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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Has anyone ever got pregnant by a fuck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course they have.

intercourse = risk of pregnancy

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Congratulations

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

On here i mean..

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Congratulations "

Im not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few that have... x

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I know a few that have... x "

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"Congratulations

Im not "

sorry but I've known a few cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Congratulations

Im not

sorry but I've known a few cases "

Im one of the cases

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here"

Was it planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed a single fem some months ago that was on here totally single then was leaving as she was pregnant... it could of been vanilla conception but as her posts had been about split condoms etc I think not..

Also its easy way to find a sperm donor for some x

I take 3 lots of precautions and only my play partner cums anywhere near my pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here"

I take it you had a profile previously x

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I noticed a single fem some months ago that was on here totally single then was leaving as she was pregnant... it could of been vanilla conception but as her posts had been about split condoms etc I think not..

Also its easy way to find a sperm donor for some x

I take 3 lots of precautions and only my play partner cums anywhere near my pussy. "

Id quite like a sperm donor tbh haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned "

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo"

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo"

you only been on here 4 weeks though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get broody.

Just don't let them near Fabs!!

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

you only been on here 4 weeks though lol "

She met him 3 weeks ago, and got pregnant first time tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of years ago looked very likely I'd put one there with FB off PoF.

After 12 week scan she it turned out to be her hubby who she was separated from when they got a bit over friendly after their 8 year old's birthday party.

Was a close one though.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Women get broody.

Just don't let them near Fabs!! "

Too late im here

Sperm donor in glasgow anywer??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy "

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Women get broody.

Just don't let them near Fabs!! "

Too late im here

Sperm donor in glasgow anywer??

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?"

This time last year

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

A couple messaged me a while ago, she was pregnant by her bull and hubby was supporting her. So yep, guess it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

She met him 3 weeks ago, and got pregnant first time tho "

and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

Poor guy on fab.. should have covered it up.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A couple messaged me a while ago, she was pregnant by her bull and hubby was supporting her. So yep, guess it does happen. "

Oh my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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She met him 3 weeks ago, and got pregnant first time tho

and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

Poor guy on fab.. should have covered it up. "

least it will make for a good episode of Jeremy kyle?

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

She met him 3 weeks ago, and got pregnant first time tho

and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

Poor guy on fab.. should have covered it up. "

He may be happy?

And if not its his own fault lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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She met him 3 weeks ago, and got pregnant first time tho

and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

Poor guy on fab.. should have covered it up.

He may be happy?

And if not its his own fault lol"

Yup.. it takes two...but as I said.. never trust anyone on here.. I am often asked to go bare.. ( dont though these days) but not once except by my regular playmate, have I been asked about my contraception.

I would never ever trust just condoms to keep me from getting caught...

Bare in mind I am pro people getting pregnant from this.. just not if its trickery.. but I confess I do think guys are stupid if they do first time they meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get broody.

Just don't let them near Fabs!!

Too late im here

Sperm donor in glasgow anywer?? "

Oh s**t!!

Oh wait...I live in London!

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


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She met him 3 weeks ago, and got pregnant first time tho

and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

Poor guy on fab.. should have covered it up.

He may be happy?

And if not its his own fault lol

Yup.. it takes two...but as I said.. never trust anyone on here.. I am often asked to go bare.. ( dont though these days) but not once except by my regular playmate, have I been asked about my contraception.

I would never ever trust just condoms to keep me from getting caught...

Bare in mind I am pro people getting pregnant from this.. just not if its trickery.. but I confess I do think guys are stupid if they do first time they meet someone. "

Jus before i had sex with my sons dad i sed "im not on anything btw" and he sed "its ok a dont work" 2 weeks later sorry son but u do work and very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I did, and now I have 1year old twins!

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yea I did, and now I have 1year old twins!"

How did the father react?

Are yous together now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

"

I think we have all been caught out in the heat of the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

I think we have all been caught out in the heat of the moment "

yup.. thats what morning after pill is for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pregnant,,,OMG how did that happen, ive only slept with 50 men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever got pregnant by a fuck buddy "

is there something you wanna tell us...

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

I think we have all been caught out in the heat of the moment

yup.. thats what morning after pill is for.. "

Unless u want one

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Has anyone ever got pregnant by a fuck buddy

is there something you wanna tell us... "

No......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

I think we have all been caught out in the heat of the moment

yup.. thats what morning after pill is for.. "

Not everyone thinks like that though esp if the man doesn't cum inside them.

I have the depo injection just to make sure lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?"

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet"

Good luck, my sons dad freakd when i told him, and stayed freaked until 4 weeks before i had my son

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"

and states safe sex... I bring people to my previous posts on those that state safe sex and do something else..

I think we have all been caught out in the heat of the moment

yup.. thats what morning after pill is for..

Not everyone thinks like that though esp if the man doesn't cum inside them.

I have the depo injection just to make sure lol."

The jab, yeah I had that. Great thing, except well my little boy is nearly 2 and my pregnancy was so much more complicated because of the jab.

They don't tell you the side effects of the jab, in late pregnancy; nor the increasing fail rate of it when they give it to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet

Good luck, my sons dad freakd when i told him, and stayed freaked until 4 weeks before i had my son "

i dont know if im going to tell him ever its my baby

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet

Good luck, my sons dad freakd when i told him, and stayed freaked until 4 weeks before i had my son

i dont know if im going to tell him ever its my baby"

Really?

