the herpes virus and not know it.... Like most of the population Exactly my point....thats why I would never say that I've never caught anything........ everytime I have been tested I have gotten the all clear so as far as i'm concerned I haven't cough anything unless your saying test results are unreliable in which case what's the point in going? as far as I'm aware they don't test for herpes routinely....not unless you have symptoms?" well they don't in salisbury anyway | |||
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"I have sucked loads of unprotected cocks and never cough anything, so i'm either a lucky bugger or the risks are very small You could have the herpes virus and not know it.... Like most of the population Exactly my point....thats why I would never say that I've never caught anything........ everytime I have been tested I have gotten the all clear so as far as i'm concerned I haven't cough anything unless your saying test results are unreliable in which case what's the point in going? as far as I'm aware they don't test for herpes routinely....not unless you have symptoms?" completely off topic but i have the same shoes as you! | |||
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" completely off topic but i have the same shoes as you! " Obviously a lady with impeccable taste I love iron fist shoes! | |||
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"well iv sucked a lot and havnt cought anything yet. Oh well it must be safe then......" Having sex with different people is risky wether you use condoms or not, and so is lots of other things too. you could have sex with just one person and catch something also, you dont know who or how many people they have had sex with. i spoke to a health worker at the GUM clinic and he said a lot of people dont like using condoms for oral sex all though most people know that it is best too. | |||
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"std's are just as easily spread by oral as with penetration as the infection gets in through the mucus membrane which believe it or not is the same in your mouth as your pussy and it has nothing to do with ppl not washing properly Actually this is not true. Viral infections such as HIV and Hep B are very seldom transmitted through oral. HPV is but only some strains. Herpes is as well but only type one (which causes cold sores) which 90% of population is a carrier anyway an I would imagine you would not play if you saw someone had an active cold sore. So the actual risk is for the transmission of chlamydia and gonorhea which are both bacterial infections and easily treated with antibiotics." except you can only have 4 treatments of antibiotics..... | |||
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"What's the chances of catching something from sucking a unprotected cock ... I really wanna let myself do it but only have once due to me wanting to keep myself safe and clean .. Xx I know there is a risk but I wonder how much this has been whipped up by the media again. I know a number of people in the music business who regularly have unprotected sex with groupies yet I haven't heard of anyone getting a serious illness ss a result. Not saying you shouldn't take care but so many things are exaggerated these days. One guy has had five kids by five different groupies and there have been three abortions from him too that I've heard of. No wonder he has trouble hitting the high notes these days! " I got gonorrhoea when I first started swinging in the throat so it's not that unusual, I suspect most people just don't admit it because you feel dirty and like a tit. The GUM clinic said there was an outbreak of it at the time I caught it. I had protected sex but unprotected oral. Nothing since but now I do not allow men to cum in my mouth and I am massively picky about who I have any kind of interaction with. Women are much much more at risk from oral sti's than men because of where the infection sites are in respective bodies. | |||
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"I have sucked loads of unprotected cocks and never cough anything, so i'm either a lucky bugger or the risks are very small You could have the herpes virus and not know it.... Like most of the population " ...which is passed more through kissing. I've sucked more cocks than I can even count and also have never caught an STD. My GUM clinic have said the same...risk is minimal if no cuts in the mouth, stomach acid would kill practically any nasty, and make sure they look and smell ok...any green bits or oozing, tell them to do one x | |||
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" But its still very unlikely! " Personally; I would not want to be infected with hepatitis B or C, herpes simplex, HIV or HPV. Google or use wikipedia for the complications as these infections can, ultimately, kill. Chlamydia can be treated but may cause infertility and miscarriage in women. Syphilis is one of those infection that is making a big time come-back; it has a very long lead in time after the initial, sometimes minor, symptoms and unless you are being screened in a GU clinic, very few doctors would consider it as a differential diagnosis. Like tuberculosis, it's a great mimic and unless you think about the possibility of infection you will miss it. You might find the following information useful as it breaks down to geographical areas as well as age and sex and type of infection: http://www.hpa.org.uk/stiannualdatatables MSM - men who have sex with men WSW - women who have sex with women Doctor Nasty | |||
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"well iv sucked a lot and havnt cought anything yet. Oh well it must be safe then......" open mouthed as usual | |||
