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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When I have sex I get really wet and often an orgasm will leave a rather large wet patch but I have never squirted or gushed.

A couple of times during play I have felt like I was about to pee myself but tensed up so nothing happened.

However, Monday night I felt like I needed to pee but managed to relax more and felt a warm sensation

Was I close? What does it feel like? I will be annoyed if I came close then failed, as to be honest, with the obsession with squirting I feel inadequate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all hype. I'm going to get backlash from this,which I won't answer but it's just urine. You literally are wetting yourself when you gush or squirt. An orgasm is moist because we have natural lubricant. Pressure on your bladder forces dilute wee out which is why there's more with finger forcing. I hate it and it's all because of a small piece of research done in the 50s by a man called Skenes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"? I will be annoyed if I came close then failed, as to be honest, with the obsession with squirting I feel inadequate. "

I feel sad that you use the word failed and inadequate in connection with an activity that should be joyful and isn't a competitive sport

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

For me personally the front wall of the vagina becomes very sensitive, the sensations that run through you can be very intense especially if accompanied with a clitoral orgasm. When you actually squirt/gush it feels like a release, sometimes you feel rhythmic contractions, I personally get fairly noisey as I find it intense ( in a good way) and often it gets better during the same session ( as in the first squirt/gush is not the best)

I think the needing a per feeling only happens when you are new to it as I don't get that at all now, just all the other fab feelings, and practice makes perfect.......I am still learning too, I've only recently been able to get there whilst riding my man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"? I will be annoyed if I came close then failed, as to be honest, with the obsession with squirting I feel inadequate.

I feel sad that you use the word failed and inadequate in connection with an activity that should be joyful and isn't a competitive sport

I try not to let it bother me, but I see profile after profile of men saying they love squirters and when I tell them I don't squirt, I get promised they can make me.....I don't meet these men and the convo stops there.

I would like it to happen just to experience it but feel it will require a regular than I trust and completely relax with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all hype. I'm going to get backlash from this,which I won't answer but it's just urine. You literally are wetting yourself when you gush or squirt. An orgasm is moist because we have natural lubricant. Pressure on your bladder forces dilute wee out which is why there's more with finger forcing. I hate it and it's all because of a small piece of research done in the 50s by a man called Skenes "

Correct, its a urethra orgasm, its not 100% pee as its mixed with something else but cant remember what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just go with the flow! Pardon the pun but its nothing to feel inadequate about. Seriously its not the be all and end all

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

I totally disagree that its wee lol, although the sensation is similar!

As for how it feels.. I'd say soggy

But if there's pressure for it to happen it probably won't.. that's probably when I would pee lol

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

"Why don't you just go with the flow! Pardon the pun but its nothing to feel inadequate about. Seriously its not the be all and end all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have sex I get really wet and often an orgasm will leave a rather large wet patch but I have never squirted or gushed.

A couple of times during play I have felt like I was about to pee myself but tensed up so nothing happened.

However, Monday night I felt like I needed to pee but managed to relax more and felt a warm sensation

Was I close? What does it feel like? I will be annoyed if I came close then failed, as to be honest, with the obsession with squirting I feel inadequate. "

Oh I'd make the decision not to meet based on your inability to squirt.

You're joking, right? So what if you didn't? Did you have fun anyway? I bet you did.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"It's all hype. "

I 90% agree with this.

Also....most guys probably don't REALLY care one way or the other. I'd rather the person i was with actually orgasmed (dry) than spending ages trying to achieve something that may or may not happen (and wonder if i was peed on)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I don't feel that I need a pee at all, I tend to get a feeling that I can't take any more but I want more, in a good way, I also can't help but being very vocal, it's not something I can stop unless Scott stops. I only know I have gushed when it starts splashing us, it's certainly not something we aim for as people don't seem to rate it but it can't be helped x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct, its a urethra orgasm, its not 100% pee as its mixed with something else but cant remember what

according to Skenes the gland (that apparently not all women have)feeds into the Urethra (why?) and that's what supposedly is ejected from the urethra. Why some women don't have that particular gland and what it's for stumps me as it serves no purpose in either procreation nor urination. As far as I can read anyway. I am still looking for more sources of his original research

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think its awful that anyone should feel inadequate because of the hype surrounding something some women can do. I don't squirt, gush or otherwise expel fluid from my body during sex I don't compare myself to women who do either, I know my own worth and it doesn't depend in me being able to do any of these things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirting, some do some dont. As long as you enjoy yourself why worry.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"I think its awful that anyone should feel inadequate because of the hype surrounding something some women can do. I don't squirt, gush or otherwise expel fluid from my body during sex I don't compare myself to women who do either, I know my own worth and it doesn't depend in me being able to do any of these things."

In an ideal world, all would think like this. Sadly.....this ain't Utopia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels like ooooooooooo

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't feel anything when I gush. It just happens, but not with every man, and only in one position. It has nothing to do with my orgasms as I can cum very well without drenching the bed. The larger the cock though, the more often it happens.

