FabSwingers.com forum: faked it?

By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Have you ever faked orgasm when playing?

Just wondering....

Julie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always keep a sachet of salad cream tucked in my sock just in case I need to fake it.

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By *elkel1979Woman
over a year ago

Cumbria

Never x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do fish swim...

Of course I fake it sometimes,

I want my date to feel 7ft tall, like a sex god.

They are usually blindfolded and heavily restrained, so would have no idea anyway.

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on a meet but a few times with an ex

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Do fish swim...

Of course I fake it sometimes,

I want my date to feel 7ft tall, like a sex god.

They are usually blindfolded and heavily restrained, so would have no idea anyway.

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

I disagree on the last sentence. My partner is always interested/keen that i come. He never can tell if i have or not, and luckily he doesn't read the forums

But i agree on a meet i have done fantastic fake orgasms. It's not that i didn't enjoy the sex i just didn't come... The guys put a good effort in & deserved decent feedback

And i sincerely hope i meet all of them again for more fun

Julie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have, many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

That's such crap

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No but I have said 'this is doing nothing for me' and stopped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" The guys put a good effort in & deserved decent feedback "

Right on sister your a true man lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

That's such crap "

expected response from a stud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if I can't reach climax, I would tell the gent so that he would stop whatever he is doing, give myself a break, and start again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never from a meet but lots and lots of times with my ex husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

That's such crap

expected response from a stud

I'm not a stud, and I don't have to be made to feel like one because I'm not a child who needs constant reassuring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes last week...then carried on in a different position and actually came for real...she thought I was mega talented Haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup loads of times..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of times actually ...stupid really.

It's a pretty poor show though particularly in a relationship and generally demonstrates a lack of maturity to just say look this isn't working for me, perhaps we should try X, Y and Z ...

As a man I'm extremely concerned that the women is enjoying herself - this is one of Thule things that turns me on and gives me my own sense of pleasure

Comunication - the key to a good sex life

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

When I was younger I did plenty of times, wouldn't do it now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a couple of times actually ...stupid really.

It's a pretty poor show though particularly in a relationship and generally demonstrates a lack of maturity to just say look this isn't working for me, perhaps we should try X, Y and Z ...

As a man I'm extremely concerned that the women is enjoying herself - this is one of Thule things that turns me on and gives me my own sense of pleasure

Comunication - the key to a good sex life

Your right about that of course. You would have thought after 24 years of wedded bliss we would have been mature enough to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever faked orgasm when playing?

Just wondering....

Julie"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a couple of times actually ...stupid really.

It's a pretty poor show though particularly in a relationship and generally demonstrates a lack of maturity to just say look this isn't working for me, perhaps we should try X, Y and Z ...

As a man I'm extremely concerned that the women is enjoying herself - this is one of Thule things that turns me on and gives me my own sense of pleasure

Comunication - the key to a good sex life

U really think in porn films they not faking it ?

They the biggest fakers

Yes I've faked them sometimes

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

"No, if I can't reach climax, I would tell the gent so that he would stop whatever he is doing, give myself a break, and start again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I would 'implode', when very close to orgasm, and then pretend I had climaxed. Stupid. These things happen, and if you don't communicate, you'll never progress from there. No more faking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

I'd love to know where you got this info.?

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

"Do fish swim...

Of course I fake it sometimes,

I want my date to feel 7ft tall, like a sex god.

They are usually blindfolded and heavily restrained, so would have no idea anyway.

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

I strongly disagree I get off on my lady cumming and like having control over them lol but so far never left a lady with out at least one orgasm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep

when i'm getting bored with someone I fake cumming as it usually makes them cum quicker then I can go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do fish swim...

Of course I fake it sometimes,

I want my date to feel 7ft tall, like a sex god.

They are usually blindfolded and heavily restrained, so would have no idea anyway.

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

I actually agree with that, I think men making you cum is more for their ego than your pleasure

you only have to look at the squirting obsession to see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do fish swim...

Of course I fake it sometimes,

I want my date to feel 7ft tall, like a sex god.

They are usually blindfolded and heavily restrained, so would have no idea anyway.

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

I actually agree with that, I think men making you cum is more for their ego than your pleasure

you only have to look at the squirting obsession to see that"

Squirting aka as pissing obsession is coming from all the porn they keep watching

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Sometimes I would 'implode', when very close to orgasm,

Haha, yes, I've had that feeling - but funnily enough in the context of a good session, and especially in an ongoing relationship, I was still satisfied, so I never faked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do fish swim...

Of course I fake it sometimes,

I want my date to feel 7ft tall, like a sex god.

They are usually blindfolded and heavily restrained, so would have no idea anyway.

