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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is getting more and more annoying, i clearly say on my profile no men but i keep getting messages from "straight men" who want to suck my cock or for me to suck them. When i reply with no thanks im straight, i always get the same response, its not gay because its only oral which doesn't make any sense to me . is this a big problem for anyone else ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

filters, there endeth your pain.

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Th "orally bi" self deluding solace.

Just don't respond. Disgusting habit anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"filters, there endeth your pain."

why havent i though of that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is getting more and more annoying, i clearly say on my profile no men but i keep getting messages from "straight men" who want to suck my cock or for me to suck them. When i reply with no thanks im straight, i always get the same response, its not gay because its only oral which doesn't make any sense to me . is this a big problem for anyone else ? "

I get it as well but it isnt a big problem for me ....just see it as apart of fab, it will happen

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If fit, hung, local to me, refer them on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh get the same here mate just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the attention, seeing as I'm an attention whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is getting more and more annoying, i clearly say on my profile no men but i keep getting messages from "straight men" who want to suck my cock or for me to suck them. When i reply with no thanks im straight, i always get the same response, its not gay because its only oral which doesn't make any sense to me . is this a big problem for anyone else ? "

I get these mails aswel.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

As a bi guy, I also get messages from straight men.... It's bloody annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the attention, seeing as I'm an attention whore"

Me too!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a bi guy, I also get messages from straight men.... It's bloody annoying"

i dont think you understood. I meant i dont want messages from men asking me to suck them off when im clearly straight

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"As a bi guy, I also get messages from straight men.... It's bloody annoying

i dont think you understood. I meant i dont want messages from men asking me to suck them off when im clearly straight"

Plenty of tryers on here. I expect their success rate is incredibly low/non exhistant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I either delete or say no thanks and bye( it depends on how they msg), like any other group..I'd prefer a polite msg , even from those I have no interest in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I either delete or say no thanks and bye( it depends on how they msg), like any other group..I'd prefer a polite msg , even from those I have no interest in"

thats the way i look at it, but when your getting 5 a day it gets annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I either delete or say no thanks and bye( it depends on how they msg), like any other group..I'd prefer a polite msg , even from those I have no interest in

thats the way i look at it, but when your getting 5 a day it gets annoying "

3 cucumbers n two bananas?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I either delete or say no thanks and bye( it depends on how they msg), like any other group..I'd prefer a polite msg , even from those I have no interest in

thats the way i look at it, but when your getting 5 a day it gets annoying

3 cucumbers n two bananas?"

i made that one too easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get messages asking me (female) to suck their cocks! Hhmmppff! Maybe its a man thing!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I never get messages asking me (female) to suck their cocks! Hhmmppff! Maybe its a man thing! "

Are you sure you wanted to say you weren't getting enough messages asking for a blow job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get messages asking me (female) to suck their cocks! Hhmmppff! Maybe its a man thing! "

suppose I better ask for usage of that hot mouth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is getting more and more annoying, i clearly say on my profile no men but i keep getting messages from "straight men" who want to suck my cock or for me to suck them. When i reply with no thanks im straight, i always get the same response, its not gay because its only oral which doesn't make any sense to me . is this a big problem for anyone else ? "
block em in

rather than moan about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never get messages asking me (female) to suck their cocks! Hhmmppff! Maybe its a man thing! "

if you wasn't at the other side of the country you probably would have gotten one from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason so many "straight men" message other "straight men" asking for bi related activity is very simple. Lots of straight male profiles on here are secretly at the very least,orally bi.

Just delete and block it's what the facility is designed for,no need to make a big deal of it.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"The reason so many "straight men" message other "straight men" asking for bi related activity is very simple. Lots of straight male profiles on here are secretly at the very least,orally bi.

Just delete and block it's what the facility is designed for,no need to make a big deal of it."

Ideal way of handling it, I just smile and say there's another one

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"Th "orally bi" self deluding solace.

Just don't respond. Disgusting habit anyway "

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is getting more and more annoying, i clearly say on my profile no men but i keep getting messages from "straight men" who want to suck my cock or for me to suck them. When i reply with no thanks im straight, i always get the same response, its not gay because its only oral which doesn't make any sense to me . is this a big problem for anyone else ? "

Happened to me several times. Then I learnt about the about message filters. Now no men can message me

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

laugh, be flattered, delete.. move on, have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get the same abit too much lol

But ill take the compliment all the same the ones that persist after you say 'not my bag' are what the block button is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"filters, there endeth your pain."

True

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"filters, there endeth your pain."
palmface

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By *utecontradictionMan
over a year ago

Malvern

And yet two hours on the op hasn't changed his filters.....hmmmmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are so desperate to suck a cock...why don't they just get a profile on Fabguys? It's what it's there for!

As a bi man, I get plenty of messages (one liners usually - I presume they are pissed), from "straight" men. I would sometimes give them the benefit of the doubt, but after hearing the same excuse "straight women/couples won't meet me if I say I am Bi" it just wound me up. This is the one scene where members don't judge, or if they do, there are plenty that won't. Don't they realise just how much their messages smack of desperation? Not a good way to start a dialogue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's annoying because they say "We can turn the lights off or a warm mouth is a warm mouth" I don't think they understand that if I was bi I would put that on my profile

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"filters, there endeth your pain. palmface "

What

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"And yet two hours on the op hasn't changed his filters.....hmmmmmmm. "

He has....Clearly says "Not looking for single men".....That shows filter in place....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And yet two hours on the op hasn't changed his filters.....hmmmmmmm.

He has....Clearly says "Not looking for single men".....That shows filter in place...."

that was the hope lol. ive had to put on a filter since then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yet two hours on the op hasn't changed his filters.....hmmmmmmm.

He has....Clearly says "Not looking for single men".....That shows filter in place....

that was the hope lol. ive had to put on a filter since then "

They will just fab yout pics now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the attention, seeing as I'm an attention whore

Me too!!!"

and me... never taken Up the offer bit nice to know someone wants my cock in their mouth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And yet two hours on the op hasn't changed his filters.....hmmmmmmm.

He has....Clearly says "Not looking for single men".....That shows filter in place....

that was the hope lol. ive had to put on a filter since then

They will just fab yout pics now lol"

then there is truly no escape

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like the attention, seeing as I'm an attention whore

Me too!!!

and me... never taken Up the offer bit nice to know someone wants my cock in their mouth. "

but it is annoying when you clearly state on your profile that you dont meet guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to block allguys as I have met some cool guys on here (Not in that way) I'll just block any guy that doesn't read the profile

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Block and move on. Really not that difficult.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

either block or reply Thanks but no thanks

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Wouldn't it be an idea to report them to admin as a 'wrong sexuality? Armed with a copy of the message admin could legitimately change their profile to stop them deceiving others.

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