FabSwingers.com forum: Accepted as Bi

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So me and my now ex gf split because I am bi.... Why is it still not accepted for men as freely as it is for women.. And i ask that in regards to swinging, clubs and socially

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By *ndym12Man
over a year ago

Ivybridge

Probably because Bi suggests gay and all the stigma that goes with being gay even this supposedly open society.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Some people just need to accept situations, and its not to do with stigma just personal choice.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"So me and my now ex gf split because I am bi.... Why is it still not accepted for men as freely as it is for women.. And i ask that in regards to swinging, clubs and socially"

Did she know you were bi or did you tell her later?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So me and my now ex gf split because I am bi.... Why is it still not accepted for men as freely as it is for women.. And i ask that in regards to swinging, clubs and socially

Did she know you were bi or did you tell her later? "

she knew and for some reason out of the blue later down the line she used it as her motivation for binning me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people just need to accept situations, and its not to do with stigma just personal choice.

I have no issues with personal choice we all have our preferences.. but what i asked was why is it accepted openly for women and not for men

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"So me and my now ex gf split because I am bi.... Why is it still not accepted for men as freely as it is for women.. And i ask that in regards to swinging, clubs and socially"

Just move on and find someone new. I think it is now becoming more accepted that one or both in a relationship could be bi. I'm not but she is and I'm happy with that. Conversely there are couples we know where the male is bi and the enlightened couples enjoy

Life is for living, find a nice girl who will be happy with you as you are.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Some people just need to accept situations, and its not to do with stigma just personal choice.

I have no issues with personal choice we all have our preferences.. but what i asked was why is it accepted openly for women and not for men"

If you see some of the uneducated comments in the forums, you might get an idea.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth

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By *udiguyMan
over a year ago

harrogate

Think it got covered in a previous post pal

Bi = gay.... = stigma

Therefore fear of homophobia

Straight guys think about men or even act on it ... But are still homophobic to save face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth "

Yeah maybe, maybe the truth was to painful. but that isn't really what i am asking here lol..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Anyway, Cheeky, you're only 34 so find a girlfriend who is also bi. Look to the future.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"Anyway, Cheeky, you're only 34 so find a girlfriend who is also bi. Look to the future. "

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Was she a swinger?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Think it got covered in a previous post pal

Bi = gay.... = stigma

Therefore fear of homophobia

Straight guys think about men or even act on it ... But are still homophobic to save face"

We've all seen the threads about bi guys getting messages from guys who describe themselves as straight. Then there's the 'one glove fits all' (haha) argument about bi guys being more likely to be diseased etc etc ad nauseum. Don't sweat it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was she a swinger?"

indeed she was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't feel threatened by lesbians because they think it is sexy, enjoy watching girls playing together and since there is no other cock involved they really feel like they are not being "replaced".

When a guy is bi some women might think he is actually gay but not brave enough to come out and so can't really deal with the uncertainty of being in a relationship with a guy who might be gay.

I am not one of those women btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth "

My thoughts too. Sorry OP.

No point worrying about why some people don't like bi guys. They just don't. I think it's just as rude to disrespect their wishes as it would be if they disrespected yours.

Just find someone that likes bi guys. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth

My thoughts too. Sorry OP.

No point worrying about why some people don't like bi guys. They just don't. I think it's just as rude to disrespect their wishes as it would be if they disrespected yours.

Just find someone that likes bi guys. x"

Maybe it was the reason,and she didn't want to be honest, thats fine, but its not the point in hand.. its about why is it accepted.. like extravagant elegantly put.

But because we are bi does not mean we are gay. my bisexuality is purely a sexual thing, i couldn't date a guy or be in a relationship with a guy its purely sexual

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm the same as Cheeky: I don't fancy men and wouldn't want to live with one and don't look twice at guys in the street but just enjoy a bit of cock now and then. I'm just normal as far as I'm concerned. If people want to meet me then yippee, if they don't, they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of Bi men but why cant I find 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the same as Cheeky: I don't fancy men and wouldn't want to live with one and don't look twice at guys in the street but just enjoy a bit of cock now and then. I'm just normal as far as I'm concerned. If people want to meet me then yippee, if they don't, they don't. "

man after my own heart

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lots of Bi men but why cant I find 2

ha you need to just ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth

My thoughts too. Sorry OP.

No point worrying about why some people don't like bi guys. They just don't. I think it's just as rude to disrespect their wishes as it would be if they disrespected yours.

Just find someone that likes bi guys. x

Maybe it was the reason,and she didn't want to be honest, thats fine, but its not the point in hand.. its about why is it accepted.. like extravagant elegantly put.

But because we are bi does not mean we are gay. my bisexuality is purely a sexual thing, i couldn't date a guy or be in a relationship with a guy its purely sexual"

Some people hate the thought of two guys together. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth

My thoughts too. Sorry OP.

