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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys,

Another of my soon to be famous random thoughts....

Are you actually reading the verifications of the people who are getting in touch with you and, if so, does it have an influence on your decision about whether or not you're gonna meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

Another of my soon to be famous random thoughts....

Are you actually reading the verifications of the people who are getting in touch with you and, if so, does it have an influence on your decision about whether or not you're gonna meet them? "

Yes and possibly. I also read the veris they give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to now I just read the last few to get an idea of what the person is like.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification "

Does anyone ever publish a bad veri???That is the downside of the system, only gives you one side of the story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

Another of my soon to be famous random thoughts....

Are you actually reading the verifications of the people who are getting in touch with you and, if so, does it have an influence on your decision about whether or not you're gonna meet them?

Yes and possibly. I also read the veris they give."
I do this and yes it makes a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll read the verifications of people I'm interested in, but usually I've already made my mind up whether or not I'm interested in meeting them before I do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would people really put up bad verifications for you to read?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification "

Well, nobody would ever show a bad verufication on their profile... or they'd be quite stupid which would stop me from wanting to meet them anyway

Non-vanilla cupcake (Which flavour then? ) : Can your read through the lines of someone's verifications??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification

Does anyone ever publish a bad veri???That is the downside of the system, only gives you one side of the story!"

Exactly, most of full of gushing bullshit, so we don't think much of the verifications..

A way at least to show that somebody is a timewaster at least would be good.

TBH we don't even bother with out profile anymore, nobody ever seemed to read it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification

Does anyone ever publish a bad veri???That is the downside of the system, only gives you one side of the story!

Exactly, most of full of gushing bullshit, so we don't think much of the verifications..

A way at least to show that somebody is a timewaster at least would be good.

TBH we don't even bother with out profile anymore, nobody ever seemed to read it..."

I personally read profiles and I'm quite put off by people with nothing or just the absolute minimum How do you start a conversation?? (but that's another sbject)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification

Well, nobody would ever show a bad verufication on their profile... or they'd be quite stupid which would stop me from wanting to meet them anyway

Non-vanilla cupcake (Which flavour then? ) : Can your read through the lines of someone's verifications?? "

Woman flavour .

Veris are just a small factor....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes defo xxx verifications are a good way to get a sense of someone.....genuine kinda people, none timewaster etc...but I do always like to make my mind up! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification

Well, nobody would ever show a bad verufication on their profile... or they'd be quite stupid which would stop me from wanting to meet them anyway

Non-vanilla cupcake (Which flavour then? ) : Can your read through the lines of someone's verifications??

Woman flavour .

Veris are just a small factor...."

My favourite one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a good way to out the timewasters though

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I do. After all that's what they are there for, and yes, some send me running as fast as my little legs will carry me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope , I prefer to make up my own mind about people.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I scan veris to get a bit of an idea, if they've met someone I know that's most often a bonus as I've an idea of that person's character and whether we'd potentially get on - it's only a part of my selection criteria though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do. After all that's what they are there for, and yes, some send me running as fast as my little legs will carry me. "

Really? What makes your little legs go that fast??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I scan veris to get a bit of an idea, if they've met someone I know that's most often a bonus as I've an idea of that person's character and whether we'd potentially get on - it's only a part of my selection criteria though"

My cock is big as well

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I scan veris to get a bit of an idea, if they've met someone I know that's most often a bonus as I've an idea of that person's character and whether we'd potentially get on - it's only a part of my selection criteria though

My cock is big as well "

I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I scan veris to get a bit of an idea, if they've met someone I know that's most often a bonus as I've an idea of that person's character and whether we'd potentially get on - it's only a part of my selection criteria though

My cock is big as well "

Mine too... but it's written in my veris haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock is big as well "

This is actually a very underappreciated approach to swinging

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Hi guys,

Another of my soon to be famous random thoughts....

Are you actualy reading the verifications of the people who are getting in touch with you and, if so, does it have an influence on your decision about whether or not you're gonna meet them?

Yes and possibly. I also read the veris they give."

The verifications someone leaves for others often tells me more about them than the ones they have received themselves

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification "

I very much doubt that if someone had a bad verification that they would show it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

Another of my soon to be famous random thoughts....

Are you actualy reading the verifications of the people who are getting in touch with you and, if so, does it have an influence on your decision about whether or not you're gonna meet them?

Yes and possibly. I also read the veris they give.

The verifications someone leaves for others often tells me more about them than the ones they have received themselves"

How come?? I mean, what can you see in someone's veris?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification "

I wouldn't meet anyone daft enough to show a bad verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i look at guys verifications to see what kind of females interst them and see if i fit the bill lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification

I wouldn't meet anyone daft enough to show a bad verification "

I don't think anyone would, it's why I'd probably not bother with anyone who has been on here 12 months and not got any. I know not everyone will agree but to me it says they've only had bad ones or are time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification

Does anyone ever publish a bad veri???That is the downside of the system, only gives you one side of the story!"

Not even sure people give bad veris. You will only get bad one back. So its good veri or no veri I think

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By *adyluck99Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Sometimes what isn't written, or reading between the lines is a good thing.

Also I look for kind of people they meet and what kind of veris they leave for other people.

