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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Wondering if you decide just by looking at face pics that you'd fuck someone?

I know when me n himself look at pics he knows usually just by the pic that he'd shag em. I don't & can't say till I've met someone whether I want to play

Would like opinions from both sexes please

Julie x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I can & do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normally the look in the eyes.

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By *um like it hotWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I would decide just from a pic also ... Some call me shallow, some judgemental ,,, maybe I'm just mental but it's just my way and I know what I like so why waste anyone's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if you decide just by looking at face pics that you'd fuck someone?

I know when me n himself look at pics he knows usually just by the pic that he'd shag em. I don't & can't say till I've met someone whether I want to play

Would like opinions from both sexes please

Julie x"

For me it's the first step. By looking at a pic I can say a definite no or a potential yes. I may find an Adonis but if his attitude sucks then I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if you decide just by looking at face pics that you'd fuck someone?

I know when me n himself look at pics he knows usually just by the pic that he'd shag em. I don't & can't say till I've met someone whether I want to play

Would like opinions from both sexes please

Julie x"

i have a fair idea by the face.but you really do have to meet and chat.they may be orrible

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

You can gain an idea by pics, messages, but I would still say youd have to meet em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The picture is what attracts me to the person in the first place so yes I know from someone's picture if I would want to arrange a meet then we chat to see if we click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes unfortunately that is only half the battle sometimes a conversation can reverse the decision

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By *um like it hotWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Yes unfortunately that is only half the battle sometimes a conversation can reverse the decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A picture is the initial attraction, then the voice and what is said.

Then its the chemistry,ie;pheremones.

if the chemistry is there, sex can follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good face pic tends to make me want to kiss someone, and if its a good kiss, sex often follows x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know from a face pic if I definitely don't want to meet them. Main thing is chat, banter etc.

Why is it shallow to want to fancy someone? I never understand that.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

note how most that say they will are males!!!!!!! says it all doesnt it lol

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By *uncouple31Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

This just highlights the difference between men and women. Men look at pictures and will say yes or no immediately. Where as I think women need to be more engaged mentally with a person for them to be attracted.

If a few more of the single guys on here realised that I think they would have more success.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"note how most that say they will are males!!!!!!! says it all doesnt it lol"

Because we're visual creatures. Why else do you go to all that time and expense to look good for us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at face picture and decide from that whether to meet or not, however I do get put off by messages when they come across desperate, needy or pushy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A picture is the initial attraction, then the voice and what is said.

Then its the chemistry,ie;pheremones.

if the chemistry is there, sex can follow."

I agree

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"This just highlights the difference between men and women. Men look at pictures and will say yes or no immediately. Where as I think women need to be more engaged mentally with a person for them to be attracted.

If a few more of the single guys on here realised that I think they would have more success."

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"note how most that say they will are males!!!!!!! says it all doesnt it lol"

the hubby's in couples are not choosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just highlights the difference between men and women. Men look at pictures and will say yes or no immediately."

Not really, I've seen many a profile where I liked the look of the lady in questions pics, then was rapidly turned off by the profile itself.

Pretty much the same thing with that redheaded Amy whats-her-name girl all over the media, gorgeous to look at, her attractiveness shatters the moment she opens her mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It very rarely happens for me. I like to click with them in person before deciding - a great photo is just the initial attraction.

There are 2 regular forumites who I've made an exception for though - and I can't wait to meet them

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london

"note how most that say they will are males!!!!!!! says it all doesnt it lol

the hubby's in couples are not choosy

Speak for yourself as I'm not here to sleep with everyone (and wouldn't want to) we all have standards and not looking to just sleep with anyone just to for the sake of it.

Jules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can look at a picture and think yes id fuck them,but at some point there is going to have to be some communication to arrange this so if it turns out the personality of my perceived adonis is that of a stunned slug then id pass on the fuck

My OH feels the same,hes changed his mind about women after chatting to them for a while

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"note how most that say they will are males!!!!!!! says it all doesnt it lol

the hubby's in couples are not choosy

Speak for yourself as I'm not here to sleep with everyone (and wouldn't want to) we all have standards and not looking to just sleep with anyone just to for the sake of it.

