FabSwingers.com forum: Why do women pretend to be single??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You get chatting and all of a sudden (can my partner come along) why don't they just join the site as a couple?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single no partner thankfully.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the old ' bring my partner along' one

Lots of men on here also aren't as single as they say ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a pet hate of ours. You read through a single profile (the majority like this do happen to be women for some reason) and the last paragraph says, I also have a partner/FB/significant other who can come along too.

I agree, go and create a couples profile then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of men or pretending to be single too, though there not asking for there partners to come along for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am a single player.married but do my own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and yeah single :P.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some couples have twigged there may be more chance with the single bi female profile with an added extra cock on offer approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get chatting and all of a sudden (can my partner come along) why don't they just join the site as a couple????? "

More attention and exclusivity perhaps?

Rather like a few couples I've come across on here, where the female has since left and its 'just male swinging now' (though can still conveniently bypass the single male filter).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single also and if I wernt I prob would not be on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a pet hate of ours. You read through a single profile (the majority like this do happen to be women for some reason) and the last paragraph says, I also have a partner/FB/significant other who can come along too.

I agree, go and create a couples profile then."

I have a FB, but we have a couples profile to play from. This is my profile and he has his profile for us to do our own thing. I report profiles that claim to be a single but are couples (and vice versa) because it's misleading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, go and create a couples profile then."

On possibility is that, their partner is just curious and not a full swinger yet? They might be open to their partner doing it but for them it could be a different matter?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"You get chatting and all of a sudden (can my partner come along) why don't they just join the site as a couple????? "

Would imagine it is because they will get far more attention on a single woman profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not so bad if they write it in the profile we are finding its after chatting for a while (very frustrating) Grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get chatting and all of a sudden (can my partner come along) why don't they just join the site as a couple????? "

This.

The best bit is when you suggest that He waits in the car outside. To which she (he?) then protests vehemently that they are a couple and always come as a pair!

*Report and block*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get chatting and all of a sudden (can my partner come along) why don't they just join the site as a couple?????

Would imagine it is because they will get far more attention on a single woman profile.

Though it's an undeniably shortsighted approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure there are more men pretending to be single than women "

That's just another way of saying there are more men on the site than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get chatting and all of a sudden (can my partner come along) why don't they just join the site as a couple?????

Would imagine it is because they will get far more attention on a single woman profile.

just what I was going to say

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It rather makes you wonder if the woman's profile is the woman's idea or if, indeed, it's actually the woman you're chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure there are more men pretending to be single than women

That's just another way of saying there are more men on the site than women. "

but most men pretending to be single don't offer to bring their wife's once you get talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get chatting and all of a sudden (can my partner come along) why don't they just join the site as a couple????? "

Its because the majority are not genuine

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have that on my profile but meet as a single woman... It's there so I have other options available than meeting alone, but I am happy to meet alone.

I don't feel it's a problem.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

single genuine bona fida female here at least i was when i last looked so good day to you all and just to say what gets my goat is the couples where the guy wants to meet me on his own ???????

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"I have that on my profile but meet as a single woman... It's there so I have other options available than meeting alone, but I am happy to meet alone.

I don't feel it's a problem.

I don't think your situation is the cause of the ire in the thread, you meet by yourself but have a guy for other options

It's the single profiles that won't meet as a single that annoys people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not a problem have just read your profile and you explain what you want, it's the profiles that say single woman looking for couples and then after exchanging in some cases a lot of messages then ask if they can bring a friend and when we say that's not what we want they don't chat anymore we have put on our profile what we want and we respect what others are after it just seems like a waste of everyone's time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had something like this recently. New m/f couple. Nothing on the profile says he's even bi but he wants to meet me alone.

No photos of him only of a woman. When I ask him for a photo he says "after he's had a face pic of mine"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 100% single too but know where your coming from. Its happened to me a few times x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm 100% single too but know where your coming from. Its happened to me a few times x "

I think that all men cum from the same place unless I wasn't paying attention in Biology that day...

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"It's not a problem have just read your profile and you explain what you want, it's the profiles that say single woman looking for couples and then after exchanging in some cases a lot of messages then ask if they can bring a friend and when we say that's not what we want they don't chat anymore we have put on our profile what we want and we respect what others are after it just seems like a waste of everyone's time.

I see your point and yes that would frustrate me too, like false marketing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep false marketing there seems to be a lot on here haha! We like your add by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% single too but know where your coming from. Its happened to me a few times x

I think that all men cum from the same place unless I wasn't paying attention in Biology that day...

Smartarse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, go and create a couples profile then.

On possibility is that, their partner is just curious and not a full swinger yet? They might be open to their partner doing it but for them it could be a different matter? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a bit like all the single blokes pretending to couples! Shysters!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see them all the time in the fab top list.

Its against site rules but for some reason they are allowed to carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same however could be said of males though it is more of can I meet you alone type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am a single player.married but do my own thing."

Me too- husband can no longer play

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

As someone once said...welcome to the internet, where men are men, and so are most of the women!

