FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Why am I surprised

Jump to newest
 

By *luetezo OP   Couple
over a year ago

by the beach

Just had 4 or 5 email exchange with a nice looking couple, They sent a private pic and a friends request and we were talking about a social meet,

Tried to reply and low and behold user no longer on site.

Why?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had 4 or 5 email exchange with a nice looking couple, They sent a private pic and a friends request and we were talking about a social meet,

Tried to reply and low and behold user no longer on site.

Why?"

Why are they no longer on site, or why are you surprised?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *luetezo OP   Couple
over a year ago

by the beach


"Just had 4 or 5 email exchange with a nice looking couple, They sent a private pic and a friends request and we were talking about a social meet,

Tried to reply and low and behold user no longer on site.

Why?

Why are they no longer on site, or why are you surprised? "

Don't know anymore just baffled at the timewasters

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had 4 or 5 email exchange with a nice looking couple, They sent a private pic and a friends request and we were talking about a social meet,

Tried to reply and low and behold user no longer on site.

Why?

Why are they no longer on site, or why are you surprised?

Don't know anymore just baffled at the timewasters"

Just chalk it up to experiance and move on to the next timewaster, that just might not be

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had 4 or 5 email exchange with a nice looking couple, They sent a private pic and a friends request and we were talking about a social meet,

Tried to reply and low and behold user no longer on site.

Why?

Why are they no longer on site, or why are you surprised?

Don't know anymore just baffled at the timewasters"

Just because they have deleted their account doesn't mean they are timewasters. Maybe they came to the conclusion that the site wasn't for them. I class a timewaster as someone who agrees a meet and then doesn't show up with no warning or excuse! Nothing less, nothing more.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they got cold feet & decided this wasn't for them after all...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

maybe the 4-5 messages and the pic exchange was enough to make the guy cum and he no longer needed the profile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps there membership ran out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol we have had that quite a few times now , shame as some seemed really nice . Oh well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had 4 or 5 email exchange with a nice looking couple, They sent a private pic and a friends request and we were talking about a social meet,

Tried to reply and low and behold user no longer on site.

Why?

Why are they no longer on site, or why are you surprised?

Don't know anymore just baffled at the timewasters"

Why are they timewasters?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Just had 4 or 5 email exchange with a nice looking couple, They sent a private pic and a friends request and we were talking about a social meet,

Tried to reply and low and behold user no longer on site.

Why?"

No idea but you have the same kitchen handles as us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

isnt there plenty of people who might not be 'timewasters' or 'fakes'..there is a clue at least a general guide(its not a necessity!)but the verified are often ur best bet for a meet(a few verifies from various people)

if I can fine mostly those who are meeting, I cannot understand why others cant

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just had 4 or 5 email exchange with a nice looking couple, They sent a private pic and a friends request and we were talking about a social meet,

Tried to reply and low and behold user no longer on site.

Why?

Why are they no longer on site, or why are you surprised?

Don't know anymore just baffled at the timewasters

Just because they have deleted their account doesn't mean they are timewasters. Maybe they came to the conclusion that the site wasn't for them. I class a timewaster as someone who agrees a meet and then doesn't show up with no warning or excuse! Nothing less, nothing more."

My only definition of a timewaster too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"isnt there plenty of people who might not be 'timewasters' or 'fakes'..there is a clue at least a general guide(its not a necessity!)but the verified are often ur best bet for a meet(a few verifies from various people)

if I can fine mostly those who are meeting, I cannot understand why others cant"

You are willing to travel quite long distances. Kudos to you for that day trip!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"isnt there plenty of people who might not be 'timewasters' or 'fakes'..there is a clue at least a general guide(its not a necessity!)but the verified are often ur best bet for a meet(a few verifies from various people)

if I can fine mostly those who are meeting, I cannot understand why others cant"

im still waiting to meet you

OP its an unfortunate situ but i'd have to agree with the bum av i have quoted

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isnt there plenty of people who might not be 'timewasters' or 'fakes'..there is a clue at least a general guide(its not a necessity!)but the verified are often ur best bet for a meet(a few verifies from various people)

if I can fine mostly those who are meeting, I cannot understand why others cant

You are willing to travel quite long distances. Kudos to you for that day trip! "

lol traveling for an organized party is one thing lol..traveling down to a 'meet' is another...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isnt there plenty of people who might not be 'timewasters' or 'fakes'..there is a clue at least a general guide(its not a necessity!)but the verified are often ur best bet for a meet(a few verifies from various people)

if I can fine mostly those who are meeting, I cannot understand why others cant

im still waiting to meet you

OP its an unfortunate situ but i'd have to agree with the bum av i have quoted "

one day baby...one day

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the way I see it, the 'couple' that disapeared were very new to fab, possibly had some really tasty pics, if a real couple...the female half most likely didnt even know she was on the site...

my advice, dont let things like this put u off genuine meets...theres lots of us fuckers

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We had a spate of that recently, guys all keen then suddenly gone! Don't lose heart op quite often they'll rejoin in a couple if weeks and expect you to pick up where they left off, whether you will want to is another matter of course

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"isnt there plenty of people who might not be 'timewasters' or 'fakes'..there is a clue at least a general guide(its not a necessity!)but the verified are often ur best bet for a meet(a few verifies from various people)

if I can fine mostly those who are meeting, I cannot understand why others cant

im still waiting to meet you

OP its an unfortunate situ but i'd have to agree with the bum av i have quoted

one day baby...one day "

oh my, im going all shy now with my man crush

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isnt there plenty of people who might not be 'timewasters' or 'fakes'..there is a clue at least a general guide(its not a necessity!)but the verified are often ur best bet for a meet(a few verifies from various people)

if I can fine mostly those who are meeting, I cannot understand why others cant

im still waiting to meet you

OP its an unfortunate situ but i'd have to agree with the bum av i have quoted

one day baby...one day

oh my, im going all shy now with my man crush "

those eyes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"isnt there plenty of people who might not be 'timewasters' or 'fakes'..there is a clue at least a general guide(its not a necessity!)but the verified are often ur best bet for a meet(a few verifies from various people)

if I can fine mostly those who are meeting, I cannot understand why others cant

im still waiting to meet you

OP its an unfortunate situ but i'd have to agree with the bum av i have quoted

one day baby...one day

oh my, im going all shy now with my man crush

those eyes "

that bum yum yum

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the fantasy of swinging got very real - very quickly and hey bottled it. They should have at least explained to you what was happening Oh well...some lovely people on here but equally as many fruit loops and all those in-between

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could have been genuine and just decided to go so don't let it put u off

U do have some lovely pics on ur front page and they may have wanted to nose at ur privates.I got fed up with noseybonks that I don't except any friends requests till met,its sorts out the genuine ones for me,the genuine will meet,pic hunters will stop chatting x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"isnt there plenty of people who might not be 'timewasters' or 'fakes'..there is a clue at least a general guide(its not a necessity!)but the verified are often ur best bet for a meet(a few verifies from various people)

if I can fine mostly those who are meeting, I cannot understand why others cant

im still waiting to meet you

OP its an unfortunate situ but i'd have to agree with the bum av i have quoted

one day baby...one day

oh my, im going all shy now with my man crush

those eyes

that bum yum yum "

Gentlemen. Let me take the photos

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just had that - chatted on skype about an hour previous - all sorts of chat and bang gone off here and there = weird but not surprised anymore

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top