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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lets assume that as a swinger, whether a couple or a single, things are working out for you. Then people start messaging or posting in forums that you should do things differently, maybe use face pics in the public gallery, maybe give your mobile number out, that sort of thing. Are you influenced by what others think or say, or do you go your own way regardless? We as a couple who have been together since our schooldays do things our way, what we are comfortable with. Advice from those who's opinion we value is always welcome, but otherwise it's what we are happy with that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been my own woman with my own mind etc., and am not easily swayed or influenced by other people.

If I need advice or opinion from the others, I would ask for it, and then evaluate the information provided.

I would then decide what to do according to what feels right for me.

I would not hold anyone responsible for any failures, as I hold myself accountable for making my own decisions at the end of the day.

So if peeps do not like the way I go about doing things in here or indeed anywhere else, then it is their problem, and not mine!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have always been my own woman with my own mind etc., and am not easily swayed or influenced by other people.

If I need advice or opinion from the others, I would ask for it, and then evaluate the information provided.

I would then decide what to do according to what feels right for me.

I would not hold anyone responsible for any failures, as I hold myself accountable for making my own decisions at the end of the day.

So if peeps do not like the way I go about doing things in here or indeed anywhere else, then it is their problem, and not mine! "

Very well put Pearl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am my own person and i walk alone!! i have my own opinions and views, and make my own choices and i am just me! x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Happy to listen to other peoples opinions, but we are also happy to do our own thing and except the concequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always done my own thing, but not stubborn enough to see a post and think it a good idea, but not adapt to that.

I/We do what we are comfortable with, but have to admit, that sometimes opinions shared in the forums have encouraged us to change ever so slightly.

We would never do what is suggested unless we thought it a good idea, wouldn't follow instructions here simply because of say so.

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