FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging clubs

By *erenowforyou OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

I have never been to a swingers club but would really like to go to one, but i am worried that i won't know anyone or that i won't be anyones type,

Would really appreciate your advice on going to a swinger clubs.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the sounds of it you would be better meeting someone to accompany you there.

By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Decide where you want to go. The reviews section might help.

Call the club and ask about membership. They often have waiting lists for men.

Go and actually go in. Don't sit in the car park waiting to find the nerve, take a deep breath and walk in. Dress according to the dress code of the club. Be clean and well groomed. Speak to the staff, tell them you are new and ask for a tour and advice about using the club.

Go without any expectation of fun. Be friendly, polite and respectful. Don't follow women or couples around. Don't touch without permission. If you're unsure about anything, ask. If you're feeling shy and finding it hard to mix ask staff if they can introduce you to some of the regulars.

See what happens. Good luck.