Jules"

good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can look at a picture and think yes id fuck them,but at some point there is going to have to be some communication to arrange this so if it turns out the personality of my perceived adonis is that of a stunned slug then id pass on the fuck

My OH feels the same,hes changed his mind about women after chatting to them for a while"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm a very visual person so always look at photos, but I also prefer personality and character and to get a feel of that (ha ha) I'd want to chat, see what they post and get a general idea of what they are like.

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london

Personal we like someone with a sexy confident attitude and the way they present themselves. That sexy look in ones eye wish you just can't explain it is drives you crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

look at their pics then their profile, dont bother meeting them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, not often but sometimes I see a face pic on here and get instantly turned on

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

For me that initial spark has to be there in the face photo and also the conversation.

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By *ert69Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

A picture tell's you a lot, but I believe in, until you've met face to face you can't really say you'll fuck someone,

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

"You can gain an idea by pics, messages, but I would still say you'd have to meet em. "

Yep

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By *egularFunMan
over a year ago

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Face can decide whether I'll meet or not but the factors that decide anything more are a combination of face, personality and chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No..... I've actually been attracted to pics (yes I am that shallow).... Then after reading their profiles (yes I read profiles too) have decided not to make contact if they seem an angry person.

Yes we know there are many arseholes on here that ruin it for everyone but first impressions count, and ranting profiles put me right off.

Surely it's just waving a red flag to the idiots to try even harder to piss people off.

Apologies for the moan, I just had to get that off my chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see and like a pic, then read the non-existent profile, and my heart sinks.

That's the norm.

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I see and like a pic, then read the non-existent profile, and my heart sinks.

That's the norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would decide just from a pic also ... Some call me shallow, some judgemental ,,, maybe I'm just mental but it's just my way and I know what I like so why waste anyone's time

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This

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Yes if I fancied the look of them...after all its the same if we go out and like the look of them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can like the look of someone but I couldn't decide I want to have sex with them by just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its different for guys though, sure, you've lots of ladies saying 'if I like the look of a guy I'll message them', but in my experience that alone isn't enough.

A woman on here can post a great pic and immediately become a site darling, but a single male has to post good pics AND put in a good performance with his profile, messages, verifications and forum posts - I've lost track of the number of times I've had a woman mail me with words to the effect of

'I've admired your pics for a while but it was something you said in a discussion that made me want to come say hello'.

Some might say this is an example of how women have a greater depth to what they find attractive than males do, but could also be argued that the with the sheer, overwhelming number of single males on here, guys will always have to make the extra to come over as attractive and stand out from the crowd.

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

a pic dose alot then read veris and meet 4a coffee you can always walk away politly then

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Yes unfortunately that is only half the battle sometimes a conversation can reverse the decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunately when asked to send a face pic, I have to tell the I dont actually have a face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No..... I've actually been attracted to pics (yes I am that shallow).... Then after reading their profiles (yes I read profiles too) have decided not to make contact if they seem an angry person.

Yes we know there are many arseholes on here that ruin it for everyone but first impressions count, and ranting profiles put me right off.

Surely it's just waving a red flag to the idiots to try even harder to piss people off.

Apologies for the moan, I just had to get that off my chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are from Mars, visually stimulated. Women are from Venus, emotionally stimulated.

We're from Stonehenge, lacking stimulation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pic first for us and if we like the look of them and they have a nice profile then we arrange a social drink to see if we all click . We have met some right wallies who can't hold a decent adult conversation with us so no chance of them sharing our bed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"unfortunately when asked to send a face pic, I have to tell the I dont actually have a face"

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By *talianaTV/TS
over a year ago

bham-harborne

well if that's the case how do most M/F cpls get to score then as they're normally the ones with no face pics and a mile long profile, its a joke.

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