FabSwingers.com forum: Greedy girls or selfish guys?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been to a couple of 'greedy girls' events and would suggest that they be actually renamed 'selfish guys'. Seriously, the guys I have met just expect to stick their cock in your mouth without so much as a snog. Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might be the dripping cum from ur mouth.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"might be the dripping cum from ur mouth.....

Nice to see though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"might be the dripping cum from ur mouth.....

Say it as it is lol

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

No talking, no communication, no connection, no empathy, just suck his cock.

Is it a dominance thing?

Thank you, but no thank you.

Seeing how some men are is an education which my women friends endorse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm serious, I am a sensuous, sexy woman who likes sex. In that way, I might be a little 'greedy'.... but I am not interested in guys who don't 'give' a little too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been to a couple of 'greedy girls' events and would suggest that they be actually renamed 'selfish guys'. Seriously, the guys I have met just expect to stick their cock in your mouth without so much as a snog. Not for me.

erm.. thats kinda that point... I wouldnt expect someone to even want to kiss me at a greedy girls night.. on the fact I may just have had another 10 or more guys cocks in my mouth.

Its only selfish when guys monopolise the girls in my eyes.. If someone has been to long I get him to come back later lol

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

I think some guys confuse girls wanting to have fun means wanting to feel used.. WRONG GUYS!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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This happened to my wife Thursday night. Came on her face and just walked off.would of been ok if was a bukkake but it wasn't.

Yes some guy are real selfish cunts. Won't happen again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think some guys confuse girls wanting to have fun means wanting to feel used.. WRONG GUYS!!"

Exactly.... greedy for pleasuring... not for using.... IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to my wife Thursday night. Came on her face and just walked off.would of been ok if was a bukkake but it wasn't.

Yes some guy are real selfish cunts. Won't happen again.

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I'dve stayed for a lickout also...pick me next time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I think I'm doing a public service by making it known that it's not acceptable. Women need a bit of warming up first. (Well, most women I know....) That's all I'm saying....

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By *abswimmersMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Kissing a girl durin a gangbang dosn't bother me if your scared of comeing into contact with someones cum I dont attend one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's all we look for.... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds alright to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like being used like that

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I thought a greedy girl event was to have as many guys as she wants? Surely there is no time for passion and intimacy with several guys around you?

There wasn't time for that when I did my first greedy girl event. Hoping to go to my second on Monday

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sounds like a breakdown in communication.

Did the OP tell anyone how she wanted her g/b to go?

Did anyone bother to ask her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we have a greedy boy night where I'm it!! If a girl comes on my face then walks off I won't be arsed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we have a greedy boy night where I'm it!! If a girl comes on my face then walks off I won't be arsed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally like being used like that

I see it as me getting what I want... never feel used..it's even better if my play partner is watching me..

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By *aithlessangelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I personally like being used like that

lol me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesn't the name "Greedy Girl" say it all ? Does the Lady in question expect romance and/ or sensuality Ie: kissing and foreplay from every bloke,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Selfish lovers are doomed love..nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the definition of a greedy girl is a lady who likes multiple guys at the same time and enjoys being the centre of attention.

But there must be a respect and boundaries and she shouldn't leave the meet, party or club feeling upset, as this isn't what swinging is about it is suppose to be fun....... but as for kissing I don't the guys will be up for that they don't to be kissing another guys cock unless that's there thing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

communication is key, do you just let them do what they want and then have a moan about it??? if guys see others do it then they will do the same, but if you tell them before hand they might then behave,

some ladies/couples dont like kissing, others do, but its upto you to tell them aswell instead of thinking they will know what to do, its a greedy girls night, do you want each guy to make love to you??

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Its the wrong sort of event for someone who likes kissing and sensuality. There are places and events for every style of kink and play. You just need the right one

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I don't think the OP understands what the term "Greedy Girl" actually means.

I'll just grab some popcorn though.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think the OP understands what the term "Greedy Girl" actually means.

I'll just grab some popcorn though....."

Surely you'll have cock in hand not popcorn, at a greedy girl do

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"I don't think the OP understands what the term "Greedy Girl" actually means.

