FabSwingers.com forum: why be polite???

By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Why do I bother beimg polite dont get me no where. ( I still am going to be as that is me) I always read profiles and only message if I fit what they are looking for

Having read the profile I taler my first message to their profile to show them I have.

Sorry this is abit of a rant just bugs me lol

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over a year ago

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By *allybooWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

It's nice to be polite!

In this case maybe it's just there's no attraction. I get messages that show my profile has been read & a bit of thought has gone into the message. I take a look at the profile see the pics & they are just not for me!

One of those things I guess.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why do I bother beimg polite dont get me no where. ( I still am going to be as that is me) I always read profiles and only message if I fit what they are looking for

Having read the profile I taler my first message to their profile to show them I have.

Sorry this is abit of a rant just bugs me lol "

Are you saying that despite you sending polite messages people aren't replying or aren't agreeing to meet you? It happens a lot I'm afraid but you seem to have been quite successful recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply to messages even if it's thanks but no

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You've had 4 meets in month. I've had two! Not sure what your definition of 'not getting anywhere' is but it seems to be different to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carry on being polite,let it go over ur head if deleted and move on to the next girl or couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chill out, it's only sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do I bother beimg polite dont get me no where. ( I still am going to be as that is me) I always read profiles and only message if I fit what they are looking for

Having read the profile I taler my first message to their profile to show them I have.

Sorry this is abit of a rant just bugs me lol "

People are funny. End of.

There is no clear rationale in anyone's thinking and there's no perfect message. Just stay polite, keep checking profiles and remember that you're here for your pleasure as well. We miss that when jumping through hoops for other people.

Good luck!

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"I always reply to messages even if it's thanks but no"

I understand that women and even couples get a tone of mail but dose it take that long to say sorry?

Rather then just delete what has taken me time to think about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chill out, it's only sex"

Nooo its slow love making with a person youu loooovvvveeee

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Chill out, it's only sex

Nooo its slow love making with a person youu loooovvvveeee

Lol

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By *allybooWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

If I answered every single message I got with a sorry I would be on here for ages. It's a case of growing thick skin & move on.

I don't always get a reply from the messages I send out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chill out, it's only sex

Nooo its slow love making with a person youu loooovvvveeee

Sorry couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being rude is gonna get you a lot less further than continuing to plug away and being polite. Keep plugging away.

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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Chill out, it's only sex

Nooo its slow love making with a person youu loooovvvveeee

Sorry couldn't resist

Shame your profile is hidden you have my sence of humor lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/212631#last

If you accept that no reply means "no thanks", you'll enjoy the site a lot more

Admin x

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Why do I bother beimg polite dont get me no where. ( I still am going to be as that is me) I always read profiles and only message if I fit what they are looking for

Having read the profile I taler my first message to their profile to show them I have.

Sorry this is abit of a rant just bugs me lol "

I too am polite and frame my message to indicate that I have carefully read the profile but fully accept that this is not enough to guarantee a reply, and I fully understand why given the huge numbers of messages that some women and couples receive, it simply isn't possible to answer all of them..

On top of that there maybe some basic thing in the profile of the sender that just puts them off and so they on't reply..nobody is obliged to, and while I applaud and demonstrate politeness, I don't expect it to be universal, and in any case I don't consider it rude not to get a reply to paraphrase the FAQ section of the Fab site.

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