There are false veris though, it's a bit of a minefield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but more to see if they have met someone I know, feel that slightly more trustworthy, well I did in the beginning anyway. I don't care about the contents as how someone is with someone else, isn't necessarily the truth but its a nice surprise when it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them but they don't influence me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

Another of my soon to be famous random thoughts....

Are you actually reading the verifications of the people who are getting in touch with you and, if so, does it have an influence on your decision about whether or not you're gonna meet them? "

I read them and yes sometimes they have deciding factor whether I meet or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do read veris - I think it's useful sometimes. If a guy has met people that I know of then I feel more comfortable with them. I don't pay a huge amount of attention to the actual detail, I'd rather not know that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting comments

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Although I hide mine, I like reading verifications. I prefer reading what they wrote in return though as it tells me more about my potential playmate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They definitely make interesting reading xx

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By *R and BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Bebington, wirral

Always read verifications and those they have verified I think it gives you a small insight into a person/couples personality and expectations x

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By *ittall2020Man
over a year ago

Norwich

One hitch with them...I've had a couple of meets with people with no verifs, and as neither of us has verifs we can't leave them for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a pain when you first join, but it's just to stop people having 2 profiles to verify themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With everything I reaad tonight, I really wonder what my veris are telling about me, hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's another debate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually those who hide verifiactions got something to hide lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"usually those who hide verifiactions got something to hide lol."

Not necessarily: I chose not to show some of mine because they're not particularly relevant... Nothing to hide, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol its ok, same for me, yeah its good to hide them.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

To the OP, yes and yes!

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

As an aside, how many spellings of verifications can one thread have? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As an aside, how many spellings of verifications can one thread have? lol"

And how come only the foreign OP can spell it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol its ok, same for me, yeah its good to hide them."

I thought you were back peddling but then I saw you do not have any. Riiiiggght.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I don't put much stock in what verifications actually say. As long as a potential playmate:

1) Has some from other verified users

2) Doesn't have a huge list of webcam only verifications

then that satisfies one facet of my selection criteria. I still use my own brain to make the final judgement call though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"usually those who hide verifiactions got something to hide lol."

Nothing to hide other than the fact for me it's nobody else's business but mine who I have met.

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By *rankygirlWoman
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

I've never read a bad verification - are they out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say why I haven't shown all mine, would probably get a ban

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I've never read a bad verification - are they out there? "

I've read some. They are out there.....i small quantities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

Another of my soon to be famous random thoughts....

Are you actualy reading the verifications of the people who are getting in touch with you and, if so, does it have an influence on your decision about whether or not you're gonna meet them?

Yes and possibly. I also read the veris they give.

The verifications someone leaves for others often tells me more about them than the ones they have received themselves"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant say why I haven't shown all mine, would probably get a ban "
You can always block the person so that their veri doesn't show and yours to them won't show either.

I made the mistake of leaving the site in the past when I have wanted to remove the veri. A little drastic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cant say why I haven't shown all mine, would probably get a ban "

I'm quite curious now....

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification "

Well surely if that was the case that someone gave a bad verification you would not post it on your profile

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Hi guys,

Another of my soon to be famous random thoughts....

Are you actualy reading the verifications of the people who are getting in touch with you and, if so, does it have an influence on your decision about whether or not you're gonna meet them?

Yes and possibly. I also read the veris they give.

The verifications someone leaves for others often tells me more about them than the ones they have received themselves

How come?? I mean, what can you see in someone's veris?"

The way they refer to the person they have met and the things they say about them can show how much respect they have for other people, how discreet they can be, what they are expecting from a meet and how they may behave afterwards. For example, if they leave a veri which is clearly stating a claim on the other person, I know to avoid! If they feel the need to brag about everything that happened on the meet in graphic detail from beginning to end, I know we will probably not be well suited

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"usually those who hide verifiactions got something to hide lol."

I just prefer not to show play ones as it is nobodies business but mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show mine but that's because I'm quite a personal person, doesn't mean I'm not genuine or don't meet.....

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"usually those who hide verifiactions got something to hide lol.

Nothing to hide other than the fact for me it's nobody else's business but mine who I have met. "

It's cos you're proper mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"usually those who hide verifiactions got something to hide lol.

Nothing to hide other than the fact for me it's nobody else's business but mine who I have met.

It's cos you're proper mental "

Sodus offus nutter

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport


"Yes we would never meet anyone who had a bad verification "

i dont think i have ever seen one xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

Another of my soon to be famous random thoughts....

Are you actualy reading the verifications of the people who are getting in touch with you and, if so, does it have an influence on your decision about whether or not you're gonna meet them?

Yes and possibly. I also read the veris they give.

The verifications someone leaves for others often tells me more about them than the ones they have received themselves

How come?? I mean, what can you see in someone's veris?

The way they refer to the person they have met and the things they say about them can show how much respect they have for other people, how discreet they can be, what they are expecting from a meet and how they may behave afterwards. For example, if they leave a veri which is clearly stating a claim on the other person, I know to avoid! If they feel the need to brag about everything that happened on the meet in graphic detail from beginning to end, I know we will probably not be well suited"

I'm absolutely not checking the verifications I left...

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