No point worrying about why some people don't like bi guys. They just don't. I think it's just as rude to disrespect their wishes as it would be if they disrespected yours.

Just find someone that likes bi guys. x

Maybe it was the reason,and she didn't want to be honest, thats fine, but its not the point in hand.. its about why is it accepted.. like extravagant elegantly put.

But because we are bi does not mean we are gay. my bisexuality is purely a sexual thing, i couldn't date a guy or be in a relationship with a guy its purely sexual

Some people hate the thought of two guys together. Simple as that."

And i completely respect that. its just mad that if a girl walked into a bar on a weekend and got chatting to people and announced she was bi it would be cool totally fine no issue,,, guy does the same thing, watch the bar clear lol

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Lots of Bi men but why cant I find 2

greedy girl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just don't like the fact that men can like having sex with other men. Such a taboo subject and don't think its ever going to change.

Personally I think its sexy

but everyone has their prefrences x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I truly believe if people were honest about their sexuality, there would be be more acceptance. It is the hoodwinking, manipulating & other underhand tactics to try and get their hole that puts a lot of people off

It will never be perfect, but it certainly has improved since I started swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth

My thoughts too. Sorry OP.

No point worrying about why some people don't like bi guys. They just don't. I think it's just as rude to disrespect their wishes as it would be if they disrespected yours.

Just find someone that likes bi guys. x

Maybe it was the reason,and she didn't want to be honest, thats fine, but its not the point in hand.. its about why is it accepted.. like extravagant elegantly put.

But because we are bi does not mean we are gay. my bisexuality is purely a sexual thing, i couldn't date a guy or be in a relationship with a guy its purely sexual

Some people hate the thought of two guys together. Simple as that.

I disagree. Not always. Some people that know I'm bi treat me like I have some awful disease. Female bisexuality is not always accepted either.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The only underhand thing I so is my hand under her skirt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth

My thoughts too. Sorry OP.

No point worrying about why some people don't like bi guys. They just don't. I think it's just as rude to disrespect their wishes as it would be if they disrespected yours.

Just find someone that likes bi guys. x

Maybe it was the reason,and she didn't want to be honest, thats fine, but its not the point in hand.. its about why is it accepted.. like extravagant elegantly put.

But because we are bi does not mean we are gay. my bisexuality is purely a sexual thing, i couldn't date a guy or be in a relationship with a guy its purely sexual

Some people hate the thought of two guys together. Simple as that.

I disagree. Not always. Some people that know I'm bi treat me like I have some awful disease. Female bisexuality is not always accepted either. "

ya know what screw em all us bi folk need to stick together lol

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth

My thoughts too. Sorry OP.

No point worrying about why some people don't like bi guys. They just don't. I think it's just as rude to disrespect their wishes as it would be if they disrespected yours.

Just find someone that likes bi guys. x

Maybe it was the reason,and she didn't want to be honest, thats fine, but its not the point in hand.. its about why is it accepted.. like extravagant elegantly put.

But because we are bi does not mean we are gay. my bisexuality is purely a sexual thing, i couldn't date a guy or be in a relationship with a guy its purely sexual

Some people hate the thought of two guys together. Simple as that.

That's your perspective, if he did it in a gay bar watch them swarm

Just let things be, by you being bi or are you bi? Was effecting her relationship with you. Whether that is an excuse or not we don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth

My thoughts too. Sorry OP.

No point worrying about why some people don't like bi guys. They just don't. I think it's just as rude to disrespect their wishes as it would be if they disrespected yours.

Just find someone that likes bi guys. x

Maybe it was the reason,and she didn't want to be honest, thats fine, but its not the point in hand.. its about why is it accepted.. like extravagant elegantly put.

But because we are bi does not mean we are gay. my bisexuality is purely a sexual thing, i couldn't date a guy or be in a relationship with a guy its purely sexual

Some people hate the thought of two guys together. Simple as that.

I disagree. Not always. Some people that know I'm bi treat me like I have some awful disease. Female bisexuality is not always accepted either.

ya know what screw em all us bi folk need to stick together lol"

If we leave you to it you will screw em all then where does that leave the rest of us? Lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds to be like that was just an excuse. If she was fine with it before there is prob another reason but she's just used that so she doesn't have to tell you the truth

My thoughts too. Sorry OP.

No point worrying about why some people don't like bi guys. They just don't. I think it's just as rude to disrespect their wishes as it would be if they disrespected yours.

Just find someone that likes bi guys. x

Maybe it was the reason,and she didn't want to be honest, thats fine, but its not the point in hand.. its about why is it accepted.. like extravagant elegantly put.

But because we are bi does not mean we are gay. my bisexuality is purely a sexual thing, i couldn't date a guy or be in a relationship with a guy its purely sexual

Some people hate the thought of two guys together. Simple as that.