I'll just grab some popcorn though.....

Surely you'll have cock in hand not popcorn, at a greedy girl do

I like multitasking

Side note, "cock in hand" reminded me of the Spartacus show, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doesn't the name "Greedy Girl" say it all ? Does the Lady in question expect romance and/ or sensuality Ie: kissing and foreplay from every bloke, "

this is what i was thinking.

maybe the name of the event gives an idea that all women want is cock, cock and more cock, nothing to do with intimacy and sensuality.

maybe these events arent best to attend if the latter is what you are looking for, as they do seem to be all about sausage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doesn't the name "Greedy Girl" say it all ? Does the Lady in question expect romance and/ or sensuality Ie: kissing and foreplay from every bloke,

this is what i was thinking.

maybe the name of the event gives an idea that all women want is cock, cock and more cock, nothing to do with intimacy and sensuality.

maybe these events arent best to attend if the latter is what you are looking for, as they do seem to be all about sausage."

Sausages needs to be cut in half and cooked both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doesn't the name "Greedy Girl" say it all ? Does the Lady in question expect romance and/ or sensuality Ie: kissing and foreplay from every bloke,

this is what i was thinking.

maybe the name of the event gives an idea that all women want is cock, cock and more cock, nothing to do with intimacy and sensuality.

maybe these events arent best to attend if the latter is what you are looking for, as they do seem to be all about sausage.

Sausages needs to be cut in half and cooked both sides.

some things you post REALLY scare me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doesn't the name "Greedy Girl" say it all ? Does the Lady in question expect romance and/ or sensuality Ie: kissing and foreplay from every bloke,

this is what i was thinking.

maybe the name of the event gives an idea that all women want is cock, cock and more cock, nothing to do with intimacy and sensuality.

maybe these events arent best to attend if the latter is what you are looking for, as they do seem to be all about sausage.

Sausages needs to be cut in half and cooked both sides.

some things you post REALLY scare me lol

I just cannot eat half cooked sausages

Oh was this not a cooking thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doesn't the name "Greedy Girl" say it all ? Does the Lady in question expect romance and/ or sensuality Ie: kissing and foreplay from every bloke,

this is what i was thinking.

maybe the name of the event gives an idea that all women want is cock, cock and more cock, nothing to do with intimacy and sensuality.

maybe these events arent best to attend if the latter is what you are looking for, as they do seem to be all about sausage.

Sausages needs to be cut in half and cooked both sides.

some things you post REALLY scare me lol

I just cannot eat half cooked sausages

Oh was this not a cooking thread?

ahh Nigella, The lust of my life

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

this place is soooo educational

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This forum annoys me really, like if you express an opinion that is a bit different you're lampooned for it... but I wasn't aware 'greedy girls' meant lie back and think of England or just meant pleasure for men. I don't want to lie there like a piece of meat and just get fucked or just suck your cock. It's not all about the guy coming for me.... I want something a bit more mutual. That's what I meant when I said I think they should relabel it selfish guys.... Me, I'm greedy for pleasure lol... and some oral action my way would have been appreciated. That's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learned recently that the term 'gangbang' doesn't necessarily mean just servicing a whole cohort of blokes.

If the woman's wishes are voiced properly and listened to, it can also be a multiple 'ravishing' session, which is an entirely different thing. Being pleasured by a number of men suddenly looks much more palatable.

Perhaps a different name should be invented for different occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You hope to find sensitivity and consideration from a group of unknown men desperate for a shag?.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect to be able to take what I wanted how I wanted. Not have anything or anyone I wasn't interested in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh FFS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a bit like expecting silver service in McDonalds your expectations are out of kilt.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Getting defensive over an opportunity to learn just strikes me as odd.

You didn't know something. Now you do. Use that knowledge to better inform your actions and judgement in the future.

