FabSwingers.com forum: Cheating

By *lay2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

For those on here that have done it in the past or are still doing it, why is it that you cheat/cheated. Just curious to know the reasons behind it. Was it your sex life was crap at home, your partner just wsnt interested in it like yourself or was it just a moment of stupidity while d*unk but still done it again or is it that you just love fucking at all costs.

Even tell us your stories about when it happened and what you got up to. Should make some interesting reading for folk on her with their dirty minds

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I played monopoly once and helped myself to a cool £500 from the bank. I didn't get caught either! I didn't win though, even though I had hotels on the yellows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I played monopoly once and helped myself to a cool £500 from the bank. I didn't get caught either! I didn't win though, even though I had hotels on the yellows.

Damn...I was gonna go for that kinda reply!!! Kudos to you for getting there first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex at home in over 10 years !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my wife since I was 18, spent 15 years in frustration trying and failing to change her sexuality. Now happy accepting who she is, have stopped trying to change her and now occasionally satisfy my more deviant kinks elsewhere.

Alternatives are that I deny who I am, or unfairly resenting my wife for not being someone she isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband is into normal sex where as I like it a bit more kinky. I know me being married puts some people off but that's why I'm always honest xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

After 18 years together, my wife's desire for sex has all but dried up completely. Mostly since having children, the tiredness, etc. I have tried virtually every avenue to re-ignite her fire, but a hubby can only be rejected in the bedroom so many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm probably the least attractive type of cheater but I'm probably not alone on here.

With me I feel it is weakness born out of the desire to be wanted. It is sad really that I feel the need to want to be attractive to someone else and to care about so much as to risk hurting people.

My strange moral compass feels that if I haven't fucked someone then it is cheating, I know that to be wrong.

I would like to point out that I have cheated in a naked sense very few times. Granted once is once to many, although my marriage is quite sexless and possibly not full of love, other than for our kids, I see my cheating as personal weakness and not the fault of my circumstance.

Bloody hell, you'll all be beating my door down now.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

not all cheaters do it cos they not get

sex at home ,men are weak .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my regular partners cheats because I'm a dirty fuck available when he wants it and his wife went off dirty sex when she had kids. He does have sex with her just not the kind he wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm probably the least attractive type of cheater but I'm probably not alone on here.

With me I feel it is weakness born out of the desire to be wanted. It is sad really that I feel the need to want to be attractive to someone else and to care about so much as to risk hurting people.

My strange moral compass feels that if I haven't fucked someone then it is cheating, I know that to be wrong.

Bloody hell, you'll all be beating my door down now.

I do actually understand that

me and my ex didn't have sex for a few years before we split, he used to constantly put me down, tell me I was fat and ugly etc it was nice to be in the company of someone who made you feel desirable for a short while, even if they was just buttering up up for a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have really passionate sex with my missis even after 28 years but she would never consider anything like a 3 some in any format, which I love,and as I have a bi side I need to find this elsewhere,

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Well, this thread has gone surprisingly well so far....I wonder how long for, though?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet on here was with a woman that had a single profile and after we had had fun she said to me i hope were going to meet again if not then i will tell my hubby what we did that dosnt know im on here.that to me is cheating on him and leading me into false pretences and thats just wrong too but she has now left this site but i often wonder what made her go about things this way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

done it in the past for a thrill to be honest i think men just like that sense of power and control, fucking one lady whilst another one awaits at home!

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I've been married for 41 years so far and, throughout that time, my wife has tolerated sex on very rare occasions. She has never initiated it, or made me think she enjoys it. There are personal reasons why she is like that which I don't propose to elaborate on here. Suffice to say that I have never felt desired sexually, or that I was sufficiently good at it that someone else might actually wish to engage in sex with me on a repeat basis purely because she enjoyed it as much as I did. To be told to "get it over with" or to just get a flat refusal to any advances has worn me down to the point where I am looking elsewhere without causing a marriage break up. As strange as it may seem, I still love my wife and just wish it could all be so different. And no, she won't discuss it (believe me, I've tried) and won't seek counselling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" but a hubby can only be rejected in the bedroom so many times."

Unfortunately, I echo that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm probably the least attractive type of cheater but I'm probably not alone on here.

With me I feel it is weakness born out of the desire to be wanted. It is sad really that I feel the need to want to be attractive to someone else and to care about so much as to risk hurting people.

My strange moral compass feels that if I haven't fucked someone then it is cheating, I know that to be wrong.

Bloody hell, you'll all be beating my door down now.

I know how you feel. Been married 21 years but it's not enough

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