FabSwingers.com forum: 2 meet or not 2meet.

By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

Now me: I do not demand to be sucked. I do not necessarily enjoy being sucked. I also do not obey a command to lick. I lick who I choose and when I want, depending on what is before me and how I am feeling.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes because you do what you feel like doing at the time. i enjoy lots of other things too. one reason why i like more than one man because if one man doesnt want his cock sucked then the other one usually does.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I never 'arrange' to lick, because sex should not be some 'to do' list to tick off as we go along. However, a man who will not perform oral and doesn't enjoy oral being performed on him would not be on my meet list, as its an enjoyable and (to me) integral part of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have men who don't lick, I have men who don't kiss,I have men who do everything. Given the choice I will choose the latter. They all like being sucked

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I generally don't lick ladies pussies!

I do sometimes but it depends on how much effort she puts in. If she pleases me a lot, I do. If she doesn't, I don't.

The reasons being that I've met women in the past who were not clean.... However, if a woman pleases me, and she is clean, I can't resist!

I always love being sucked but I don't put pressure on. Most do it voluntarily, some don't... And I don't question them.

Be happy!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If what you're saying is that you respect the choices of whoever you meet and expect them to respect yours I would consider meeting. Sex is about so much more than a set of rules that are to be worked through from 1 to 10 & if the erotic tension is there no one action is vital.

However lots if us have certain things we like to do and I can't see there's any harm in saying you will only meet people who like the same.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"yes because you do what you feel like doing at the time. i enjoy lots of other things too. one reason why i like more than one man because if one man doesnt want his cock sucked then the other one usually does.

I see. txt me later lets come to some arrangement

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I generally don't lick ladies pussies!

I do sometimes but it depends on how much effort she puts in. If she pleases me a lot, I do. If she doesn't, I don't.

The reasons being that I've met women in the past who were not clean.... However, if a woman pleases me, and she is clean, I can't resist!

Be happy!

So you see giving oral to a woman as something she had to earn or be rewarded with? I don't like it what would I get (always assuming I had pleased you) a sweetie?

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"I generally don't lick ladies pussies!

I do sometimes but it depends on how much effort she puts in. If she pleases me a lot, I do. If she doesn't, I don't.

The reasons being that I've met women in the past who were not clean.... However, if a woman pleases me, and she is clean, I can't resist!

Be happy!

So you see giving oral to a woman as something she had to earn or be rewarded with? I don't like it what would I get (always assuming I had pleased you) a sweetie?

Yes, in a way.

Well its self explanatory.

If you please me and you want it, you get oral!

What else would you want?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

well someone thinks they are gods gift lol

'if i deem your fucking and sucking to be of my high standard i shall let you have some pleasure by me licking your pussy'

i never expect anyone to do anything specific on a meet - hell i dont expect sex on a meet but i'd have an issue with having to work for a 'reward'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well someone thinks they are gods gift lol

'if i deem your fucking and sucking to be of my high standard i shall let you have some pleasure by me licking your pussy'

i never expect anyone to do anything specific on a meet - hell i dont expect sex on a meet but i'd have an issue with having to work for a 'reward'"

Dedinitely a +1 from me.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I'd put that spade down, mate. Dig no further.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I generally don't lick ladies pussies!

I do sometimes but it depends on how much effort she puts in. If she pleases me a lot, I do. If she doesn't, I don't.

The reasons being that I've met women in the past who were not clean.... However, if a woman pleases me, and she is clean, I can't resist!

Be happy!

So you see giving oral to a woman as something she had to earn or be rewarded with? I don't like it what would I get (always assuming I had pleased you) a sweetie?

Yes, in a way.

Well its self explanatory.

If you please me and you want it, you get oral!

What else would you want?"

A guy who saw sex as a two way street is always nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My flabber would be that gasted, that i'd probably lick anything the gal asked me to! Seeing as she took the time to answer my "fancy a fuck" mail it would be a disgrace not to really!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I do ask before I meet someone if they would be willing to perform oral sex. I rarely orgasm through penetration so it's quite important. I will do my best to please the man but I need to know his boundaries before we meet.

Too many think a quick feel then in it goes is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally don't lick ladies pussies!

I do sometimes but it depends on how much effort she puts in. If she pleases me a lot, I do. If she doesn't, I don't.

The reasons being that I've met women in the past who were not clean.... However, if a woman pleases me, and she is clean, I can't resist!

I always love being sucked but I don't put pressure on. Most do it voluntarily, some don't... And I don't question them.

Be happy!

So you'll only give pleasure after you've had your fill? Good job we don't all work the same way else no-one would have any fun!

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I think you may have misread or maybe misunderstood my post.

I stand by what I said. Ofvourse, if anyone thinks that's unfair, don't do oral on me... I have no problem with that.

I'm not even putting pressure on for sex... We all do what we like as far as I'm concerned. If somebody isn't happy, then by all means.. we wouldn't do anything.