Thats ur choice just make sure u make the right one for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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yup.. thats what morning after pill is for..

Not everyone thinks like that though esp if the man doesn't cum inside them.

I have the depo injection just to make sure lol."

I have the implant and take the pill... and I would think unless someone wanted to get pregnant on here they would get the morning after pill xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet

Good luck, my sons dad freakd when i told him, and stayed freaked until 4 weeks before i had my son

i dont know if im going to tell him ever its my baby"

I think he has right to know. Just because 18 years down the line, someone knocks on his door saying you're my daddy in front of his partner and "first born," he'll be wondering how.

But your choice I guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its Christmas, use your imagination, say you are a virgin, and its a miracle !

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my 26 yr olds father is still running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking"

After bein told oh im not anyfin and them proceeding to fuck lol so yes a can blame them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both parties are to blame in case of accidental pregnancies x

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Both parties are to blame in case of accidental pregnancies x"

True

But it seems to be one sex that freaks and the other that has to deal with it

As i experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking"

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

"

I never met my babys dad on here

And i wasnt tryin to get pregnant either

Wasnt on birth control

And honestly thought i couldnt have kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both parties are to blame in case of accidental pregnancies x

True

But it seems to be one sex that freaks and the other that has to deal with it

As i experienced "

Men tend to freak when it wasn't planned.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

"

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

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By *sa fun bradfordMan
over a year ago

bradford/leeds

yes my ex gf got pregnant by her fuck buddy

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Both parties are to blame in case of accidental pregnancies x

True

But it seems to be one sex that freaks and the other that has to deal with it

As i experienced

Men tend to freak when it wasn't planned. "

Thats my point

They freak

Women jus have to deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued "

So why not use condoms... as it obviuosly wasn't spur of the moment, lost in the heat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued "

only he continued?

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

So why not use condoms... as it obviuosly wasn't spur of the moment, lost in the heat "

Just didnt want to tbh

And was quite happy to have a child

And as a said i really thot i couldnt have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both parties are to blame in case of accidental pregnancies x

True

But it seems to be one sex that freaks and the other that has to deal with it

As i experienced "

Which is all the more reason for women to take more care... and morning after pill is free to get and lots of places can issue it.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

only he continued? "

Course not, but i dealt with it when i ended up pregnant he never, and both of us knew what we wer doin

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Both parties are to blame in case of accidental pregnancies x

True

But it seems to be one sex that freaks and the other that has to deal with it

As i experienced

Which is all the more reason for women to take more care... and morning after pill is free to get and lots of places can issue it.

"

Maybe some want a baby

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I know a few that have... x "

Which shall remain nameless I take it Cali?, lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both parties are to blame in case of accidental pregnancies x

True

But it seems to be one sex that freaks and the other that has to deal with it

As i experienced

Men tend to freak when it wasn't planned.

Thats my point

They freak

Women jus have to deal with it "

You can. Morning after pill, pill, condom, implant...

I find most men are happy because it's what they wanted.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Both parties are to blame in case of accidental pregnancies x

True

But it seems to be one sex that freaks and the other that has to deal with it

As i experienced

Men tend to freak when it wasn't planned.

Thats my point

They freak

Women jus have to deal with it

You can. Morning after pill, pill, condom, implant...

I find most men are happy because it's what they wanted. "

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued "

You could have said no!

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo"

Not everyone is holy than thou when it comes to safe sex then, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear.

Officially a new low.

And that's saying something on this site

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

You could have said no!"

Hows this relevant

I got pregnant was happy dealt with it......

He wasnt so why should i have said no when i was quite happy with the consequence??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you are of child bearing age. And you dont use condoms and / or other birth control. Babies will happen.

Men will lie to stick their dicks in you condom free.

Its not rocket science!!!!

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over a year ago


"I know a few that have... x

Which shall remain nameless I take it Cali?, lol x "

Unless they choose to come forward... I do think that as long as a baby is wanted then how they are conceived is not important but I do think it's wrong to not be taking every precaution that you can... as its a lifetime commitment.

The thing is if men had admitted to doing this then they would have been slated..

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Oh dear.

Officially a new low.

And that's saying something on this site"

What is a new low

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"if you are of child bearing age. And you dont use condoms and / or other birth control. Babies will happen.

Men will lie to stick their dicks in you condom free.

Its not rocket science!!!!"

Really?

Tell that to my infertile sister a think she will say otherwise

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over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

Not everyone is holy than thou when it comes to safe sex then, lol "

tried for 9 years to get pregnant with boyfriend, meets a guy off here, no birth control, no condoms, I doubt this pregnancy was a accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever got pregnant by a fuck buddy "

Yes me oh hang on its just my fat belly

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

Not everyone is holy than thou when it comes to safe sex then, lol

tried for 9 years to get pregnant with boyfriend, meets a guy off here, no birth control, no condoms, I doubt this pregnancy was a accident "

Is that a crime if it wasnt though?

Sounds like he was happy to risk becoming a father

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Has anyone ever got pregnant by a fuck buddy

Yes me oh hang on its just my fat belly "

lol

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over a year ago


"if you are of child bearing age. And you dont use condoms and / or other birth control. Babies will happen.

Men will lie to stick their dicks in you condom free.

Its not rocket science!!!!

Really?

