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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I'm sure many couples do, we often get messages from single guys which are written to me as if Reggie doesn't exist. Annoying, but delete and BLOCK!

But lately we've had quite a few from couples addressed to me, asking if I want a threesome. Not even asking if we meet on our own, just do I want to meet them. I know that single girls looking to meet couples are few and far between... but I find it incredibly rude to message one half of a couple unless it clearly states on their profile that they play separately.

I thought our profile was quite clear, but apparently I need to spell it out in big ranty capitals or something...

I know I shouldn't let it wind me up, but I expected people who are part of a couple to have more respect for both members of another.

Does anyone else think its rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It is rude. One thing you could do is to put a picture of you both together on your profile. You have 3 pics, but only of you separately and one of you together may emphasise that you are a team.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is rude. One thing you could do is to put a picture of you both together on your profile. You have 3 pics, but only of you separately and one of you together may emphasise that you are a team. "

I'm a bit worried about having face pics on the profile as I'm a teacher - we usually email them. But I guess I could black out the eyes or something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had it a lot lately, someone messaged the other day asking me to meet with them so she could sit downstairs and listen and peep through the door. at first I thought it was a fake profile but they we're verified quite a few times, it states on our profile we don't meet alone but it doesn't stop some people from messaging with strange requests or treating it as a single profile

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


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I'm a bit worried about having face pics on the profile as I'm a teacher - we usually email them. But I guess I could black out the eyes or something! "

Neck down is ok. Anything with you both in it.

I have seen wedding pics on profiles before, so goodness knows how many people had addressed them separately, as I think they had gone waaaay to far!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have had it a lot lately, someone messaged the other day asking me to meet with them so she could sit downstairs and listen and peep through the door. at first I thought it was a fake profile but they we're verified quite a few times, it states on our profile we don't meet alone but it doesn't stop some people from messaging with strange requests or treating it as a single profile "

Yeah I guess whatever you've written some people will chance their arm! I just find it shows no respect for the other half!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had it a lot lately, someone messaged the other day asking me to meet with them so she could sit downstairs and listen and peep through the door. at first I thought it was a fake profile but they we're verified quite a few times, it states on our profile we don't meet alone but it doesn't stop some people from messaging with strange requests or treating it as a single profile

Yeah I guess whatever you've written some people will chance their arm! I just find it shows no respect for the other half!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened twice recently and I message them and tell them how insulting they are . Really annoys me.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

We tried a little experiment.

When we are online we get more messages from single men than when offline. So we waited till there were a few and replied with a polite hello. Invariably the next message was asking which of us was online. If it was F who replied the next messages were the usual "fancy a fuck while M is out ?", "come on skype", "let's talk dirty about what I can do to you" etc.......

Now if M replied. Utter silence. Nothing. Zero. Zilch.

So it does seem some males on here have difficulty in understanding the concept of a couple. It is annoying, but we do feel a hint of pity for them. Just a hint mind, just before hitting the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I'm sure many couples do, we often get messages from single guys which are written to me as if Reggie doesn't exist. Annoying, but delete and BLOCK!

But lately we've had quite a few from couples addressed to me, asking if I want a threesome. Not even asking if we meet on our own, just do I want to meet them. I know that single girls looking to meet couples are few and far between... but I find it incredibly rude to message one half of a couple unless it clearly states on their profile that they play separately.

I thought our profile was quite clear, but apparently I need to spell it out in big ranty capitals or something...

I know I shouldn't let it wind me up, but I expected people who are part of a couple to have more respect for both members of another.

Does anyone else think its rude?"

Maybe reply and say that you don't meet alone, but you'll happily have the wife of the couple messaging you over for some fun...think they may realise how rude what they are asking is then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I'm sure many couples do, we often get messages from single guys which are written to me as if Reggie doesn't exist. Annoying, but delete and BLOCK!

But lately we've had quite a few from couples addressed to me, asking if I want a threesome. Not even asking if we meet on our own, just do I want to meet them. I know that single girls looking to meet couples are few and far between... but I find it incredibly rude to message one half of a couple unless it clearly states on their profile that they play separately.

I thought our profile was quite clear, but apparently I need to spell it out in big ranty capitals or something...

I know I shouldn't let it wind me up, but I expected people who are part of a couple to have more respect for both members of another.

Does anyone else think its rude?

Maybe reply and say that you don't meet alone, but you'll happily have the wife of the couple messaging you over for some fun...think they may realise how rude what they are asking is then!"

Good idea... I might do that next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.. We get loads too.. Just humour them til I get bored then ignore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We tried a little experiment.

When we are online we get more messages from single men than when offline. So we waited till there were a few and replied with a polite hello. Invariably the next message was asking which of us was online. If it was F who replied the next messages were the usual "fancy a fuck while M is out ?", "come on skype", "let's talk dirty about what I can do to you" etc.......

Now if M replied. Utter silence. Nothing. Zero. Zilch.

So it does seem some males on here have difficulty in understanding the concept of a couple. It is annoying, but we do feel a hint of pity for them. Just a hint mind, just before hitting the block button."

I find it annoying when single guys do it, but more of an 'eye-roll and block' reaction. When its from couples I get a bit wound up - I don't know why but I expect more respect/ understanding from them as they are in the same position!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This has happened twice recently and I message them and tell them how insulting they are . Really annoys me."

I was going to do that today but Reggie got there first! He is usually unflappable but I think its starting to pee him off now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always raise an eyebrow when this happens too. even if J isn't with me at the time I'm online its not like I'm going to delete the messages. he will see what they write lol. a lot seem shocked when he's the one that responds lol.

on the other hand I get a kick out of the guys that send a nice compliment about me directed to my hubby and then seem shocked when I respond with a thank you lol like they didn't actually expect me to know I was on this site -----definitely better to error on this side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do get this. It is usually Chris that reads messages, unless it's a forum member and I've contacted them.

We do get more from single guys but have had the odd one from couples. Chris sometimes plays along and tells the guys he will meet them alone. Of course they are full of what they will do to me, but when Chris informs them that he doesn't have a pussy to lick for hours, strangely we dont hear from them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say though that people are driven by the visual so they do assume that with my face as the avatar, they are talking to me, and obviously that isn't the case as Chris reads the messages first. But I'm not going to change that.

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