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

I actually agree with that, I think men making you cum is more for their ego than your pleasure

you only have to look at the squirting obsession to see that

Squirting aka as pissing obsession is coming from all the porn they keep watching

totally agree, I don't see the fascination with it myself, but because its a visual thing men would sooner make you do that than give you a real orgasm

Lots of men anyway I cant say all men I have met have but a hell of a lot have been fixated on gushing/squirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do fish swim...

Of course I fake it sometimes,

I want my date to feel 7ft tall, like a sex god.

They are usually blindfolded and heavily restrained, so would have no idea anyway.

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

I actually agree with that, I think men making you cum is more for their ego than your pleasure

you only have to look at the squirting obsession to see that

Squirting aka as pissing obsession is coming from all the porn they keep watching

totally agree, I don't see the fascination with it myself, but because its a visual thing men would sooner make you do that than give you a real orgasm

Lots of men anyway I cant say all men I have met have but a hell of a lot have been fixated on gushing/squirting "

Pftttt they can go with the gushers and the pissers, I'm not pissing for anyone

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"I always keep a sachet of salad cream tucked in my sock just in case I need to fake it."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Have you ever faked orgasm when playing?

Just wondering....

Julie"

Oh please...

How will they learn and what on earth would be the point in faking? How would that fulfil my needs?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever wld i fake an orgasm to make a man feel good bout himself.

As for this latest craze/obsession/fixation about gushing/squirting it's driving me crazy. Alot of guy's i've met these last few month's seem to think thats the bee all n end all !! Im sick of repetative fast in out finger movements and just fast circular movements on the clitoris. It just creates friction n me thinking hurry fucking up.

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

Yes , I have faked it before , but it really paid off and I learnt a little something about my responses ...a few years ago when I was swinging with my ex , we were playing with a couple , same room swap , and my partner was giving the lady oral at the same time as the other guy was licking me , anyway , she came , loudly lol , very quickly they stopped for a bit then he carried on licking her , she came again and this went on several times while her poor hubby was trying his best to get me there ...but that was it for me., my brain just went oh god poor man down there he must be thinking ffs hurry up my tongues gonna drop off , wish I was licking the missus she's so much easier than you !

Anyway , after she'd come about 7 times and with each time I was more distracted and more almost embarrassed that I hadn't I just wanted the pressure off so I faked it , moaned and thrashed about a bit etc .so , in my head the pressure was taken off , luckily for me, he was obviously one of those guys that just love to lick cos he carried on and I was just relaxed and had an incredibly intense orgasm !

Clearly I had been overthinking the whole thing instead of just going with the flow and enjoying what was happening to me rather than feeling inadequate ...anyway lesson learned ..chillax!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never ever wld i fake an orgasm to make a man feel good bout himself.

I'm sick of men asking me if I squirt aka pissing. No I don't fooking squirt and I'm glad I don't. All that jabbing away at my privates with their fat fooking fingers and then expecting me to piss all over them

Just makes me sore and uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never ever wld i fake an orgasm to make a man feel good bout himself.

Just makes me sore and uncomfortable

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well said x

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Yes. Years & years worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never faked it with my ex to make him feel good! Just so he would hurry up

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Have you ever faked orgasm when playing?

Just wondering....

Julie

Oh please...

How will they learn and what on earth would be the point in faking? How would that fulfil my needs?!!"

Does it make you feel good when the person your with orgasms? Or would you rather she didn't come than fake it? Seriously? Be honest.

The sex I have had has been good. I guess sometimes I just can't let myself go all the way. For me the orgasm for me is not the be all and end all. The sex is

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Did with an ex once. I just couldn't cum that day and was worried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I had a very bad meet once I couldn't cum no matter what he tried (even coached him) but he was insistent he wasn't leaving til I had so I faked it to get it over with then never saw him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a couple of times actually ...stupid really.

It's a pretty poor show though particularly in a relationship and generally demonstrates a lack of maturity to just say look this isn't working for me, perhaps we should try X, Y and Z ...

As a man I'm extremely concerned that the women is enjoying herself - this is one of Thule things that turns me on and gives me my own sense of pleasure

Comunication - the key to a good sex life

U really think in porn films they not faking it ?

They the biggest fakers "

Obviously the women are - by definition - porn is 'fake'

Although I was watching a documentary once and some of the women did say they do orgasm occasionally during a shoot

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

"Do fish swim...

Of course I fake it sometimes,

I want my date to feel 7ft tall, like a sex god.

They are usually blindfolded and heavily restrained, so would have no idea anyway.

Men are not interested if their partner cums or not, but they like to feel as if they are super sex studs, why not keep the illusion alive.

Sorry but your last paragraph, regarding men not caring about their partners orgasm, is a utter crap. Are you actually saying that ALL men are simply in it for their own pleasure?

Talking about sweeping statements!

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