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By *ompip3Couple
over a year ago

Paisley

Personally from a mans point of view, there's too much awkward positioning of wrist/hand for far too long to end up covered in "gush juice/some say pissmix" sometimes up to your elbow.....it runs down arm, im not that far up!!! To be enjoyable.

But if that's what the lady wants!!!

Personally I would rather spend my time touching, kissing, caressing and playing with all her erogenous zones and let whatever fluids "want" to flow, flow!!! And NOT force them out.

Just my 2p worth. Xx

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

What I'm feeling rightly or wrongly mind from these types of threads are people who do squirt or gush should feel embarrassed, or are lying, or are saying so to make others feel less of a woman which simply isn't the case if it can't be helped x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have sex I get really wet and often an orgasm will leave a rather large wet patch but I have never squirted or gushed.

A couple of times during play I have felt like I was about to pee myself but tensed up so nothing happened.

However, Monday night I felt like I needed to pee but managed to relax more and felt a warm sensation

Was I close? What does it feel like? I will be annoyed if I came close then failed, as to be honest, with the obsession with squirting I feel inadequate. "

Don't worry about feeling inadequate because you don't squirt/gush as I'm sure lots of women have never either plus you orgasm but I don't and have never had one doesn't mean I enjoy sex any less or feel inadequate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"? I will be annoyed if I came close then failed, as to be honest, with the obsession with squirting I feel inadequate.

I feel sad that you use the word failed and inadequate in connection with an activity that should be joyful and isn't a competitive sport

I would like it to happen just to experience it but feel it will require a regular than I trust and completely relax with."

If a guy is putting pressure on for you to be able to squirt or is making it a condition of a meet then I don't see why the conversation ending is a problem...I wouldn't want to meet someone who thinks I'm a performing seal or thinks sex with me won't be as good because I won't soak them. I am on here for my pleasure and exploration, not to have fantasists make me feel inadequate because of what my body does/doesn't do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I'm feeling rightly or wrongly mind from these types of threads are people who do squirt or gush should feel embarrassed, or are lying, or are saying so to make others feel less of a woman which simply isn't the case if it can't be helped x"

I squirt and gush. I just have a different opinion of the mechanics of it. Actually I soaked my bed earlier with my buddy. Felt amazing actually as it happened during penetration. I'm not embarrassed and he doesn't care if I do or not. I have a different opinion of why we do it and why some don't that's all

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

I'd have thought most guys would be satisfied by seeing a woman enjoy and being satisfied!

If that aint enough for them they were never worth your time! If they insist on a squirt just piss on them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd have thought most guys would be satisfied by seeing a woman enjoy and being satisfied!

If that aint enough for them they were never worth your time! If they insist on a squirt just piss on them lol

hear hear!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lad that makes me squirt I call him mr magic fingers hes really good xx

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By *lifelessvanillaCouple
over a year ago

Queens Park, London

I'd have subscribed to the 'hype' school of thought up until a couple of years ago. I spent quite a bit of time playing with L in the hope she'd squirt and failed everytime. But we met a couple on here, the male half of which can only be described as having magic hands. He made L gush in literally 10 seconds after I'd, cumulatively, spent hours trying to do the same.

He has come across one girl whom he couldn't make squirt. And conservatively, that is one girl out of 50. It's all down to the technique and he is very, very good.

Regards how it feels L describes it as something that just happens when she is touched a certain way. It is not in and of itself pleasurable in the way an orgasm is.

And it certainly doesn't look like, smell of or taste like pee. It's a clear liquid with no scent and no particularly strong taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it mite not be apleasure for u but it is for me and will b for others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a big squirter, and I can tell you its deffo not pee!..it deffo comes from a different place than my bladder! and to describe what it feels like..its a pressure that builds..which is very exciting, you have to go beyond a place in yr head you normally wud do with relaxed normal penetration? Then i bear down, much like childbirth,(if youve dun this!?) and then out it comes..sometimes there is alot and i mean loads..sometimes not so much..but it is very slippery!!!! And just a note, its not something ive always been able to do, just happened one day when i was in my 30's xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have sex I get really wet and often an orgasm will leave a rather large wet patch but I have never squirted or gushed.

A couple of times during play I have felt like I was about to pee myself but tensed up so nothing happened.

However, Monday night I felt like I needed to pee but managed to relax more and felt a warm sensation

Was I close? What does it feel like? I will be annoyed if I came close then failed, as to be honest, with the obsession with squirting I feel inadequate. "
I've been told I squirt/gush. Have soaked some beds/cars/guys. It does feel like you are going to pee but you don't. I have felt myself do it too. No need to feel the way you do. I don't orgasm don't know why but sometimes feel I'd love to experience what others do but it seems to be impossible so I'm just going to live with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have sex I get really wet and often an orgasm will leave a rather large wet patch but I have never squirted or gushed.

A couple of times during play I have felt like I was about to pee myself but tensed up so nothing happened.

