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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We met a couple at a club then chatted to them, via messaging on here. Suddenly though there appears to be no trace of them and all messages have disappeared and can't find them in search, this makes me wonder if we've been blocked or they've left the site but usually you see "user no longer on site" yet there is no sign of this. We're not too bothered more puzzled. Can anyone explain what may have happened please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means they have blocked you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Makes you wonder why people look you up, say they'd like to meet and give you their 'phone number.

Thanks anyway.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"It means they have blocked you"

Messages should still be in the in box and sent items though shouldn't they?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

What if you pass their user name to someone you trust just to search if they are still on the site?

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london


"Makes you wonder why people look you up, say they'd like to meet and give you their 'phone number.

Thanks anyway. "

Happens all the time to us as we won't meet or add anyone before we verify them ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they had changed their mind about going any further. Granted, they could have at least informed you what they were thinking, but try not to let it bother you both. They may have had genuine reasons. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, the messages have disappeared too and whilst we could get someone to search there is no point other than to satisfy curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, the messages have disappeared too and whilst we could get someone to search there is no point other than to satisfy curiosity. "

It does play in your mind a little doesn't it? I'm sure everyone has experienced plenty of these moments. I'm sure future meets will soon wipe away any curiosity that you may have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they have deleted their account?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"No, the messages have disappeared too and whilst we could get someone to search there is no point other than to satisfy curiosity. "

Yea, messages stay if someone just blocks you.

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By *ivWoman
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

they have deleted their account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has your other half deleted the messages? Perhaps s/he decided they don't want to meet the other couple but didn't like to tell you?

Usually when you block people the mail is still there. If the person leaves the mail is still there but says 'user no longer on site'.

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