Or don't, and get upset at people correcting your mistake, like a child. Your choice really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doesn't the name "Greedy Girl" say it all ? Does the Lady in question expect romance and/ or sensuality Ie: kissing and foreplay from every bloke,

this is what i was thinking.

maybe the name of the event gives an idea that all women want is cock, cock and more cock, nothing to do with intimacy and sensuality.

maybe these events arent best to attend if the latter is what you are looking for, as they do seem to be all about sausage."

does this mean the ladies at these events have no say at all in who sticks their cock in their mouths? Do they only do oral too? I hadn't heard of them before I joined Fab and looked on the forum

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"Getting defensive over an opportunity to learn just strikes me as odd.

You didn't know something. Now you do. Use that knowledge to better inform your actions and judgement in the future.

Or don't, and get upset at people correcting your mistake, like a child. Your choice really."

exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I learned recently that the term 'gangbang' doesn't necessarily mean just servicing a whole cohort of blokes.

Perhaps a different name should be invented for different occasions.

a slutfest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You hope to find sensitivity and consideration from a group of unknown men desperate for a shag?.........

desperate?...ok

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"This forum annoys me really, like if you express an opinion that is a bit different you're lampooned for it... but I wasn't aware 'greedy girls' meant lie back and think of England or just meant pleasure for men. I don't want to lie there like a piece of meat and just get fucked or just suck your cock. It's not all about the guy coming for me.... I want something a bit more mutual. That's what I meant when I said I think they should relabel it selfish guys.... Me, I'm greedy for pleasure lol... and some oral action my way would have been appreciated. That's all.

It doesn't have to be like that at all...it should be just as enjoyable for you as the men.

On the occasions where I have been to greedy girl parties, the men have been happy to kiss and pleasure me. (before things have got messy

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It is a case of stating what you want and finding the right men. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doesn't the name "Greedy Girl" say it all ? Does the Lady in question expect romance and/ or sensuality Ie: kissing and foreplay from every bloke,

this is what i was thinking.

maybe the name of the event gives an idea that all women want is cock, cock and more cock, nothing to do with intimacy and sensuality.

maybe these events arent best to attend if the latter is what you are looking for, as they do seem to be all about sausage.

does this mean the ladies at these events have no say at all in who sticks their cock in their mouths? Do they only do oral too? I hadn't heard of them before I joined Fab and looked on the forum "

I do these events a lot.. or used to... there are normally several different women often wanting different things.. but mostly it's just straight to it... I would have 3 or 4 guys and would rather they didn't touch... no time to be kissed or licked.. as normally a cock in each end... and when they are done its next....

You could of course get a more intimate session but don't think at a greedy girl session you would find many up for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the point has been made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting defensive over an opportunity to learn just strikes me as odd.

You didn't know something. Now you do. Use that knowledge to better inform your actions and judgement in the future.

Or don't, and get upset at people correcting your mistake, like a child. Your choice really."
I. Been invited to one one of these nights next sat! I'm using the knowledge here to figure out whether I should go or not!? :/

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Getting defensive over an opportunity to learn just strikes me as odd.

You didn't know something. Now you do. Use that knowledge to better inform your actions and judgement in the future.

Or don't, and get upset at people correcting your mistake, like a child. Your choice really. I. Been invited to one one of these nights next sat! I'm using the knowledge here to figure out whether I should go or not!? :/"

Best way to determine that would be to ask the person/ people organising the night. However if it is a "traditional" greedy girl night, they don't tend to be all that sensual (in my experience).

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Never been to one but so would love to though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting defensive over an opportunity to learn just strikes me as odd.

You didn't know something. Now you do. Use that knowledge to better inform your actions and judgement in the future.

Best way to determine that would be to ask the person/ people organising the night. However if it is a "traditional" greedy girl night, they don't tend to be all that sensual (in my experience). "
I understand that things happening at a club/party are not going to be as sensual as they are in the comfort of your own home/bed... But the thought of going and guys just coming upto me expecting me to suck them off... Fills me with dread!! I was asked to go to this party by a guy (who seems lovely and genuine) as I had never been to a club before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally like being used like that

Mmm good girl xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greedy girl night or not it's about respect and notting more iv never been to a club and I love kissing so I would want to take the time to respect the lady that I was with at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me. Its about doing some thing out side of the norm. Done a few "greedy" girl experiences. Loved them xxx

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