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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well im gonna admit it I cant orgasm with anyone but myself..always worrying bout what i look like..if im doing things ok..arghh its been years..really wanna get this shit sorted..suggestions..(ITS MRS G btw !) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well im gonna admit it I cant orgasm with anyone but myself..always worrying bout what i look like..if im doing things ok..arghh its been years..really wanna get this shit sorted..suggestions..(ITS MRS G btw !) xx "

Get a better other half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well im gonna admit it I cant orgasm with anyone but myself..always worrying bout what i look like..if im doing things ok..arghh its been years..really wanna get this shit sorted..suggestions..(ITS MRS G btw !) xx "
Meet me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

all such predictable replies xx

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Hypnotism to help you relax/stop thinking about the things that worry you during sex.

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By *ussGailCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Try and focus your attention to what the other person is doing to you. how is makes u feel at the time. Possibility stop getting urself off for a while. A band for yourself might make experience of someone else touching u more exciting.

Or show the other person what u are doing that gets u off. Guide their hands .

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Sounds like you need to relax, I can't say it bothers me what I look like when enjoying sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok ladies ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try a non rugga bugga type for a change

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By *anttotryanythingMan
over a year ago

havant

whatever ur doin is doin the job obv , so get ur other half to do the same guide him to ur spot that u find n make him stay there x and relax dnt put to much pressure on urself to orgasm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well im gonna admit it I cant orgasm with anyone but myself..always worrying bout what i look like..if im doing things ok..arghh its been years..really wanna get this shit sorted..suggestions..(ITS MRS G btw !) xx "

Close the curtains, turn the light off and shag in the dark!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wear a blindfold your invisible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually that sounded a lot more factitious than it was meant to. I find when I west a blindfold my heart rate lowers naturally and I relax a lot more

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

if you are worrying about what your doing, stop doing it, just lay back and let him do the work. If you are worried about what you look like, turn the lights off, if he needs guiding, guide him. If you believe its not possible unless you are doing it yourself then that thought is probably blocking his chances too. Don't try too hard, enjoy whatever pleasures it brings and maybe be surprised. Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ty all..may try the blindfold thing xx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get to Harrods January sale, you will orgasm at the reductions x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haa haa..if only!

Really dunno whats changed tbh many years ago i never had a problem..and can i make it clear..its not just with my partner but with anyone i have sex with!!..and ive tried alot i can tell you!! lol..I figure its a "mind" thing?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ask your man to take you to the very edge of orgasm with a vibrator 3 times a night for as long as you can every night for a week. (Hitachi magic wand works wonders for many).

He can use other methods if they work, oral, his own hands, watch you while he helps himself out.

You are not allowed to orgasm on your own at any time during that period.

The following weekend your partner takes you to the edge of orgasm your prefered way before penetration.

Mrs P is usually panting with need by midweek

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Oh and stop giving a shit what you look like your there to feel good once things get started

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I should make that clearer no orgasm at all for that week not just on your own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah have a magic wand so cud try that..thing is I cant even seem to orgasm with my toys with him there?? how silly do i feel..but like the idea of getting right too the edge then letting him step in or thrust his cock in, I shud say!! worth a shot!!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"yeah have a magic wand so cud try that..thing is I cant even seem to orgasm with my toys with him there?? how silly do i feel..but like the idea of getting right too the edge then letting him step in or thrust his cock in, I shud say!! worth a shot!! "

Ok so there's the first target.

You play on your own but not allowed to orgasm. He walks in if he feels like it or not but you won't know if he is going to.

Then move to he's in the room from the start.

Then lose the toy and use his mouth.

The point is to go to the edge every night for a week without orgasm. By the end of the week you should be gagging!

Sexy texts during the day can have you squirming in a moment by the end of the week lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

will give this a go..and will report back xx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

And train yourself to not give a fek lol.

If he is anything like me I find Mrs P at her sexiest mid orgasm. Watching you will drive him nuts. Look in his eyes for the truth.

Relax and enjoy.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Also there is nothing more tempting than an erotic oily massage when your horny

Playing with you when he feels like it

Teasing you without mercy all week long lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

try watching yourself as you cum playing on your own, get to learn what you look like.

maybe make yourself cum while our partner watches and plays with himself so you can see he is enjoying watching you as you cum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

as i say i cant seem to reach orgasm if someone else is there..but cheers as I have been given a few "tricks" to try now..

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