I disagree. Not always. Some people that know I'm bi treat me like I have some awful disease. Female bisexuality is not always accepted either.

ya know what screw em all us bi folk need to stick together lol

If we leave you to it you will screw em all then where does that leave the rest of us? Lol!"

whatever are you implying young man

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bisexual and not ashamed of it. It's me. Saying that, I did start a thread the other day saying I'm getting straighter - a direct result of the gorgeous ladies on here

In my book, a well shaped hard cock can't compete with a luscious pussy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm bisexual and not ashamed of it. It's me. Saying that, I did start a thread the other day saying I'm getting straighter - a direct result of the gorgeous ladies on here

In my book, a well shaped hard cock can't compete with a luscious pussy

they both have their place hehe

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

At the risk of being a negative nellie I would like to offer my opinion that this community is not really as open minded as it pretends to be. An awful lot of prejudice is sheltered under the umbrella of "preference"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At the risk of being a negative nellie I would like to offer my opinion that this community is not really as open minded as it pretends to be. An awful lot of prejudice is sheltered under the umbrella of "preference" "

never a truer word said x

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"So me and my now ex gf split because I am bi.... Why is it still not accepted for men as freely as it is for women.. And i ask that in regards to swinging, clubs and socially"

Count it as a blessing.

Just think how much better your love life will be when you find a partner who does accept bi playtimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So me and my now ex gf split because I am bi.... Why is it still not accepted for men as freely as it is for women.. And i ask that in regards to swinging, clubs and socially

Count it as a blessing.

Just think how much better your love life will be when you find a partner who does accept bi playtimes."

And until then i am going to have some fun as a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry it didn't work out for you. I find I care less about things when I'm receiving a skillful blow job, so if we can both offer you that service perhaps we can make this all melt away for a while.....

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Preference is what makes us all different.

I am sick of having prejudice put in my face because of choice.

This is a sex site where most inhibitions are let loose.

Doesn't make anything prejudicial.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry it didn't work out for you. I find I care less about things when I'm receiving a skillful blow job, so if we can both offer you that service perhaps we can make this all melt away for a while.....

now that sounds like a fabulous offer, feel free to pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference is what makes us all different.

I am sick of having prejudice put in my face because of choice.

This is a sex site where most inhibitions are let loose.

Doesn't make anything prejudicial.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

OH why cant you accept that its accepted by some but not all??

Sexually, I have no interest in bi guys...

Does not mean I dont accept them socially?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she was jealous . Woman can be as much as men can . And maybe she was thinking when she was out the way you would be with men and not her??.And maybe she wished you to herself....... Was she into swinging or just you. ? Maybe she could not cope so felt best out of it.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There is a fair amount of prejudice out there. I was in the chat rooms last night and noticed that a couple of people whom I've not had anything to do with had blocked me. If they have checked me out and decided that I've got a screw loose, then I don't mind. However, if they are just blocking me because I'm bi or CD, then it is a bit meh.

At least you are free to move on and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a fair amount of prejudice out there. I was in the chat rooms last night and noticed that a couple of people whom I've not had anything to do with had blocked me. If they have checked me out and decided that I've got a screw loose, then I don't mind. However, if they are just blocking me because I'm bi or CD, then it is a bit meh.

At least you are free to move on and upwards

"
ooo don't worry some block all that move here its like a sport to some .

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

now that sounds like a fabulous offer, feel free to pm me"

Can I watch?

lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

now that sounds like a fabulous offer, feel free to pm me

Can I watch?

lol"

Good idea! Me too, please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

now that sounds like a fabulous offer, feel free to pm me

Can I watch?

lol

Good idea! Me too, please

the more the merrier x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now that sounds like a fabulous offer, feel free to pm me

Can I watch?

lol

Good idea! Me too, please

the more the merrier x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now that sounds like a fabulous offer, feel free to pm me

Can I watch?

lol

Good idea! Me too, please

the more the merrier x"

Looks like this could be quite a show! Hope you 're not shy either

We make a great team when we shower our joint attention on one man xxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

now that sounds like a fabulous offer, feel free to pm me

Can I watch?

lol

Good idea! Me too, please

the more the merrier x

Looks like this could be quite a show! Hope you 're not shy either

We make a great team when we shower our joint attention on one man xxx"

I don't think many people are shy on here

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Looks like this thread has dispelled any fears

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Looks like this thread has dispelled any fears

it's created more opportunities....