I don't think that's unreasonable.

Ofcourse, somebody took a snippet of my post up there... And that does sound bad. But if you read the whole post, you can see my post in its context.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ask on our profile for fully bi girls for meets, as part of the reason we're on here is my girl girl fantasy which includes pussy licking. Tbh we would meet with bi curious and would never push anyone to do more than they wanted but if you're not gonna get what you're lookin for from someone they're not worth meeting. Nothing worse than having a disappointing meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As part of the vetting process, I would try and establish the gent's likes, dislikes and boundaries, and expect him to do the same with me.

If we tick enough of each other's boxes, we'll meet; otherwise we don't.

I don't make demands, and do not like gents who make them either.

Simple.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Not a fan of "too many rules",its like taking a 5 star meal and start nit-picking at the ingredients till there's barely anything left.

One couple came up with so many don'ts when I asked what I could do they replied "You can finger her". For that I was expected to travel 3 hours to a meet,.. no thanks!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ? "

And who came up with that lie??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask or expect anything, however I have been lucky

Black guys don't lick? Utter rubbish .

Lynn

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ? "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I think you may have misread or maybe misunderstood my post.

I stand by what I said. Ofvourse, if anyone thinks that's unfair, don't do oral on me... I have no problem with that.

I'm not even putting pressure on for sex... We all do what we like as far as I'm concerned. If somebody isn't happy, then by all means.. we wouldn't do anything.

I don't think that's unreasonable.

Ofcourse, somebody took a snippet of my post up there... And that does sound bad. But if you read the whole post, you can see my post in its context.

Xxx"

The whole post sounds just as bad. It does sound like you're expecting women to earn pleasure as a reward.

They have no more way of knowing if you're clean than you have of knowing they are.

What if everybody waited for someone to please them before they pleased someone else?

I'm

about the entire thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you were to be invited to indulge in some interplay with V, and werent interested in oral either way, then you would be in for a pretty boring evening im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

And who came up with that lie??"

A black man told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

And who came up with that lie??"

it was a point made by a few posters on another thread, to include some black ladies, so cant be a racist thing, before someone tries to turn it into such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to receive oral and will return it too, makes me very wet but I wont let a guy cum in my mouth, don't like it, but do like to lick, suck and nibble them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No oral!! Hell thats just weird. I absolutely love giving oral pleasure to a woman. It's a real turn on for me, seeing a woman get off while I'm down there is just awesome. I also love receiving a good blow job. Thought that would go without saying!!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

And who came up with that lie??

it was a point made by a few posters on another thread, to include some black ladies, so cant be a racist thing, before someone tries to turn it into such"

I wasn't even thinking of a racist thing, I was instead thinking next thing someone will say black men don't enjoy penetrative sex.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

And who came up with that lie??

A black man told me "

Was he an ex priest??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

And who came up with that lie??

it was a point made by a few posters on another thread, to include some black ladies, so cant be a racist thing, before someone tries to turn it into such

I wasn't even thinking of a racist thing, I was instead thinking next thing someone will say black men don't enjoy penetrative sex."

nope.

it was just an oral thing (apparently mostly in Caribbean men according to those that commented on it)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I never 'arrange' to lick, because sex should not be some 'to do' list to tick off as we go along. However, a man who will not perform oral and doesn't enjoy oral being performed on him would not be on my meet list, as its an enjoyable and (to me) integral part of sex."

^^^^^This!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

And who came up with that lie??"

You're the younger, enlightened generation. My generation black men seldom licked pussy. Some black men my generation didn't eat from their wives when they were on their period as they were seen as unclean, so you can forget being eaten out!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

And who came up with that lie??

it was a point made by a few posters on another thread, to include some black ladies, so cant be a racist thing, before someone tries to turn it into such

I wasn't even thinking of a racist thing, I was instead thinking next thing someone will say black men don't enjoy penetrative sex.

nope.

it was just an oral thing (apparently mostly in Caribbean men according to those that commented on it)"

It's true in my experience.

Signed: Caribbean Queen

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Like giving oral only meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a fan of licking muff

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

And who came up with that lie??

A black man told me "

Complete lie. You have been meeting the wrong men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love licking and pleasing a women, it excites me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my old jamaican workmate refused to yam it

he`d rip piss out of anyone who did lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got the first stress already. I never arrange to lick. You putting that on here means you will not enjoy my company unless I lick you. If that is you, I have no qualms; that is just you.

If you are happy with the above, we are still on.

Will you meet that fella? If yes why? If no, why not?

I heard black men don't like licking anyway ?

And who came up with that lie??

A black man told me "

So was he speaking for all black men then? I like to swallow so does that mean every white bird enjoys it?! It isn't exclusively black guys who don't like to give oral, I've known a few white ones too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't plan out a meet but I enjoy.oral both giving and receiving its not something someone should earn its all part of great sex I don't think I could meet someone who didn't like giving or receiving as I cum a lot from oral and it all leads up to the main course

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