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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are winks a waste of time ?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Are winks a waste of time ?"

Seldom look at them and when I do: mass delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for some.

Between that and writing a message, you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.

I tend to use both. What I have discovered (and what you can 100% rely on) is that people are different and will like different things.

Mix it up and hope for the best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dunno, i like a wink, its nice to know someone has looked at u and shown some interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are winks a waste of time ?"

no.....how much time have you actually wasted if you don't get a response?!

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

We use it as 1st point of contact,we don't email people 1st.

Saying that we haven't met anyone yet, just building up rapport if it means anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink and send messages just depends but get the same response with both nothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are winks a waste of time ?"

With some people they will be others dont mind them which is which though you cant tell before sending them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a decent way of saying that you like the look of someone. The most fun I've had on here has started with a wink.

On the other hand, some people get really @rsey about them and will block just on having seen a wink. To those I say....Lighten up.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Are winks a waste of time ?"

I'll tell you soon! He winked and I winked, now he's mailed me...if all goes to plan I'll give a big thumbs up to winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wink and send messages just depends but get the same response with both nothing lol"

Lol. Keep looking mate. You'll be fine.

This simply highlights that sometimes you just can't win with some people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are winks a waste of time ?

I'll tell you soon! He winked and I winked, now he's mailed me...if all goes to plan I'll give a big thumbs up to winks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been accused of sending unwanted winks, problem is I have an ocular twitch, what's a guy to do.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Are winks a waste of time ?

I'll tell you soon! He winked and I winked, now he's mailed me...if all goes to plan I'll give a big thumbs up to winks "

Ooh! Can I join in?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Theres no right or wrong answer,,, its a feature the site provides some use some don t, some dislike them,,

I dont send winks, thats a personal choice, I do like to receive them along with messages and fabs, it tells me someone likes something about me,

if I do receive them I ll message the Lady or couple ,,

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

i like them...

i tend to wink if i like the look of someone as a sign of appreciation who doesn't necessarily fit what w're looking for, or us them, but just to say "hey"

Ruby x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We used to just mass delete winks but have started looking at them.

Will wink back if they are localish and we like what they see. Then leave the ball in their court to message us....

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Something of nothing really

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I clearly state why I would wink on my profile and when I get a wink I search for that explanation on the user's profile. It helps me decide what my next move will be..99.9% of the time I ingore...but then there is that one 'wink' that tells me exactly what the person means and there is no 'Grey' area.

Straight forward and to the point is how I was brought up. Pussy footing aroung makes me edgy and uncomfortable. I need thing to be clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice quite a few couples use winks as their first engagement with me. I then reply back to say 'hi, thanks for the wink, what can I do for you? Here are some pics' Or something like that. They then either continue on to messaging or just don't reply. Either way it's cool.

So winks are fine with me. However I rarely use them myself as a form of engagement.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I notice quite a few couples use winks as their first engagement with me. I then reply back to say 'hi, thanks for the wink, what can I do for you? Here are some pics' Or something like that. They then either continue on to messaging or just don't reply. Either way it's cool.

So winks are fine with me. However I rarely use them myself as a form of engagement.

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

If we recieve a wink from a couple we always say hi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for the feedback

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Some of my best meets have started with a wink.

It just shows they are interested. I quite often wink gentlemen I like the look off.

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

i wink and if i get one back then ill send a message ,and go from there

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Mmm I tend to react, like I would if a person winked (was going to say normal life) face to face. I find them intriguing

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