FabSwingers.com forum: Am I barking up the wrong tree here?

By *onConformistLikeU OP Man
over a year ago

Chorley

I like this site. I've never had any luck here other than to talk to some very nice people and have a giggle. On the other hand traditional dating sites tend to either frown upon anything to do with sex (which is generally what motivates us to date in the first place) or they want your credit card details and spam you to death.

I signed up for fabflirts when that came out but there's nobody there.

So I keep coming back cos I've not got much better to do with my time...maybe I should get out more..anyhow, I forget my point.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see anything wrong with your profile, pics or blurb. Are you actually messaging or just winking? Winks get ignored usually, as do one line messages. I usually find that a refernce mentioned in the other persons profile, that you include in your message, goes a long way. It helps them to know that you have actually read their profile and are interested in THEM and not just anyone.

By *onConformistLikeU OP Man
over a year ago

Chorley

I tend to send a message if I can think of something to say. I'm not really sure about the purpose of the wink. If you winked at someone in a room full of strangers people would think there was something wrong with you. I find a lot of people appreciate you reading their profile but they forget to put any noteworthy information in there.

There's plenty of girls that have nice pics but finding one without prior commitments is rare and one who fancies me is ridonkulously rare.

I'm still considering going outside...