Tell that to my infertile sister a think she will say otherwise "

would your sister be trying to have a baby with a random she met off a website?

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over a year ago


"if you are of child bearing age. And you dont use condoms and / or other birth control. Babies will happen.

Men will lie to stick their dicks in you condom free.

Its not rocket science!!!!

Really?

Tell that to my infertile sister a think she will say otherwise "

my daughter had a hysterectomy at 18 so obviously cant have children, but such things go against the norm, there are going to be women who cant have children but as a rule unsafe sex does result in pregnancy's

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"if you are of child bearing age. And you dont use condoms and / or other birth control. Babies will happen.

Men will lie to stick their dicks in you condom free.

Its not rocket science!!!!

Really?

Tell that to my infertile sister a think she will say otherwise

would your sister be trying to have a baby with a random she met off a website?"

No as she has a bf

And also isnt a grieving mother whos desperate for another baby after losing her 2 week old son

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"if you are of child bearing age. And you dont use condoms and / or other birth control. Babies will happen.

Men will lie to stick their dicks in you condom free.

Its not rocket science!!!!

Really?

Tell that to my infertile sister a think she will say otherwise

my daughter had a hysterectomy at 18 so obviously cant have children, but such things go against the norm, there are going to be women who cant have children but as a rule unsafe sex does result in pregnancy's "

Hopefully its easy and im lucky to have another then eh

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet

Good luck, my sons dad freakd when i told him, and stayed freaked until 4 weeks before i had my son

i dont know if im going to tell him ever its my baby"

And what about the child's right to know their parentage???

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

You could have said no!

Hows this relevant

I got pregnant was happy dealt with it......

He wasnt so why should i have said no when i was quite happy with the consequence??"

It's relevant because what you have said up til now is that the only reason you got pregnant is because when you told your bf that you weren't on any contraception, he carried on without a condom anyway. If you were trying for a baby fair enough but if you were just hoping for the best then you are just as at fault as he is, for not insisting on a condom.

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over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

Not everyone is holy than thou when it comes to safe sex then, lol

tried for 9 years to get pregnant with boyfriend, meets a guy off here, no birth control, no condoms, I doubt this pregnancy was a accident

Is that a crime if it wasnt though?

Sounds like he was happy to risk becoming a father "

nope, loads of women go for IVF if they cant have kids, if its the guy who's infertile an easy option is to find a guy off here to give them what they want

I never said I disagreed I just said it don't sound like an accident

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

You could have said no!

Hows this relevant

I got pregnant was happy dealt with it......

He wasnt so why should i have said no when i was quite happy with the consequence??

It's relevant because what you have said up til now is that the only reason you got pregnant is because when you told your bf that you weren't on any contraception, he carried on without a condom anyway. If you were trying for a baby fair enough but if you were just hoping for the best then you are just as at fault as he is, for not insisting on a condom. "

But i was happy to fall pregnant so wasnt fussed on protection

He wasnt wanting to be a dad

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

As far as I'm aware I can't get pregnant due a complicated miscarriage at 7 months pregnant, however I still have the depo injection amd use condoms.

I'm not willing to risk the 'most likely' part of the diagnosis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet

Good luck, my sons dad freakd when i told him, and stayed freaked until 4 weeks before i had my son

i dont know if im going to tell him ever its my baby

And what about the child's right to know their parentage???"

sometimes I think kids are best off just not knowing

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

Not everyone is holy than thou when it comes to safe sex then, lol

tried for 9 years to get pregnant with boyfriend, meets a guy off here, no birth control, no condoms, I doubt this pregnancy was a accident

Is that a crime if it wasnt though?

Sounds like he was happy to risk becoming a father

nope, loads of women go for IVF if they cant have kids, if its the guy who's infertile an easy option is to find a guy off here to give them what they want

I never said I disagreed I just said it don't sound like an accident "

Who knows..

She may have thot this is never gona happen this easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And also isnt a grieving mother whos desperate for another baby after losing her 2 week old son "

if this is the case. You really need to sort this out and a open forum on a sex based website is not the place to do it

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As far as I'm aware I can't get pregnant due a complicated miscarriage at 7 months pregnant, however I still have the depo injection amd use condoms.

I'm not willing to risk the 'most likely' part of the diagnosis. "

Thats wise

Because u dont want one

Just saying some women do hence why they arent too fussed abt goin on anyfin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And also isnt a grieving mother whos desperate for another baby after losing her 2 week old son

if this is the case. You really need to sort this out and a open forum on a sex based website is not the place to do it"

I thought this lounge was open for issues related to swinging and sex.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

And also isnt a grieving mother whos desperate for another baby after losing her 2 week old son

if this is the case. You really need to sort this out and a open forum on a sex based website is not the place to do it"

And how do u sort that out?

Coz right now the only options i see are having another baby asap, which i cant do on my own

Or jumping off a bridge

So i think the first option as daft as it may sounds seems the best one to me

And its easy for someone to judge and call me mad, id prob think the same, but when u are goin through the worst thing that couldn ever possibly happen to anyone, u dont care how mad things seem to others, u jus want what u know will give u happiness, even if its not in the "dream" situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And also isnt a grieving mother whos desperate for another baby after losing her 2 week old son

if this is the case. You really need to sort this out and a open forum on a sex based website is not the place to do it

And how do u sort that out?