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"What's the chances of catching something from sucking a unprotected cock ... I really wanna let myself do it but only have once due to me wanting to keep myself safe and clean .. Xx" if your teeth bleed when you brush them, its a no no | |||
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"There's too much confusion with what 'could' happen and what's 'likely' to happen I 'could' be attacked and killed by a mad badger walking out of my house Now I don't stay in my house with badger fear because that's unlikely to happen There's lots of potential diseases you can catch from sex, oral, anal even if protection if used (remember condoms have a significant pregnancy failure rate) But for oral sex without protection and vaginal/ anal with protection those risks are very low such that most of us accept those risks for the rewards of this lifestyle Remember the only safe sex is no sex and deleting your account" spoken like a man | |||
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" completely off topic but i have the same shoes as you! Obviously a lady with impeccable taste I love iron fist shoes!" So do I lol | |||
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"Might just be me being excuse the pun "anal" but I would love to be 100% certain I could suck unprotected cock ... I love sucking it so much when dressed and I did love the feeling of sucking the guy without a condom but seems like a big risk .. Xx " | |||
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" Actually some of this isn't true either........suggest if you want to know the facts talk to your GUM clinic they are the professionals. " the above advice I actually got very similar advice from the clinic.. I have asked many times as I used to do major greedygirl sessions.. talking double figures oral sex every session... So I asked in great detail... I was told that the risk is significantly less.. the risk being highest for chlamydia and gonorhea and the main risk being herpes.. I can also go on sheer numbers.. I have sucked LOTS of cock unprotected in fact have only once EVER sucked one with a condom on.. and NEVER again.. And I have never so much as caught a cold from unprotected oral... and trust me... the numbers are against me on this one... People should really be totally honest with the clinics when they go.. Because if you dont tell them.. they often wont give FULL screenings.. and sometimes you have to ASK for throat and mouth swabs. Oh and just to be a bit doom and gloom.. Gonorrhoea is starting to not respond to anti biotics in some cases. | |||
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"There's too much confusion with what 'could' happen and what's 'likely' to happen I 'could' be attacked and killed by a mad badger walking out of my house Now I don't stay in my house with badger fear because that's unlikely to happen There's lots of potential diseases you can catch from sex, oral, anal even if protection if used (remember condoms have a significant pregnancy failure rate) But for oral sex without protection and vaginal/ anal with protection those risks are very low such that most of us accept those risks for the rewards of this lifestyle Remember the only safe sex is no sex and deleting your account" | |||
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" I 'could' be attacked and killed by a mad badger walking out of my house Now I don't stay in my house with badger fear because that's unlikely to " I haven't left the house for 14 years due to badger fear | |||
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"according to the doctor its the same risk as unprotected sex " Well he's wrong then, tell him to have a chat with the GUM docs to update his knowledge | |||
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"according to the doctor its the same risk as unprotected sex Well he's wrong then, tell him to have a chat with the GUM docs to update his knowledge that was the gum doctor that said that....just as risky as penetrative sex" | |||
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"its still exchanging bodily fluids .....you wouldn't touch blood or examine anyone without gloves" I would if TIME didn't allow for PPE | |||
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" But its still very unlikely! Personally; I would not want to be infected with hepatitis B or C, herpes simplex, HIV or HPV. Google or use wikipedia for the complications as these infections can, ultimately, kill. Chlamydia can be treated but may cause infertility and miscarriage in women. Syphilis is one of those infection that is making a big time come-back; it has a very long lead in time after the initial, sometimes minor, symptoms and unless you are being screened in a GU clinic, very few doctors would consider it as a differential diagnosis. Like tuberculosis, it's a great mimic and unless you think about the possibility of infection you will miss it. You might find the following information useful as it breaks down to geographical areas as well as age and sex and type of infection: http://www.hpa.org.uk/stiannualdatatables MSM - men who have sex with men WSW - women who have sex with women Doctor Nasty " Eh..no ta, I've done me own homework thanks! What's the point of seeing what damage a specific disease can do when there's a negligible chance of contraction anyway...?? That's how ye scare folks into thinking they're at greater risk than they really are! | |||
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"What's the chances of catching something from sucking a unprotected cock ... I really wanna let myself do it but only have once due to me wanting to keep myself safe and clean .. Xx" a mouth full of cum, | |||
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