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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm interested to know what brought people to come in to the swinging world? Also can you remember your first experience and what emotions were involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lack of sex at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm interested to know what brought people to come in to the swinging world? Also can you remember your first experience and what emotions were involved? "

As a single guy who is still very much a newbie I am still waiting for my first experience, all invites to my inbox please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy sex and am not looking for a relationship, so it seemed a good idea. I also enjoy different things sexually, and trying to find that on 'the outside' so to speak would be nearly impossible I think. Easier to just be a part of a group of people who want something vaguely similar to what I want.

The first time I met a guy was at some services for a social, then we messed about a bit in his car. I was horny and wearing a very short jumper dresswith no knickers, so I was more nervous about a random person seeing my bits than meeting the guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started youngish me and a friend first went to la chambre in Sheffield together as two single gals it was her idea but she found it a bit over whelming I on the other hand loved it and was a very greedy girl that night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many shit relationships and being messed around in the vanilla dating world, got to the point where I decided I needed concentrate on what I want and having fun without the hassle and games.

So far it has been fun, only messed about once so far (couple of weeks ago) so I'm glad I didn't just become a mad cat lady instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was something we'd fantasised about for a few years as a couple.We finally plucked up the courage to give it a go and arranged a hotel meet(on a different site) it didnt go too well tbh, the other guy was also a first timer and didnt have much time (now i realise he was probably married and playing in his lunch hour) my man was really nervous and couldnt stay hard but i felt at home with 2 cocks and 2 mouths on me straight away!it was good enough to keep on, never look back!My only regret is not tryin it when i was younger and fitter! xxx

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We had just met, realized we both had very high sex drives and that monogamy wasn't going to be a viable option for either of us (it hadn't been during both our previous marriages) so we tried a club. It was mind-expanding, liberating, just what we both needed. We didn't do a full swap for some months, but when we did, it just seemed totally right.

We got married after a couple of years and swinging has made us closer that we could ever have thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I started after a bad break-up in my early 20's on a site called SH. I went a bit nuts for about 9 months and really went for it. Had a hell of a lot of sex with males/females and couples. I actually started with females and was exclusively bi for about a year. Tried lots of things with men that I wouldn't have had the emotional intelligence/confidence to negotiate in a "normal relationship". I'm not sure if the fact I fucked my way over the break-up of a relationship says something deep and meaningful about me or not, but I emerged feeling more confident...

I then dipped in and out of swinging between relationships, trying various sexual activities. Now, it's all a bit complicated and there are multiple reasons why I'm on here.

I can say I'm now more able negotiate what I want, I know what I want sexually it's just so time consuming filtering out all of those who I know won't do it for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a female friend who I had a great non sexual relationship with..we had known each other for about 10 years.. then one day when I was round at hers having a chat she asked had I seen that local paper headline about dogging.... A few more chats along the way and we went to the afore mentioned dogging area as a dare with an added curiosity more than anything.. We witnessed a few things over the following month or so...still at this point my friend and I havnt even kissed...we just watched things happening... Then it was another newspaper article about how swinging was becoming very popular which we discussed with even more curiosity...2 wks later we were walking through the doors of Cupids swingers club in Manchester....2 hrs later I was fucking her senseless in the couples room...when we left the club we looked at each other and burst out laughing saying what the fuck happened there...we can't do that again...which we both agreed on... A week later we were back at Cupids....the Buzz of the whole event had just been too much for us to ignore...we went another

10 times over the following 6 months which were just the most adrenaline pumped evenings I had ever had... unfortunately she got a job offer which meant her relocating to the Leamington Spa area....all this happened about 10 years ago...and I still get a buzz and an erection when I think of those visits to Cupids... Happy days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was something we'd fantasised about for a few years as a couple.We finally plucked up the courage to give it a go and arranged a hotel meet(on a different site) it didnt go too well tbh, the other guy was also a first timer and didnt have much time (now i realise he was probably married and playing in his lunch hour) my man was really nervous and couldnt stay hard but i felt at home with 2 cocks and 2 mouths on me straight away!it was good enough to keep on, never look back!My only regret is not tryin it when i was younger and fitter! xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After fifteen years of married monogamy we decided to spice things up a bit. We only actually had our first full swap at our fourth club visit. Have not looked back and we are likely to continue enjoying the lifestyle for many more years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is fascinating guys! Keep it up as just find all your experiences liberating. I think my high sex drive may rule out a monogomous relationship but I am yet to find a girl who I could have a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both wanted to explore our bi side. First meet was MMF and was very fumbly and nervous. Bf couldn't get hard and we just wanted it done. Second was with a bi couple and was great fun. Both had some same sex fun then fucked our own partners next to each other. They were more experienced and showed us the way. We are forever grateful to them!! Had some great meets and some not so great since. Hence we are very picky nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First swing type meet for me was almost by accident.

Was chatting to a lady in one of the AOL 30s chat rooms.

She was married, then mentioned one day she and hubby wanted to try a 3 sum.Thought it sounded like a fun idea so we fixed something up.

Was first time for the 3 of us.So very exciting.

Drove down, had a meal, watched a film with some wine. Then the fun started. Stopped the night

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