Coz right now the only options i see are having another baby asap, which i cant do on my own

Or jumping off a bridge

So i think the first option as daft as it may sounds seems the best one to me

And its easy for someone to judge and call me mad, id prob think the same, but when u are goin through the worst thing that couldn ever possibly happen to anyone, u dont care how mad things seem to others, u jus want what u know will give u happiness, even if its not in the "dream" situation "

no one is judging you. What im saying is you need to be able to speak to someone who can help you properly. Not listen to anyone on here, and certainly not try and get pregnant by someone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. Interesting world we live in, eh?

I'm just surprised that the safe sex crew haven't let rip on this thread yet!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Wow. Interesting world we live in, eh?

I'm just surprised that the safe sex crew haven't let rip on this thread yet! "

There was a lengthy thread started by the OP about safe sex a couple of days ago. Can't be arsed repeating myself lol

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

And also isnt a grieving mother whos desperate for another baby after losing her 2 week old son

if this is the case. You really need to sort this out and a open forum on a sex based website is not the place to do it

And how do u sort that out?

Coz right now the only options i see are having another baby asap, which i cant do on my own

Or jumping off a bridge

So i think the first option as daft as it may sounds seems the best one to me

And its easy for someone to judge and call me mad, id prob think the same, but when u are goin through the worst thing that couldn ever possibly happen to anyone, u dont care how mad things seem to others, u jus want what u know will give u happiness, even if its not in the "dream" situation

no one is judging you. What im saying is you need to be able to speak to someone who can help you properly. Not listen to anyone on here, and certainly not try and get pregnant by someone on here"

I know that seems sensible but being sensible goes to the bottom of the lost when u feel how i do tbh

Im not meeting guys to get pregnant from here, ive only met 2 and not even sure if al meet anymore

But have a thot about how easily i could get what i want from someone frm here..course i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow. Interesting world we live in, eh?

I'm just surprised that the safe sex crew haven't let rip on this thread yet!

There was a lengthy thread started by the OP about safe sex a couple of days ago. Can't be arsed repeating myself lol"

Fair enough!

I've just come to the conclusion that people come here for all manner of reasons and no amount of preaching or protesting will change that.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Wow. Interesting world we live in, eh?

I'm just surprised that the safe sex crew haven't let rip on this thread yet!

There was a lengthy thread started by the OP about safe sex a couple of days ago. Can't be arsed repeating myself lol

Fair enough!

I've just come to the conclusion that people come here for all manner of reasons and no amount of preaching or protesting will change that."

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

Not everyone is holy than thou when it comes to safe sex then, lol

tried for 9 years to get pregnant with boyfriend, meets a guy off here, no birth control, no condoms, I doubt this pregnancy was a accident

Is that a crime if it wasnt though?

Sounds like he was happy to risk becoming a father

nope, loads of women go for IVF if they cant have kids, if its the guy who's infertile an easy option is to find a guy off here to give them what they want

I never said I disagreed I just said it don't sound like an accident

Who knows..

She may have thot this is never gona happen this easily"

i told him i was on the pill.he got what he wanted a 2 hour sex sesh with me and i got what i wanted a baby and what he dont know wont hurt him will it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judgemental brigade out in force again by look of it.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

Not everyone is holy than thou when it comes to safe sex then, lol

tried for 9 years to get pregnant with boyfriend, meets a guy off here, no birth control, no condoms, I doubt this pregnancy was a accident

Is that a crime if it wasnt though?

Sounds like he was happy to risk becoming a father

nope, loads of women go for IVF if they cant have kids, if its the guy who's infertile an easy option is to find a guy off here to give them what they want

I never said I disagreed I just said it don't sound like an accident

Who knows..

She may have thot this is never gona happen this easily

i told him i was on the pill.he got what he wanted a 2 hour sex sesh with me and i got what i wanted a baby and what he dont know wont hurt him will it?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i told him i was on the pill.he got what he wanted a 2 hour sex sesh with me and i got what i wanted a baby and what he dont know wont hurt him will it?"

See this is about the only thing I don't agree with on this subject because it takes away his consent.. yes he should have still used condoms so isn't blameless but also you have only had one meet. You best hope he doesn't frequent the forums.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy."

I can imagine

But see tbh i dont think i will eve have to deal with anything as hard again in my life than what im dealing with now tbh

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"

i told him i was on the pill.he got what he wanted a 2 hour sex sesh with me and i got what i wanted a baby and what he dont know wont hurt him will it?

See this is about the only thing I don't agree with on this subject because it takes away his consent.. yes he should have still used condoms so isn't blameless but also you have only had one meet. You best hope he doesn't frequent the forums. "

Tbh I think her best hope is he doesn't have HIV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

You could have said no!

Hows this relevant

I got pregnant was happy dealt with it......

He wasnt so why should i have said no when i was quite happy with the consequence??"

He wasn't happy/didn't want a child? Should have taken the morning/after pill them. No matter what anybody says both parents will be part of that child's life. Even if its 20 years down the line. You should go on the Jeremy Kyle show

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

Makes for an interesting read, not sure in where this is going or what the OP is actually looking for answer wise but I don't think they'll find it on here. From how it reads you have issues an need to deal with them, a sex forum isn't the place to do this. You ask a question then debate all answers and turn most back to a situation your in/ want to be in. Funny world we live in

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

You could have said no!

Hows this relevant

I got pregnant was happy dealt with it......

