FabSwingers.com forum: Friends with benefits

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I like your profile and pics.

you seem a chilled out guy, good luck.

hope you find who you seek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing just no ones been lucky enough to have u xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I'm just to picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I'm just to picky"

Nothing wrong.with being picky ....good luck

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Maybe I'm just to picky"

maybe you're not bud and you go with the flow till you meet someone who's happy to be a FWB

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been here 4 years and still bloody looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have the right to be picky though quality over quantity any time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess so. Patience is the key

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"I've been here 4 years and still bloody looking!

Me too!!! My problems always been distance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea. I know that feeling. It's typical. The girl you really fancy pops up but lives miles away

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I'd consider moving but hubby and the kids won't

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?"

It's a swingers site not a dating agency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found someone... A year down the line there's somuch heartache. Be careful what U wish for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I'm just to picky"

Hubby and I started off as fuck buds, that was 8 years ago x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Let me guess. You fell for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let me guess. You fell for him"

Married him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?

It's a swingers site not a dating agency"

That's your opinion but I can guarantee people have found love on here. Narrow mind will get you nowhere mate. You need to think outside the box

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let me guess. You fell for him

Married him

xx"

We'll done you. I. Happy for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mileage is the spanner in my wheels, too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mileage is the spanner in my wheels, too.

Keep your wheels tight and the distance won't seem so far

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?

It's a swingers site not a dating agency

That's your opinion but I can guarantee people have found love on here. Narrow mind will get you nowhere mate. You need to think outside the box"

Mate the site is what you make of it. Just as long as whomever you contact knows what your intentions are. There are couples on here who started off as singles and met through the site so dont let anything put you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think this is the best place to meet like minded partners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think this is the best place to meet like minded partners. "

Your so right.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Nothing wrong with being picky. I have a FWB but I just don't get to see him very often, which is probably why it is always so good between us and gets better every time! But it took a long time to get to that stage. Stick with it, you are a good looking, sexy man who appears to be able to hold a good conversation and I have no doubt you will go far and find what you are looking for. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?"

What do u mean by match mate? Looks,interests, sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?

What do u mean by match mate? Looks,interests, sex?"

The whole lot mate. The connection with someone that when you've got it it just gets better and better every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to wales please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Move to wales please"

12 months away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?

What do u mean by match mate? Looks,interests, sex?

The whole lot mate. The connection with someone that when you've got it it just gets better and better every time"

Things like that are going to need patience mate. Single males are outnumbered on here and in competition with each other. The girl your talking about would be in high demand on here. Maybe POF where the numbers are slightly more even may be a better chance?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?"

Great pic. I doubt you're doing anything wrong, it takes as long as it takes. Better that than make a mistake and regret it, good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great pics!!!

Shame you're not looking for NSA...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?

It's a swingers site not a dating agency"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found someone... A year down the line there's somuch heartache. Be careful what U wish for..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?"

Sadly there seems to be a lot of folk here who are only interested in a long line of one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you looking for someone in the real world too or just on here?

you say you want everything in a post further up, maximum compatibility, but the suggestion of a fwb is you dont want the commitment?

the 2 are very difficult to find together.

all the best to you, im sure you will eventually find what you are looking for, just will take time, as you have found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?"

im not 100% sure what your asking here, most of us have bad meets but you say you have had some great meets, isn't that what the sites about, if you have had great meets i'd say your not doing anything wrong? or are you looking for a life partner on here?

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"I've been on FAB for over a year now and I haven't found my match. I've had some great meets but I've had a few bad ones too. I'm beginning to think it's not gonna happen

. What am I doing wrong?

It's a swingers site not a dating agency

That's your opinion but I can guarantee people have found love on here. Narrow mind will get you nowhere mate. You need to think outside the box"

Not only is it my opinion, it is a fact as the website title says. I can assure you that I am not narrow minded and I reckon it's you that should be thinking outside the box.

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