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By *ubik cube OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

If someone sends you a wink but their profile says they're not looking for a single guy, yet they've winked at me. What would be the appropriate course of action be as I was going to message but the warning sign told me not to do so. Advise please

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

When I have filters in place, men can not pm me, a wink or other form of contact null and voids the filter.

You should be able to make contact now; send a friendly pm saying thanks for the wink and I dunno.. would you like to chat.

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By *roydoncoupleCouple
over a year ago

croydon


"When I have filters in place, men can not pm me, a wink or other form of contact null and voids the filter.

You should be able to make contact now; send a friendly pm saying thanks for the wink and I dunno.. would you like to chat.

"

Seems reasonable.

It is always possible the wink was sent in error, but unlikely.

Many couples, including us, specify no single men simply because we get bored of the one-liners and cock shots. But there may be occasions when it suits our purposes to meet a single guy.

So, you may have just got lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking a wink means they may be interested so a message or wink back to test the water would seem reasonable.

They may start a thread on here pillorying single guys but they started it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my limited experience a wink would mean they might be interested in you. This is not an invite to go in all guns blazing I would of thought. It's simply a way of showing they like what they see and a hint to get in touch. Everyone who has winked I have messaged politely and they have responded.

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By *ubik cube OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool


"When I have filters in place, men can not pm me, a wink or other form of contact null and voids the filter.

You should be able to make contact now; send a friendly pm saying thanks for the wink and I dunno.. would you like to chat.

Seems reasonable.

It is always possible the wink was sent in error, but unlikely.

Many couples, including us, specify no single men simply because we get bored of the one-liners and cock shots. But there may be occasions when it suits our purposes to meet a single guy.

So, you may have just got lucky"

It looks like I got lucky as they want to meet

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"When I have filters in place, men can not pm me, a wink or other form of contact null and voids the filter.

You should be able to make contact now; send a friendly pm saying thanks for the wink and I dunno.. would you like to chat.

Seems reasonable.

It is always possible the wink was sent in error, but unlikely.

Many couples, including us, specify no single men simply because we get bored of the one-liners and cock shots. But there may be occasions when it suits our purposes to meet a single guy.

So, you may have just got lucky

It looks like I got lucky as they want to meet "

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