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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Someone please enlighten me. I messaged a woman who told me in order to play with her I have to ask her Dom's permission. Now not really into all this sub and dom thing but how does it work in terms of how much power does he have? So for instance if she's married does the hubby have to ask the Dom permission to fuck his wife, and what are the consequences if she defies her Dom and play with someone w/o gaining his permission. It's all lost on me, lol

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

If a man or woman is collared/owned the permission from their Master/Mistress is required. BDSM dynamics are totally different from vanilla relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a D/s Dom/sub relationship, the rules are individual to them.

The most respectful thing you could do is talk to the Dom, find out about T/their rules and get a better understanding about what T/they're after.

I use the 'ask my Dom' line as a way to quickly bat off people I am not actually interested in to let 2wheels tell them no but that's just me

crystal

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

I use the 'ask my Dom' line as a way to quickly bat off people I am not actually interested in to let 2wheels tell them no but that's just me

crystal"

Get's pen out and makes note and attempts to nick great idea.

Also needs understanding, but make believe Dom to fend off unwelcome enquiries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dom gets their cicks out of controlling someone,

Many years ago I asked my dad,

" what is a dominatrix "

he said

"ask your mother" !!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a load of bollox to me !

Leave it well alone mate there plenty of normal straight forward and really nice people on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a load of bollox to me !

Leave it well alone mate there plenty of normal straight forward and really nice people on here !"

It's basically someone asking him to ask her partner if she's allowed to play with him.

If people can't be respectful and understanding of how others choose to manage their play, then they shouldn't. Everyone has their own rules and quirks.

crystal

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Sounds like a load of bollox to me !

Leave it well alone mate there plenty of normal straight forward and really nice people on here !"

Oh dear, please define "normal"?

Why you are at, "straight", tut tut a wee but homophobic are we?

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