He wasnt so why should i have said no when i was quite happy with the consequence??

He wasn't happy/didn't want a child? Should have taken the morning/after pill them. No matter what anybody says both parents will be part of that child's life. Even if its 20 years down the line. You should go on the Jeremy Kyle show "

Just aswell i never, coz he changed his mind and fell in love as soon as he saw our son and couldnt of asked for a better dad

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Makes for an interesting read, not sure in where this is going or what the OP is actually looking for answer wise but I don't think they'll find it on here. From how it reads you have issues an need to deal with them, a sex forum isn't the place to do this. You ask a question then debate all answers and turn most back to a situation your in/ want to be in. Funny world we live in "

Was actually jus curious if anyone has fell pregnant to a fuck buddy and its just escalated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of men arent interested in knowing their kids though, it wouldnt matter to them as long as they didnt have to pay for it. some men are more sensitive though and wouldnt like not to be involved.

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over a year ago


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

You could have said no!

Hows this relevant

I got pregnant was happy dealt with it......

He wasnt so why should i have said no when i was quite happy with the consequence??

He wasn't happy/didn't want a child? Should have taken the morning/after pill them. No matter what anybody says both parents will be part of that child's life. Even if its 20 years down the line. You should go on the Jeremy Kyle show

Just aswell i never, coz he changed his mind and fell in love as soon as he saw our son and couldnt of asked for a better dad"

Everyone who looks at their own child will fall in love with them, but dealing with stress, changing his life completely. Should be his decision not forced upon him and 9 months down the line. Suddenly changing his mind. He should have gone in with his eyes open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to buffy27.....if he reads the forums then he will find out.

also....very interesting..is this guy the same one who is currently under discussion on another thread, by a very love struck lady?

i can see an episode of jeremy kyle coming up.

this is why we follow verification trails, you find out some very interesting information.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

You could have said no!

Hows this relevant

I got pregnant was happy dealt with it......

He wasnt so why should i have said no when i was quite happy with the consequence??

He wasn't happy/didn't want a child? Should have taken the morning/after pill them. No matter what anybody says both parents will be part of that child's life. Even if its 20 years down the line. You should go on the Jeremy Kyle show

Just aswell i never, coz he changed his mind and fell in love as soon as he saw our son and couldnt of asked for a better dad

Everyone who looks at their own child will fall in love with them, but dealing with stress, changing his life completely. Should be his decision not forced upon him and 9 months down the line. Suddenly changing his mind. He should have gone in with his eyes open. "

He made it his decision when he decided to go bareback knowing i wasnt on anything??

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"can hardly blame the guys for freaking. You meet a bird and have a fumble, then low and behold there having your baby?

Way too jeremy Kyle for my liking

I have to admit I agree

though if you don't use condoms you know the risk but I think most will assume that women are taking birth control on here

Cant help but thinking that any women who meets on here who isn't taking birth control and willing to have unprotected sex is trying to get pregnant and its not an accident

And as i said, i told my sons dad, right before he done the deed, that i wasnt on anyfin, and he still continued

You could have said no!

Hows this relevant

I got pregnant was happy dealt with it......

He wasnt so why should i have said no when i was quite happy with the consequence??

He wasn't happy/didn't want a child? Should have taken the morning/after pill them. No matter what anybody says both parents will be part of that child's life. Even if its 20 years down the line. You should go on the Jeremy Kyle show

Just aswell i never, coz he changed his mind and fell in love as soon as he saw our son and couldnt of asked for a better dad

Everyone who looks at their own child will fall in love with them, but dealing with stress, changing his life completely. Should be his decision not forced upon him and 9 months down the line. Suddenly changing his mind. He should have gone in with his eyes open. "

He didnt know the meaning of stress and we all need to change our lives when babies are involved not just men

And it was 6 months btw, my son was premature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet"

When he hears, he'll probably do a "Lone Ranger" cue music .... with a flash of light and a cloud of dust and a hearty heighho Silver... heading for the sunset ... who was that masked man

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over a year ago


"i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy.

I can imagine

But see tbh i dont think i will eve have to deal with anything as hard again in my life than what im dealing with now tbh "

Try and give birth knowing that ur baby is already dead inside u and u go home with such sn empty feeling its horrible but I was lucky enough to have another one but think about ur actions good luck in ur choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet

When he hears, he'll probably do a "Lone Ranger" cue music .... with a flash of light and a cloud of dust and a hearty heighho Silver... heading for the sunset ... who was that masked man "

Forgot to add http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxIuIxqo2So theme tune, ... and he wasn't firing blanks either

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy.

I can imagine

But see tbh i dont think i will eve have to deal with anything as hard again in my life than what im dealing with now tbh

Try and give birth knowing that ur baby is already dead inside u and u go home with such sn empty feeling its horrible but I was lucky enough to have another one but think about ur actions good luck in ur choices"

I cant even imagine that tbh that is awful im lucky i got 2 weeks with my son, but we did have to hold him while his machines were switched off and he died in our arms, believe me it destroys u, yet i still cant imagine how awful ur experience was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy.

