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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't have much luck when I advertise meets. Most of the response is from guys who state they'll be available at a later date.

I do get offers via the ad but ermmmmmmm I am incredibly fussy (I cannot do the fuck and go thing, it would be extremely dissatisfying for me as I'm one of those pain in the arse girls who can take ages to climax ).

My success comes from guys making contact and getting a rapport through messages and then the phone.

How do you find the ads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same experience as you lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Exactly the same experience as you lol "

Ditto.

94 responses. 10 passing through my area in a week. 20 can I do tomorrow daytime. 20 old enough to start telling me about their part in the Hitler's downfall. 20 from somewhere far enough away to make me worry about passport controls (ie, Yorkshire). 20 with no pics and 1 line on their profiles and that being so badly spelt that I have to work out what language it is in. 4 possibles. 1 of whom is as fit as anything, but then realises that he hasn't read my profile and I've not had any ops and am a CD. The other 3 all decide to watch Top Gear on Dave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had any luck at all from an add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly the same experience as you lol

Ditto.

94 responses. 10 passing through my area in a week. 20 can I do tomorrow daytime. 20 old enough to start telling me about their part in the Hitler's downfall. 20 from somewhere far enough away to make me worry about passport controls (ie, Yorkshire). 20 with no pics and 1 line on their profiles and that being so badly spelt that I have to work out what language it is in. 4 possibles. 1 of whom is as fit as anything, but then realises that he hasn't read my profile and I've not had any ops and am a CD. The other 3 all decide to watch Top Gear on Dave. "

Made me make a humph noise smile and reply rapidly! :D

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Our very first meet came from an ad. As they say, it pays to advertise!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I very rarely get luck from advertising meets, and those that do reply have either not read my profile, or not read the ad!

I still post them though. You never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I very rarely get luck from advertising meets, and those that do reply have either not read my profile, or not read the ad!

I still post them though. You never know!"

Yes we must have, Hope fair and chocolate fudge cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never advertised a meet, have been lucky to arrange meets via messages,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a reply

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Professional advertisers would say that you'd have a coordinated campaign and that any one individual ad should be part of the whole, the gestalt.

Communication, via promotion, messages and getting there, so you get to meet others etc, is all part of what can help make your social and sexual life roll better for you.

If you don't get the meet today, from that ad, then it may introduce you to others who will become your best fbs in future.

Get the overall campaign right, and you're going to optimise your results.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Professional advertisers would say that you'd have a coordinated campaign and that any one individual ad should be part of the whole, the gestalt.

Communication, via promotion, messages and getting there, so you get to meet others etc, is all part of what can help make your social and sexual life roll better for you.

If you don't get the meet today, from that ad, then it may introduce you to others who will become your best fbs in future.

Get the overall campaign right, and you're going to optimise your results."

So you're suggesting folk advertise meets on billboards and bus stops then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Professional advertisers would say that you'd have a coordinated campaign and that any one individual ad should be part of the whole, the gestalt.

Communication, via promotion, messages and getting there, so you get to meet others etc, is all part of what can help make your social and sexual life roll better for you.

If you don't get the meet today, from that ad, then it may introduce you to others who will become your best fbs in future.

Get the overall campaign right, and you're going to optimise your results.

So you're suggesting folk advertise meets on billboards and bus stops then? "

Eyes Wide Shut v Legs Wide Open

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Professional advertisers would say that you'd have a coordinated campaign and that any one individual ad should be part of the whole, the gestalt.

Communication, via promotion, messages and getting there, so you get to meet others etc, is all part of what can help make your social and sexual life roll better for you.

If you don't get the meet today, from that ad, then it may introduce you to others who will become your best fbs in future.

Get the overall campaign right, and you're going to optimise your results.

So you're suggesting folk advertise meets on billboards and bus stops then?

Eyes Wide Shut v Legs Wide Open"

Sorry to say I've seen the first. The second has passed me by

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

So you're suggesting folk advertise meets on billboards and bus stops then?

