FabSwingers.com forum: What is vanilla?

By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I know I could Google it, but I'd rather hear it from you lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think most on here would term that as boring sex...could be wrong, im sure if i am someone will put me straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just plain boring sex bit for foreplay sex and sleep I suppose lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

To me, vanilla is a phrase used by BDSM people to describe non-BDSM people, which seems to have been co-opted by swingers to describe non-swingers.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"To me, vanilla is a phrase used by BDSM people to describe non-BDSM people, which seems to have been co-opted by swingers to describe non-swingers."

That is what I would agree with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it as a term to describe mainstream relationships!

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Vanilla - plain

non vanilla - all the wonderful flavours out there

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Vanilla - plain

non vanilla - all the wonderful flavours out there "

The flavour vanilla is not plain. Plain is a packet of salt and shake crisps without the salt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparantly, some here hate the term "vanilla", not sure why, it's just a term for sex without any kinks, well that's my understanding anyway

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Vanilla flavour is quite subtle. Maybe vanilla sex is too - so subtle you don't realise it's going on.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Vanilla is one of my favourite - smell and flavour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we need is a sticky with swinging terms to cut down the "whats......." threads. My favourite is "what is cuck holding?".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla sex is a term that refers to what a society considers to be standard, traditional or normal sex

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"To me, vanilla is a phrase used by BDSM people to describe non-BDSM people, which seems to have been co-opted by swingers to describe non-swingers."

BDSM word for 'normal' sex, you know, the boring kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with anything, it's all relative.

I love the fact that there's some people on here that seem really experienced and erm exciting... but there's things that I have done that they haven't.

Everyone's view of vanilla will be different, is what I am trying to say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we need is a sticky with swinging terms to cut down the "whats......." threads. My favourite is "what is cuck holding?".

My car has a cuck holder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla ice cream is just delicious. I like it sometimes - has to be Haagen Dazs though. Premium Vanilla!

Then sometimes I like raspberry ripple with a flake in.

Depends on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vanilla - plain

non vanilla - all the wonderful flavours out there

The flavour vanilla is not plain. Plain is a packet of salt and shake crisps without the salt. "

Do they still do them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think most on here would term that as boring sex...could be wrong, im sure if i am someone will put me straight"

Oh boy I would love to put you straight pet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vanilla sex is a term that refers to what a society considers to be standard, traditional or normal sex"

and there was me think a flavour of ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me, vanilla is a phrase used by BDSM people to describe non-BDSM people, which seems to have been co-opted by swingers to describe non-swingers."

The above is what it means to us but it has been adopted by the swinging world.. The bdsm world would consider swinging to be vanilla..lol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Oh boy have I done things in the 'vanilla' world that you cant even imagine!

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"I know I could Google it, but I'd rather hear it from you lot.

It's lovely with a Cadburys flake broken up into it then mixed together till it's all creamy yum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I could Google it, but I'd rather hear it from you lot.

Its a term that is used by one group to describe another group in a slightly condescending way.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

When I say vanilla I mean people who don't have group sex etc and not that they have boring sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me, vanilla is a phrase used by BDSM people to describe non-BDSM people, which seems to have been co-opted by swingers to describe non-swingers."

Agreed

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Vanilla sex is a term used in BDSM scene-speak, referred to as ordinary sex.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"I know I could Google it, but I'd rather hear it from you lot.

some sort of ice cream

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Isn't it a seed pod?

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By *inkySCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Hmmm all this talk of ice cream I could just do some rum and raisin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ice ice baby...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I thought it was a flavour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla sex is what a culture regards as standard or conventional sexual behaviour. Different cultures, subcultures and individuals have different ideas about what constitutes this type of sex. Often, it is interpreted as sex which does not involve such elements as BDSM, kink, or fetish activities.

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By *amie0151Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

"I know I could Google it, but I'd rather hear it from you lot.

It's a favour of ice cream that's nice but not as nice as strawberry or chocolate

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By *oft n SensualWoman
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

I thought vanilla is watching others play but not being played with.

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By *essaMayWoman
4 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

Although this is an very old thread Vanilla i guess means different things to different people. Generally i think it means relationship based sex not including other parties or kinks. Certainly doesn't mean boring

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Missionary only with the lights off.

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By *eyeYCouple
4 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Vanilla gets a bad rap and is sometimes simple connection for us with all the other things we do.. 😘

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Vanilla is my favorite kind and it's very very far from boring

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

The most underrated ice cream flavour.

Done properly, vanilla can be a majestic ice cream...

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By *eckard2019Man
4 weeks ago

North West Durham

Vanilla ice cream is very nice and most people really like it but there are other flavours. The other flavours might be more exciting but also might not be to everyone's taste.

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By *ormsterMan
4 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

BORING SEX missionary

Or what a I call iron board

No movement really better of with wank

Yep meet few

However they soon got in to the Grove oh a lot ORAL

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By *ormsterMan
4 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

"Oh boy have I done things in the 'vanilla' world that you cant even imagine!

Add a flake and some nuts

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By *a1970Man
4 weeks ago

East cork

Agree we over thinking it.... It mind blowing with the right person

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