I can imagine

But see tbh i dont think i will eve have to deal with anything as hard again in my life than what im dealing with now tbh

Try and give birth knowing that ur baby is already dead inside u and u go home with such sn empty feeling its horrible but I was lucky enough to have another one but think about ur actions good luck in ur choices

I cant even imagine that tbh that is awful im lucky i got 2 weeks with my son, but we did have to hold him while his machines were switched off and he died in our arms, believe me it destroys u, yet i still cant imagine how awful ur experience was "

Its one I never want to go through again or with my son when he has children my first born was stillborn and its the most horrible thing I ever had to do knowing my son was already dead and still had to give birth normally I am now going to be sterilized but thats my choice both pregnancies I had were traumatic and I dnt want to gi through it ever again xx

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy.

I can imagine

But see tbh i dont think i will eve have to deal with anything as hard again in my life than what im dealing with now tbh

Try and give birth knowing that ur baby is already dead inside u and u go home with such sn empty feeling its horrible but I was lucky enough to have another one but think about ur actions good luck in ur choices

I cant even imagine that tbh that is awful im lucky i got 2 weeks with my son, but we did have to hold him while his machines were switched off and he died in our arms, believe me it destroys u, yet i still cant imagine how awful ur experience was

Its one I never want to go through again or with my son when he has children my first born was stillborn and its the most horrible thing I ever had to do knowing my son was already dead and still had to give birth normally I am now going to be sterilized but thats my choice both pregnancies I had were traumatic and I dnt want to gi through it ever again xx "

Hes my first son too and wouldnt wish this on anyone he or i didnt deserve any of this..

I cant help still havin those mummy feelings there tho, wether people want to judge me as being crazy feel free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant with twins

planned with hubby and we had a neonatal death of our daughter last year so we are on tender hooks till the twins arrive safely

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy.

I can imagine

But see tbh i dont think i will eve have to deal with anything as hard again in my life than what im dealing with now tbh "

So sorry for your loss Hun, give yourself time to grieve, time to get your head round it! Of course u will never get over the loss of your baby but be nice to yourself and do things to help u get through it x

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant with twins

planned with hubby and we had a neonatal death of our daughter last year so we are on tender hooks till the twins arrive safely "

Good luck their big sister will be looking out for them

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy.

I can imagine

But see tbh i dont think i will eve have to deal with anything as hard again in my life than what im dealing with now tbh

So sorry for your loss Hun, give yourself time to grieve, time to get your head round it! Of course u will never get over the loss of your baby but be nice to yourself and do things to help u get through it x"

Thank you

Its so hard coz i was ready to be a mummy and in a way it was taken away i still am a mummy but without a child to hold, i wish it was easy for the feelings just to be put to the back of your mind but its not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant with twins

planned with hubby and we had a neonatal death of our daughter last year so we are on tender hooks till the twins arrive safely

Good luck their big sister will be looking out for them"

she will indeed and we know exactly how you feel

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy.

I can imagine

But see tbh i dont think i will eve have to deal with anything as hard again in my life than what im dealing with now tbh

So sorry for your loss Hun, give yourself time to grieve, time to get your head round it! Of course u will never get over the loss of your baby but be nice to yourself and do things to help u get through it x

Thank you

Its so hard coz i was ready to be a mummy and in a way it was taken away i still am a mummy but without a child to hold, i wish it was easy for the feelings just to be put to the back of your mind but its not "

I know what u mean but in a different way, the part about feeling like a mummy but no child to hold!

I hope you have lots of support and love around u Hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't think of anything worse as a guy on here to meet someone, only for her to get pregnant and want to keep it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure as I dont have a fuck buddie, I meet and fuck for one offs lol x.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"i understand how you feel, my sons in his thirties and if anything happened to him when he was little i would want to have another one.

have met some gorgeous, inteligent men on here, if i was young, i wouldnt mind having a baby by them. thinking about it and doing it isnt the same though.

its not so hard being a single parent when they are little but it gets harder when they get older, especialy if you have a boy.

I can imagine

But see tbh i dont think i will eve have to deal with anything as hard again in my life than what im dealing with now tbh

So sorry for your loss Hun, give yourself time to grieve, time to get your head round it! Of course u will never get over the loss of your baby but be nice to yourself and do things to help u get through it x

Thank you

Its so hard coz i was ready to be a mummy and in a way it was taken away i still am a mummy but without a child to hold, i wish it was easy for the feelings just to be put to the back of your mind but its not

I know what u mean but in a different way, the part about feeling like a mummy but no child to hold!

I hope you have lots of support and love around u Hun x"

No matter who or whats around you you would trade it/them all for your baby back, which isnt gona happen so u go to the next best thing, having another wee brother or sister for my son

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Couldn't think of anything worse as a guy on here to meet someone, only for her to get pregnant and want to keep it!"

Maybe that added to then losin ur child?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't think of anything worse as a guy on here to meet someone, only for her to get pregnant and want to keep it!"

Don't say that out aloud as people will slate you

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"

And also isnt a grieving mother whos desperate for another baby after losing her 2 week old son

if this is the case. You really need to sort this out and a open forum on a sex based website is not the place to do it

And how do u sort that out?

Coz right now the only options i see are having another baby asap, which i cant do on my own

Or jumping off a bridge

So i think the first option as daft as it may sounds seems the best one to me

And its easy for someone to judge and call me mad, id prob think the same, but when u are goin through the worst thing that couldn ever possibly happen to anyone, u dont care how mad things seem to others, u jus want what u know will give u happiness, even if its not in the "dream" situation "

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Personally I feel if you have mental and depressive issues like talking about throwing yourself off a bridge it is perhaps best you get your depression sorted before you even consider having another child.

