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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are feeling a bit concerned about something that happened yesterday on here.

New user joined the site. Looked at us. Sent us a message that only said "There U" and then deleted the profile.

We have a feeling someone has caught on and tracked us down.

There are only 3 people outside the swinging world who know about this and we would both trust them with anything.

Are we being silly or would it worry you?

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Really don't let it worry you . Even if it someone you know . They are obviously to frightened to show themselves .

Even if they do - deny deny deny.

More likely some saddo who lost the courage to remain on the site in case their partner trawls their history !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was more the pictures side of it we were worried about.

But I suppose that's the risk you take.....

Hopefully it was nothing though even if it was a bit odd!

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Sounds like a jealous coward. Don't get stressed over it. At the end of the day what business is it of their's that you have a great sex life and their's is dull as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was more the pictures side of it we were worried about.

But I suppose that's the risk you take.....

Hopefully it was nothing though even if it was a bit odd!"
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Can't see anything on your pictures that could give you away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If really worried then you could change your user name and change location (England for example :P)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Easy for us to say but don't worry about it. There's nothing you can do and as someone else said if anything happened just deny it. There is always the we lost a memory stick with saucy pictures in it and someone has found it and used it to set up an account on a swingers site excuse. . Failing that there's the its none of your goddam business approach.

Have a nice day and put it out of your mindmind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone a while ago threatening to out me....name dropping people i knew etc. Said he had my pics and would plaster them all over the village. I told him feel free crack on.and blocked him. That was 18 months ago and I have heard nothing since. At the end of the day if people find out your on here itll be yesterdays news by tomorrow so i wouldnt worry.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

thought that was the standard message guys sent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was more the pictures side of it we were worried about.

But I suppose that's the risk you take.....

Hopefully it was nothing though even if it was a bit odd!.

Can't see anything on your pictures that could give you away."

If you knew them already I think you could recognise them from the pictures, one in particular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all,

We took some pictures down last night but probably too late if it was someone we knew.

IF anything does come of it probably go with the memory stick suggestion

We may well be reading to much into it but just seemed strange

xx

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"I had someone a while ago threatening to out me....name dropping people i knew etc. Said he had my pics and would plaster them all over the village. I told him feel free crack on.and blocked him. That was 18 months ago and I have heard nothing since. At the end of the day if people find out your on here itll be yesterdays news by tomorrow so i wouldnt worry."

Stinks if hyoocrisy though as they are on here too. And when people ask how they know about your lifestyle choice they'll have to be pretty inventive pretty darn quick. Don't forget what they know about you, you know about them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all,

We took some pictures down last night but probably too late if it was someone we knew.

IF anything does come of it probably go with the memory stick suggestion

We may well be reading to much into it but just seemed strange

xx"

Better safe than sorry. We went through a similar thing and we are much more careful now. Not ashamed of doing this but would rather it was kept private!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Better safe than sorry. We went through a similar thing and we are much more careful now. Not ashamed of doing this but would rather it was kept private!"

Precisely our thoughts. We are not bothered at all if people we know are active members on here themselves.

That has happened to us and it is wasn't a problem as they are on here......

It was the join up, send a message giving the impression they knew us and then leave bit that worried us.

Just have to wait and see if the pictures pop up in the crewroom at work I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I new you I would recognise you from the photos.. don't change the way you want to live just because of one weired letter..

next time your in your local look for the one with a cheeky smile it was them. just too scared to talk to you both and not worth your time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you're being silly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's why I don't hide my pics, my face or anything about me....they have no ammo to attack me with....

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Wouldnt worry about it at all , we have a regular idiot who thinks its amusing to register new accounts and spam us with abuse saying he knows me (Mrs) and hes going to attack me when he sees me out.

It actually didnt bother me, more so the Mr but now i just report and block the moron.

Its easy to say these things when theyre hiding behind a computer screen and most people are easily scared by it but dont be. Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There U" is hardly a ransom note for a million pounds. If you're worried hide your profile for a bit. I wouldn't worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just play smart. We have face pics, we have naughty ones too.

But we don't have face pics we wouldn't put on Facebook. Basically our naughty ones don't show our faces at all.

It's really the only way to be 100% and easy to deny if someone sees them.

So if you are concerned change your pics. They can say what they like but without proof you can just laugh it off.

I honestly think it's probably just some random bell-end but just to be sure.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Wouldnt worry about it at all , we have a regular idiot who thinks its amusing to register new accounts and spam us with abuse saying he knows me (Mrs) and hes going to attack me when he sees me out. "

If that was me I would consider going to the police. They would track the ISP and lift the idiot.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Wouldnt worry about it at all , we have a regular idiot who thinks its amusing to register new accounts and spam us with abuse saying he knows me (Mrs) and hes going to attack me when he sees me out.

If that was me I would consider going to the police. They would track the ISP and lift the idiot."

Being considered, i have filters on at the moment but i dont want to keep them on cause of some moron. I have however saved all their messages..

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