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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so I've been on here a few months now and to no avail. I've had minimal contact with women to couples and I rarely get a reply if I send a message out. I'm never rude and I'm always subtle in the way I word my messages as well so I'm bewildered as to what I'm doing wrong .

Please could anyone give me some advice in regards to improving my profile or pictures? Would be extremely appreciated!

Thank you in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go check out some guy profiles and write some more- say whats good about you, what you like, what you'd like to do etc.

Oh and BBC means big black cock round here!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It Is not about the profile. it is about who you are and how many effort you put in it. Plenty will turn you down, but the few who will accept you will make it worth it if you deserve it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you guys! I suppose this sort of thing is a work in progress. I hope I find the right way soon though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm toooooooo young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with the pics. No cock shots !! Hooray

Write a bit about your self, what you like/what your looking for.

Also try socials/clubs to actually meet people. Also use the forums to chat to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard for men on here ! But even harder for men as young as you .... Try try and try again you will get there good luck Hx

Not very helpful I know !! Soz !!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

If it is hard for men on this site, my advise is to take the site as bonus. At 20 you can enjoy yourself elsewhere and take here as somewhere you can come to discuss topics you may be capable of talking about in every day life

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

My advise is don't take the site too seriously...have a giggle and dont get pissed off when you dont get replies...

Send out 100 messages and 1 or 2 might take an interest, haha

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Consider socials as a way to meet people and get some veris. I think there's one coming up in Manchester. Look in meet requests and parties or UK forum for info.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat to be honest I'm beginning to think I'm completely undesirable. I've not had a single bit of attention from any females on the site and very few replies to msgs. However I do seem to get a LOT of attention from gay men and ts's even tho I'm straight as my profile says which is flattering but not what I'm after haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience, patience, patience!

Listen to the advice others have given as well and patience!

FAB is hard work for a single guy, even more so for one as young as you. As long as you stay nice and respectful, dont complain or come to the forums to bitch then it will happen.

There are women on here who like em young, and you are prime fillet matey.

Dont get down hearted when your messages go unread or just deleted without reply, its par for the course and makes those ones that do reply all the more special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One line profile and way too young, too far too so whilst your pictures are nice and you are not bad looking, if I was into your age group there is nothing to tempt me to drive for over 2 hrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The first thing to say is DO NOT let this site affect your self exteem, it isn't a real reflection of the social interaction taht goes on in person.

You need to take the "I implore" out of your profile it sounds like begging and just write a small paragraph about what you can offer people and what you are looking for from them.

Your age will put people off but not everyone, so see this as a distraction, a hobby if you like and I wish you good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm in the same boat to be honest I'm beginning to think I'm completely undesirable. I've not had a single bit of attention from any females on the site and very few replies to msgs. However I do seem to get a LOT of attention from gay men and ts's even tho I'm straight as my profile says which is flattering but not what I'm after haha"

Never let a site like this make you feel undesirable, same advice to you as the op and good luck

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"One line profile and way too young, too far too so whilst your pictures are nice and you are not bad looking, if I was into your age group there is nothing to tempt me to drive for over 2 hrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in the same boat to be honest I'm beginning to think I'm completely undesirable. I've not had a single bit of attention from any females on the site and very few replies to msgs. However I do seem to get a LOT of attention from gay men and ts's even tho I'm straight as my profile says which is flattering but not what I'm after haha

Never let a site like this make you feel undesirable, same advice to you as the op and good luck "
thanks. I never take it personally if people don't reply different people like different things it just got to me a bit last night

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Ok, so I've been on here a few months now and to no avail. I've had minimal contact with women to couples and I rarely get a reply if I send a message out. I'm never rude and I'm always subtle in the way I word my messages as well so I'm bewildered as to what I'm doing wrong .

Please could anyone give me some advice in regards to improving my profile or pictures? Would be extremely appreciated!

Thank you in advance. "

When I look at a profile I want to get an idea of what that person is like, what they are into and what they have to offer. Profiles that say to message for that information put me right off as I don't want to have to interrogate someone to find out basic information. I would probably just move on to the next one.

I don't think many women here do send out first messages so you could be waiting a long time for that to happen.

On the plus side you are very good looking (would be nice to see a smile though!) and have some good pictures.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ok, so I've been on here a few months now and to no avail. I've had minimal contact with women to couples and I rarely get a reply if I send a message out. I'm never rude and I'm always subtle in the way I word my messages as well so I'm bewildered as to what I'm doing wrong .

Please could anyone give me some advice in regards to improving my profile or pictures? Would be extremely appreciated!

Thank you in advance.

When I look at a profile I want to get an idea of what that person is like, what they are into and what they have to offer. Profiles that say to message for that information put me right off as I don't want to have to interrogate someone to find out basic information. I would probably just move on to the next one.

I don't think many women here do send out first messages so you could be waiting a long time for that to happen.

On the plus side you are very good looking (would be nice to see a smile though!) and have some good pictures. "

This!

Op you're up against thousands of men. Your age will be against you and your lazy profile will cut your chances even more.

I look at the profile before the message, if there's no information I delete without reading. Put some effort in op!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My advice is to continue to buy clinique for men and Lush products as they are very good. 3 toothbrushes and 2 razors is a little excessive and you look like you have lipstick on.

Patience, young Jedi....it's more a lifestyle this recreational sex lark, not a site for instant sex although it may seem like that sometimes. Go to a social and meet likeminded peeps.

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