Please dont imagine having a child will make it all better . It is hard word even more so alone as many here will tell you.

Do you not think finding a nice man and settling down make a home and then a baby would be so much more satisfactory than having a baby by a stranger. How do you know these people you are meeting are healthy. ? If its only a year since you lost your baby you are obviously still in distress. You really need to look for medical help.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

hard work .. sorry typo

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

And also isnt a grieving mother whos desperate for another baby after losing her 2 week old son

if this is the case. You really need to sort this out and a open forum on a sex based website is not the place to do it

And how do u sort that out?

Coz right now the only options i see are having another baby asap, which i cant do on my own

Or jumping off a bridge

So i think the first option as daft as it may sounds seems the best one to me

And its easy for someone to judge and call me mad, id prob think the same, but when u are goin through the worst thing that couldn ever possibly happen to anyone, u dont care how mad things seem to others, u jus want what u know will give u happiness, even if its not in the "dream" situation

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Personally I feel if you have mental and depressive issues like talking about throwing yourself off a bridge it is perhaps best you get your depression sorted before you even consider having another child.

Please dont imagine having a child will make it all better . It is hard word even more so alone as many here will tell you.

Do you not think finding a nice man and settling down make a home and then a baby would be so much more satisfactory than having a baby by a stranger. How do you know these people you are meeting are healthy. ? If its only a year since you lost your baby you are obviously still in distress. You really need to look for medical help.

"

Ive had all that councillors and anti depressants, doesnt help much of course i have issues

And of course i would love the ideal man and dream life/home/family but unfortunatley things dont always work like that, not gona wait til am 40 for some perfect guy that may not exist

And as a said its easy to judge someone and tell them how to feel/do things/wait unless ur goin through it

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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

My sons girlfriend did just got DNA results back not his someone off here he didnt wanna know but hey thats life ....

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I am not judging at all..

I just pointed out that having a baby whilst you are so depressed isnt a wise move.

I have been on antidepressants for years and understand peoples feelings very well. It can take a long time to find the right dose and it sounds like you need to go back and get more help and different meds till something does work.

You seem to imagine that having a baby will stop you being depressed ..IT WONT.

At 25 perhaps getting out changing your job reassessing your life choices.. go back to college study save up take a good holiday or travel for a few months .. see more of the world meet more people. So many options. That way you stand more chance of meeting a life partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not judging at all..

I just pointed out that having a baby whilst you are so depressed isnt a wise move.

I have been on antidepressants for years and understand peoples feelings very well. It can take a long time to find the right dose and it sounds like you need to go back and get more help and different meds till something does work.

You seem to imagine that having a baby will stop you being depressed ..IT WONT.

At 25 perhaps getting out changing your job reassessing your life choices.. go back to college study save up take a good holiday or travel for a few months .. see more of the world meet more people. So many options. That way you stand more chance of meeting a life partner.

"

Speaks a lot of sense. Also having a child to make you happier won't make you happy at all. There is a chance you may neglect it de to your depression and other issues and no child deserves to be brought up in a unhappy home.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I am not judging at all..

I just pointed out that having a baby whilst you are so depressed isnt a wise move.

I have been on antidepressants for years and understand peoples feelings very well. It can take a long time to find the right dose and it sounds like you need to go back and get more help and different meds till something does work.

You seem to imagine that having a baby will stop you being depressed ..IT WONT.

At 25 perhaps getting out changing your job reassessing your life choices.. go back to college study save up take a good holiday or travel for a few months .. see more of the world meet more people. So many options. That way you stand more chance of meeting a life partner.

"

I see your point

Im at college and enjoy the job i do so things are ok on that sense

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I am not judging at all..

I just pointed out that having a baby whilst you are so depressed isnt a wise move.

I have been on antidepressants for years and understand peoples feelings very well. It can take a long time to find the right dose and it sounds like you need to go back and get more help and different meds till something does work.

You seem to imagine that having a baby will stop you being depressed ..IT WONT.

At 25 perhaps getting out changing your job reassessing your life choices.. go back to college study save up take a good holiday or travel for a few months .. see more of the world meet more people. So many options. That way you stand more chance of meeting a life partner.

Speaks a lot of sense. Also having a child to make you happier won't make you happy at all. There is a chance you may neglect it de to your depression and other issues and no child deserves to be brought up in a unhappy home. "

How do u know what will make me happy??

I have friends who have went theough what i have, and having another child has helped them so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not judging at all..

I just pointed out that having a baby whilst you are so depressed isnt a wise move.

I have been on antidepressants for years and understand peoples feelings very well. It can take a long time to find the right dose and it sounds like you need to go back and get more help and different meds till something does work.

You seem to imagine that having a baby will stop you being depressed ..IT WONT.

At 25 perhaps getting out changing your job reassessing your life choices.. go back to college study save up take a good holiday or travel for a few months .. see more of the world meet more people. So many options. That way you stand more chance of meeting a life partner.

Speaks a lot of sense. Also having a child to make you happier won't make you happy at all. There is a chance you may neglect it de to your depression and other issues and no child deserves to be brought up in a unhappy home.

How do u know what will make me happy??

I have friends who have went theough what i have, and having another child has helped them so much "

Because people can't be replaced. If anyone does that and genuinely means it when they say they are happy and don't have a off day. It shows they great babies like dolls/toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet"

If he reads the forums he will know now

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I am not judging at all..

