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By *orny69pussy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Is it unsafe sex to give someone a BJ without a condom on if they don't cum in your mouth?

Is it a definate no no for swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V doesnt give oral with condoms on

is it unsafe?

only if she does it in the middle of tesco's

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's very quiet in here at the moment, hence the lack of replies. Trouble is with any person to person fluid exchange, there will be a risk, however minimal - and there will be fluid from a cock before the guy cums, not just pre-cum but pre-pre cum and if the guy has any STD that can be transmitted that way, then there is a risk.

It's up to you to decide what level of risk is acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want ANYONE giving me a bj while I wore a condom thanx so I guess it's a 'do as you pleasey' scenario.

I've given thousands of bjs over the years but never to anyone wearing a condom n I ain't dead or diseased.......yet

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

No sex is safe whether oral or any other but saying that I'd not blow a rubbered cock as they taste disgusting. Each to their own but not for me it's got to be skin on skin for oral!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is as Steve above says the risk is with diseases that transferred via fluids and its the same for guys giving oral to girls to.

I did ask about it at the clinic the last time I got checked and there is a risk for gonorrhoea etc but HIV is much less unless you have a very large open wound in your mouth.

Ultimately its down to you to weigh up the risks and what is acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no risk of getting pregnant through oral sex. However, you can catch or pass on some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) by having oral sex.

There’s also some evidence that women receiving oral sex may be at greater risk of vaginal thrush.

STIs that can be passed on through oral sex include: 

chlamydia 

genital warts 

gonorrhoea 

hepatitis B 

herpes 

syphilis

The risk is generally higher if you give rather than receive oral sex. This is because you’re more likely to be exposed to genital fluids.

The risk is also higher if you have cuts, sores or ulcers in your mouth. Avoid brushing your teeth or using dental floss shortly before giving oral sex as this could cause your gums to bleed. If you want to freshen your mouth first, you could try mouthwash or mints instead.

If you think you may have an STI, see your GP or go to your nearest sexual health or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic

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By *orny69pussy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

ok thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (emz) wont give bjs with condoms on, hate the taste and texture but its each to there own.

There is always a risk but its your personal choice x

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

And it's polite to ask if it is okay to CIM

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There’s no risk of getting pregnant through oral sex. However, you can catch or pass on some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) by having oral sex.

There’s also some evidence that women receiving oral sex may be at greater risk of vaginal thrush.

STIs that can be passed on through oral sex include: 

chlamydia 

genital warts 

gonorrhoea 

hepatitis B 

herpes 

syphilis

The risk is generally higher if you give rather than receive oral sex. This is because you’re more likely to be exposed to genital fluids.

The risk is also higher if you have cuts, sores or ulcers in your mouth. Avoid brushing your teeth or using dental floss shortly before giving oral sex as this could cause your gums to bleed. If you want to freshen your mouth first, you could try mouthwash or mints instead.

If you think you may have an STI, see your GP or go to your nearest sexual health or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic"

I wonder if using an antiseptic mouthwash after would reduce risk - eg pop to the bathroom at the end of proceedings, nothing intrusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like chewing rubber, then I suppose you could always nibble on the eraser at the end of a pencil.

BJ's with condoms is like being promised a BIG birthday cake and getting a Rice Krispie square instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it's polite to ask if it is okay to CIM"

did you play the police man on 'allo 'allo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it's polite to ask if it is okay to CIM

did you play the police man on 'allo 'allo?"

I bet you were possed off???

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By *orny69pussy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"And it's polite to ask if it is okay to CIM

did you play the police man on 'allo 'allo?

I bet you were possed off???"

And omg, been worried I might have got pregnant from it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it's polite to ask if it is okay to CIM

did you play the police man on 'allo 'allo?"

Very sharp ha ha ha love it!!

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