However, Monday night I felt like I needed to pee but managed to relax more and felt a warm sensation

Was I close? What does it feel like? I will be annoyed if I came close then failed, as to be honest, with the obsession with squirting I feel inadequate. I've been told I squirt/gush. Have soaked some beds/cars/guys. It does feel like you are going to pee but you don't. I have felt myself do it too. No need to feel the way you do. I don't orgasm don't know why but sometimes feel I'd love to experience what others do but it seems to be impossible so I'm just going to live with it"

i dont orgasm either..goodness nice to know im not the only one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels like u wana wee but its good it just cums out wen it happns xlol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For years I tensed up when I felt the urge to pee then a few years ago a regular FB at the time asked me why I fought against squirting/gushing as it was a big turn on for him so he told me to ignore my instinct and go with the feeling once I did I squirted so yes it does make you feel like you want to pee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax and enjoy that pee xlol

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

I was given a great tip on how to make myself squirt when I'd only just started to play with myself 5 years ago. Yes I only started to do that at age 38

Use 2 fingers in the 'come here' action.. worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have sex I get really wet and often an orgasm will leave a rather large wet patch but I have never squirted or gushed.

A couple of times during play I have felt like I was about to pee myself but tensed up so nothing happened.

However, Monday night I felt like I needed to pee but managed to relax more and felt a warm sensation

i dont orgasm either..goodness nice to know im not the only one x

Nope Donna doesnt either so thays 1 more for the club, she just gushes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at my new photo....its not wee......

I find it quite Intense and i Literally Squirt to the Ceiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recommend you have a read of the Wikipedia article on female ejaculation. It is full on interesting facts although still a lot of unanswered questions as many of the posters on this thread have highlighted.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

It's not pee, it's a clear liquid. Also after a very wet session I can then go to the loo and pee for England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why doesn't it smell, taste or look like wee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not pee, it's a clear liquid. Also after a very wet session I can then go to the loo and pee for England

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have sex I get really wet and often an orgasm will leave a rather large wet patch but I have never squirted or gushed.

A couple of times during play I have felt like I was about to pee myself but tensed up so nothing happened.

However, Monday night I felt like I needed to pee but managed to relax more and felt a warm sensation

Was I close? What does it feel like? I will be annoyed if I came close then failed, as to be honest, with the obsession with squirting I feel inadequate. "

Wisht woman!! You did it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wisht woman!! You did it!!

I did, well you helped

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The location of the Skene's gland is the general area of the vulva, glands located on the anterior wall of the vagina around the lower end of the urethra. It has been postulated that the Skene's glands are the source of female ejaculation.[2] In 2002, Emanuele Jannini of L'Aquila University in Italy showed that there may be an explanation both for the phenomenon and for the frequent denials of its existence. Skene's glands have highly variable anatomy, and in some extreme cases they appear to be absent entirely. If Skene's glands are the cause of female ejaculation and G-Spot-orgasms, this may explain the absence in many women.[3][4]

It has been demonstrated that a large amount of lubricating fluid (filtered blood plasma[specify]) can be secreted from this gland when stimulated from inside the vagina.[5] Some reports indicate that embarrassment regarding female ejaculation, and the mistaken notion that the substance is urine, can lead to purposeful suppression of sexual climax, leading women to seek medical advice and even undergo surgery to "stop the urine".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During sexual arousal, the Skene's gland becomes swollen with blood, stimulating nerve fibers associated with it. Ongoing stimulation of the area can produce an orgasm, but the nerve fibers are different from those in the clitoris. Many women report that orgasm associated with gland stimulation feels different from clitoral orgasm.

The glands are believed to be the sole source of the fluid expelled during female ejaculation. They produce varying amounts of liquid, but generally no more than around 0.5 cup (about 118 ml) at a time. It is thought that the gland produces a small amount of fluid throughout sexual arousal, and that sometimes, a larger quantity of fluid is released upon orgasm. Many women who experience this believe that they have accidentally expressed urine, and some deliberately suppress their orgasms to prevent embarrassment.

The fluid the Skene's gland produces does not resemble urine at all: it's typically clear and does not have the same odor. It contains a mixture of blood plasma, proteins, and enzymes similar to that of prostate fluid. For this reason, and because of the anatomical similarities, many researchers and medical professionals have begun referring to the gland as the female prostate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

squirting is not and has no urine what so ever in it..

how do you think the vagina lubes up? its a sudden release of the natural lube we all produce..

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By *aisy2012Couple
over a year ago

everywhere

Sexy squirts - big time. I loved her before she developed this "skill" & I still do now. If she does she does. If she doesn't she doesn't Either way it's all good If any guy says he won't meet a woman cos she doesn't squirt or gush he must be a twat. Any woman who feels "pressure" to do this won't Sexy only does it when she's completely relaxed & even then not always

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sexy squirts - big time. I loved her before she developed this "skill" & I still do now. If she does she does. If she doesn't she doesn't Either way it's all good If any guy says he won't meet a woman cos she doesn't squirt or gush he must be a twat. Any woman who feels "pressure" to do this won't Sexy only does it when she's completely relaxed & even then not always"

I was so relaxed on Sat night that I didn't realise I had done it, I felt something it was nice but not an orgasm. So relaxation is deffo important, there was no pressure x

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