I just pointed out that having a baby whilst you are so depressed isnt a wise move.

I have been on antidepressants for years and understand peoples feelings very well. It can take a long time to find the right dose and it sounds like you need to go back and get more help and different meds till something does work.

You seem to imagine that having a baby will stop you being depressed ..IT WONT.

At 25 perhaps getting out changing your job reassessing your life choices.. go back to college study save up take a good holiday or travel for a few months .. see more of the world meet more people. So many options. That way you stand more chance of meeting a life partner.

Speaks a lot of sense. Also having a child to make you happier won't make you happy at all. There is a chance you may neglect it de to your depression and other issues and no child deserves to be brought up in a unhappy home.

How do u know what will make me happy??

I have friends who have went theough what i have, and having another child has helped them so much

Because people can't be replaced. If anyone does that and genuinely means it when they say they are happy and don't have a off day. It shows they great babies like dolls/toys. "

No one or nothing will come close to replacing my son

But i know being a mummy to his brother or sister will help me, not for a second saying it would be easy as im not daft, but knowing myself i know it will help more than it doesnt help

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I am not judging at all..

I just pointed out that having a baby whilst you are so depressed isnt a wise move.

I have been on antidepressants for years and understand peoples feelings very well. It can take a long time to find the right dose and it sounds like you need to go back and get more help and different meds till something does work.

You seem to imagine that having a baby will stop you being depressed ..IT WONT.

At 25 perhaps getting out changing your job reassessing your life choices.. go back to college study save up take a good holiday or travel for a few months .. see more of the world meet more people. So many options. That way you stand more chance of meeting a life partner.

Speaks a lot of sense. Also having a child to make you happier won't make you happy at all. There is a chance you may neglect it de to your depression and other issues and no child deserves to be brought up in a unhappy home.

How do u know what will make me happy??

I have friends who have went theough what i have, and having another child has helped them so much

Because people can't be replaced. If anyone does that and genuinely means it when they say they are happy and don't have a off day. It shows they great babies like dolls/toys. "

And if u mean me, my son is far from treated like a doll or toy, hes treated like a blessing and the prince he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet

If he reads the forums he will know now "

You can imagine the his mates/family asking him or people in years to come how he found out.

People he knows will say - Did she tell you straight away?

Him - No

People he knows - Did she tell people she knew and it got round to you at some point?

Him - No.

People he knows - Did you notice change in her behaviour or even over heard her?

Him - no.

People he knows - You didn't find out on a well known social networking site did you?

Him - No I didn't. I found out on a sex site in one of the forums.

News like that should have got to be told face to face or as soon as it starts to become public knowledge. The father should know from the mother. Not second hand information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i told him i was on the pill.he got what he wanted a 2 hour sex sesh with me and i got what i wanted a baby and what he dont know wont hurt him will it?

See this is about the only thing I don't agree with on this subject because it takes away his consent.. yes he should have still used condoms so isn't blameless but also you have only had one meet. You best hope he doesn't frequent the forums. "

The issue of him being happy to go bareback is his look out. The fact of him being lied to about birth control should be an eyeopener to any guy who is only worried about unwanted pregnancy rather than sti's. Just shows that you leave yourself wide open in these scenarios. And I'd suspect many would be more willing to lie about sti's and being tested than the fact they're not actually on any kind of birth control and are actively trying to get pregnant!

It's a funny old world!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im currently preggy with my first baby and yes it was a guy i meet off here

Was it planned

no but i tryed with the x for 9yrs with no sucsess i went with this guy once and bingo

That happend to me got pregnant first time with a guy

So does that mean you're currently pregnant? Or is that in the past?

no im preggy now but havnt told him yet

Good luck, my sons dad freakd when i told him, and stayed freaked until 4 weeks before i had my son

i dont know if im going to tell him ever its my baby

And what about the child's right to know their parentage???

sometimes I think kids are best off just not knowing

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Try being a 23 year old who has no relationship with their father.....100% don't agree with your comment because of how its affected me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to buffy27.....if he reads the forums then he will find out.

also....very interesting..is this guy the same one who is currently under discussion on another thread, by a very love struck lady?

i can see an episode of jeremy kyle coming up.

this is why we follow verification trails, you find out some very interesting linformation."
.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear.

Officially a new low.

And that's saying something on this site"

Totally agree

Trying to bite my lip, but honestly, what a moronic state of affairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely conversation for the children to be having in the future.

"Hey mum, how did you meet my dad and where is he?

don't know love he was a fuck on a swinging site."

How special!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear.

Officially a new low.

And that's saying something on this site

Totally agree

Trying to bite my lip, but honestly, what a moronic state of affairs."

Sadly this story reminds me of a psycho I came across last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lovely conversation for the children to be having in the future.

"Hey mum, how did you meet my dad and where is he?

don't know love he was a fuck on a swinging site."

How special!!!

"

to be honest I think a " Sorry It was a one night stand" would be used.. I know I used that with one of mine for a bit.. as it was preferable to the truth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt it time to close this thread?its getting tedious and as someone so rightly said a swinging site isn't the place to discuss life time partners and miscarriages.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Isnt it time to close this thread?its getting tedious and as someone so rightly said a swinging site isn't the place to discuss life time partners and miscarriages."

My son wasnt a miscarriage

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts and we can leave it there

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