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

there are many shy bi men on here I get 1 or 2 messages a day from that are. "straight" but want to suck my cock always turn them down if u can't be honest forget it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are many shy bi men on here I get 1 or 2 messages a day from that are. "straight" but want to suck my cock always turn them down if u can't be honest forget it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe when bi guys accept their own sexuality and stop hiding behind the 'straight' option they may be more accepted! Everytime this subject is brought up, the 'homophobic' card gets played. If a bi guy has straight on his profile, (which a lot do), why should we accept him as a bi, when he can't even accept it himself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think it got covered in a previous post pal

Bi = gay.... = stigma

Therefore fear of homophobia

Straight guys think about men or even act on it ... But are still homophobic to save face"

Think your wrong there like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm completely fine with you being bi that was never an issue, and not an excuse I remember using. I told you that I love you unconditionally and that has not changed and thank you all for your lovely comments about me I'm not a homophobe, I am a nice girl, I completely accept it and you can suck his cock after I've finished x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men don't feel threatened by lesbians because they think it is sexy, enjoy watching girls playing together and since there is no other cock involved they really feel like they are not being "replaced".

When a guy is bi some women might think he is actually gay but not brave enough to come out and so can't really deal with the uncertainty of being in a relationship with a guy who might be gay.

I am not one of those women btw."

Got to totally agree with this. x

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago

Is it easier to announce one's self as gay rather than bi?

I prob think yes, especially for guys

Any one _iews on this, Hope I didn't hijack the thread but they are linked!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

now that sounds like a fabulous offer, feel free to pm me

Can I watch?

lol

Good idea! Me too, please

the more the merrier x"

In that case me too..

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By *n need of helpCouple
over a year ago

hull

where is a mans g spot ? 3 guesses .nowt wrong being bi .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it easier to announce one's self as gay rather than bi?

I prob think yes, especially for guys

Any one _iews on this, Hope I didn't hijack the thread but they are linked!"

I agree. Still not 'easier' but I think for guys, being gay is more accepted than being bi.

Post a new thread. Great question. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

now that sounds like a fabulous offer, feel free to pm me

Can I watch?

lol

Good idea! Me too, please

the more the merrier x

In that case me too.."

And when are we all having this little soiree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're out of the country til the 13th? Cos we're in chams on the 10/11th. How long are you here til and we'll check our diaries.

We always if our best to fulfil our offers xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're out of the country til the 13th? Cos we're in chams on the 10/11th. How long are you here til and we'll check our diaries.

We always if our best to fulfil our offers xxx"

i'm back for four weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're out of the country til the 13th? Cos we're in chams on the 10/11th. How long are you here til and we'll check our diaries.

We always if our best to fulfil our offers xxx

i'm back for four weeks"

I'd love to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think everyone should be bi

it would make the world a more interesting place.... Maybe I am ignorant living in my own little bubble but I was not aware that there was still such a prejudice against bi or gay men? Find it especially strange in the swinging community. I joke with my hubby that if he really loved me then he would at least try to be be bi, Wonder if anyone has ever been dumped for being completely straight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think everyone should be bi

i'd dump them for being 100% straight there's no fun in that

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My previous boyfriend was no. He told me after a while. I was over the moon to hear he was bi but didn't get the chance to have no fun before we split.

I would rather a bi male than straight one.

My cousin is gay and me and a fem friend are off to see him and his partner in London tomorrow. I am not aware of any problems he has at work with him being gay.

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over a year ago

"My previous boyfriend was no. He told me after a while. I was over the moon to hear he was bi but didn't get the chance to have no fun before we split.

I would rather a bi male than straight one.

My cousin is gay and me and a fem friend are off to see him and his partner in London tomorrow. I am not aware of any problems he has at work with him being gay."

I think again that goes back to an earlier post where someone said its more accepted to be gay.. I guess bi men are an unknown quantity to most

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over a year ago

I think thats half the problem that alot of people think being bi is being in denial when at the end of the day if u was gay why would you say you were bi? I told an ex and she told a few of my mates which in my eyes is out of order...as its my personal business....so i choose to keep it to myself now as got ridiculed...

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over a year ago

"You're out of the country til the 13th? Cos we're in chams on the 10/11th. How long are you here til and we'll check our diaries.

We always if our best to fulfil our offers xxx

i'm back for four weeks"

We'll see what we can arrange. Guess we better do the organising in this forum so all the would be spectators can also check diaries

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"You're out of the country til the 13th? Cos we're in chams on the 10/11th. How long are you here til and we'll check our diaries.

We always if our best to fulfil our offers xxx

i'm back for four weeks

We'll see what we can arrange. Guess we better do the organising in this forum so all the would be spectators can also check diaries

absolutely works for me....

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

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It doesn't make a difference to me if a guy is gay or bi. If a person is bi they like the best of both worlds ir gay just their own sex.

Either way lots of fun x

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over a year ago

I disagree. Not always. Some people that know I'm bi treat me like I have some awful disease. Female bisexuality is not always accepted either. "

Less chance of getting put in hospital for being openly bi as a female though :p

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