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"You get chatting and all of a sudden (can my partner come along) why don't they just join the site as a couple????? "

Report the females who do this and admin will change the profile to a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think some may have got the wrong end of the stick.

dont think the problem lies with single women that WILL meet on their own, but purely with those that say they are single, but will ONLY meet with their FB/husband/chiropdist

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"think some may have got the wrong end of the stick.

dont think the problem lies with single women that WILL meet on their own, but purely with those that say they are single, but will ONLY meet with their FB/husband/chiropdist"

Exactly this. Although i suspect some in this thread deliberately misunderstood the OP in an attempt to deflect/ justify their point of _iew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think some may have got the wrong end of the stick.

dont think the problem lies with single women that WILL meet on their own, but purely with those that say they are single, but will ONLY meet with their FB/husband/chiropdist

Exactly this. Although i suspect some in this thread deliberately misunderstood the OP in an attempt to deflect/ justify their point of _iew."

having said that, the OP is actually complaining about a genuine question being asked.

why not ask if someone else can come along? its part of negotiations on meets.

its the ones that ONLY meet with a partner accompanying, then thats a problem, but a 'single' person asking part way through a conversation if they can have someone come with them, is probably a legitimate request.

if its turned down, then the single person has the right to change their mind, i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get chatting and all of a sudden (can my partner come along) why don't they just join the site as a couple?????

Report the females who do this and admin will change the profile to a couple. "

Not if the female constantly has top fabbed pics though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"think some may have got the wrong end of the stick.

dont think the problem lies with single women that WILL meet on their own, but purely with those that say they are single, but will ONLY meet with their FB/husband/chiropdist

Exactly this. Although i suspect some in this thread deliberately misunderstood the OP in an attempt to deflect/ justify their point of _iew.

having said that, the OP is actually complaining about a genuine question being asked.

why not ask if someone else can come along? its part of negotiations on meets.

if its turned down, then the single person has the right to change their mind, i suppose"
Just to clarify our issue is with what we see as someone who's profile says that they are single and are happy to meet couples alone but after chatting we have found that they have no intention of meeting alone

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said it's simply a misleading 'marketing ploy'. Sell the female to get a competitive edge over other couples. Sadly the fact is it works, and that's one of the reasons people will always do it.

For me it's just a slightly less honest, more extreme version of men who Market their wives on a profile. No pictures or desciption of him, everything just centred around her.

Often in both cases, the women are not even doing the site interaction! It's just the way it is I guess. Bottom line, if the marketing tactic is wrong for you, don't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a partner and we have a couples profile but also play alone. If contacted on this profile it will always be me and me alones that plays should it develop to that stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a single girl profile to meet women only but I still get couples messaging me. I tell them if they want to meet it will be with my husband too.

So I guess I'm what your talking about but I do state in my profile that I will only meet women on my own and if your a couple it will be with my husband.

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Ah the old ' bring my partner along' one

Lots of men on here also aren't as single as they say .... "

Oi don't turn it on men the focus of this thread is on women for a change, lol

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

as a couple with a bi fem, we state quite clearly on our prof that he has no involvement with a single bi fem who wants to play with the wife, it is a solo one on one with me not even in the same building, but we still get requests for another guy to come along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single woman but prefer meet at clubs,other single woman are ruddy hard work on ere even get to phone call stage they chicken out if real and there the ones that contacted me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a singles profile yes it says I can play withmy partner involved but 9/10 I play alone. Only if the other couple/lady ask will I involve mrcrazypants

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a single woman but prefer meet at clubs,other single woman are ruddy hard work on ere even get to phone call stage they chicken out if real and there the ones that contacted me lol "

Thinking the ones that chicken out at the phone call stage are likely to be men?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I know, sigh couples hey

(Sarcasm warning)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am married but its just me that plays so thats why i use a single girl profile - he stays upstairs out of the way all the time - it says that on profile too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single here, what you see is what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, go and create a couples profile then."

I have fb, sometimes play together, sometimes alone, mind when playing with him use our couples acc, when playing alone use my acc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, go and create a couples profile then.

I have fb, sometimes play together, sometimes alone, mind when playing with him use our couples acc, when playing alone use my acc"
I agree best way to do it ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get annoyed at this. Very fustrating as i meet single women and most do try and pass off their " hide away fb or partners" either just vefore a meet, on a social meet or the cheeky feckers who, once in bed playing say " next time i will bring my partner along"

Fook that !!

I strat to think are they really bi? Or just going aling with it to please their fb or partners etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single woman but prefer meet at clubs,other single woman are ruddy hard work on ere even get to phone call stage they chicken out if real and there the ones that contacted me lol "

Oh god yes i get this too, chicken shits lol x or bottle it on day of meet lol

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Maybe I've just been lucky.

I don't have issues or troubles meeting with either single men or single women.

The only thing I get is couples pretending to be single women, but then I dont suppose a single man needs to pretend to be a single woman to me, as I meet with both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I've just been lucky.

I don't have issues or troubles meeting with either single men or single women.

The only thing I get is couples pretending to be single women, but then I dont suppose a single man needs to pretend to be a single woman to me, as I meet with both

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