Eyes Wide Shut v Legs Wide Open

Sorry to say I've seen the first. The second has passed me by "

Yet to be released

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We advertised when we were in london last year got loads of one liners. Just deleted them. Have also advertised here in the north east no luck what so ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had much luck through them.

its easier to look for people wanting meets

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

But you insist on a face pic.

Some people won't risk their career by putting face pics on the Internet and would rather just meet for a social drink to see if there is an attraction.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I've successfully responded to an advertised meet. Does that make me a non timewaster?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But you insist on a face pic.

Some people won't risk their career by putting face pics on the Internet and would rather just meet for a social drink to see if there is an attraction."

You're up for blind dates?

Personally I find that foolish but each to their own.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"never had much luck through them.

its easier to look for people wanting meets

"

Lol on first glance at your second profile pic I thought "That's a rather large looking fanny!" I then clicked and zoomed and realised it was a hand

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I very rarely get luck from advertising meets, and those that do reply have either not read my profile, or not read the ad!

I still post them though. You never know!"

Ditto though I do get lucky now and then.

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

Ooo vanilla.

Yes I suppose you could be right but how would you feel if somebody lifted your pics and sent them to friends, family or work colleagues?

I've heard some horror stories in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only ever put up one meet and were very lucky to get a lovely man over to play with mrs. But can see the issues with single ladies getting the chancers trying their luck as some of the messages we got left a lot to be desired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm glad it's not just us...phew ! We was about to change our deodorant. We have been looking for a couple for Trix ( mrs ) to play with, she is a bi fem and after reading lots of posts stating that they are indeed as rare as rocking horse shit, we thought we may get a few nice offers for her..Wrong...we got sod all !....oh well back to the drawing board...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been brave enough to post one for fear of the odd balls that might reply...or even worse an empty inbox!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Never been brave enough to post one for fear of the odd balls that might reply...or even worse an empty inbox!"

You tend to get more when putting up a 'meet today' ad rather than one a few days in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Professional advertisers would say that you'd have a coordinated campaign and that any one individual ad should be part of the whole, the gestalt.

Communication, via promotion, messages and getting there, so you get to meet others etc, is all part of what can help make your social and sexual life roll better for you.

If you don't get the meet today, from that ad, then it may introduce you to others who will become your best fbs in future.

Get the overall campaign right, and you're going to optimise your results.

So you're suggesting folk advertise meets on billboards and bus stops then?

Eyes Wide Shut v Legs Wide Open

Sorry to say I've seen the first. The second has passed me by "

I believe the second is opening soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been brave enough to post one for fear of the odd balls that might reply...or even worse an empty inbox!

You tend to get more when putting up a 'meet today' ad rather than one a few days in advance. "

Might have to experiment whilst I'm off work next week!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Sometimes I use them to see if anyone on my friends list are free. This works best.

Sometimes I am looking for someone new. Then I post my ad then wink at men I am interested in. This can be hit and miss. But have resulted in fantastic multiple meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly the same experience as you lol

Ditto.

94 responses. 10 passing through my area in a week. 20 can I do tomorrow daytime. 20 old enough to start telling me about their part in the Hitler's downfall. 20 from somewhere far enough away to make me worry about passport controls (ie, Yorkshire). 20 with no pics and 1 line on their profiles and that being so badly spelt that I have to work out what language it is in. 4 possibles. 1 of whom is as fit as anything, but then realises that he hasn't read my profile and I've not had any ops and am a CD. The other 3 all decide to watch Top Gear on Dave. "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've only done one as social meet...and guess what NO RESPONSE lol

No way would I do one for a sexual meet, I'm too much a fussy bugger!

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By *ubybabyCouple
over a year ago

lincoln ish

ive never had one reply from meets today so for me they dont work xx but i keep saying one last try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree chemistry and rapport are important - always happy to take it slowly unless there's a clear urgency from the other party. Just depends then on striking up the rapport by mail exchange or other methods before actually meeting up.

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