FabSwingers.com forum: fakes timewasters.. eeejots lol

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

seen lots of complaints about em.. so what happens? they arrange a neet then fail to show?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Happened to me twice this week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ouch.. sorry to hear. being a single lass though you'll get genuine one shortly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seen lots of complaints about em.. so what happens? they arrange a neet then fail to show?"

Chat for ages make plans then they vanish, or day of meet suddenly cold feet or the wife is ill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewaster - someone who sets up a meet without having any intention to of actually meeting.

Fake - someone purporting to be someone/thing they're not, like a guy pretending to be female or a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Happened to me twice this week."

Touch wood not had that yet, but theres time lol

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By *exystargirlWoman
over a year ago

Warrington

Your playing into their hands if you keep on doing message ping pong. The trick is an early telephone call only with both fem's.

Your daft if you keep on chatting with them, more so if it's of a sexual nature as you have never met the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" The trick is an early telephone call "

Thats what I do, OP was asking what happens

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

"Yep. Happened to me twice this week."

Their lose. You look nice in your pictures too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, happened to me very recently! Someone cancelled at the time we'd planned to meet.

Also had several guys chat to me for a while/ delaying the 'social meet' then admit they have a GF or aren't in my area at all or suddenly can't meet as they've got a date!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

It's the timewasters that get on my nerves, no showing on meets or going quiet when the day comes, really annoying when you're a genuine meeter

The fakes/ escorts are easier to spot I find and you can not waste time there

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

"Yup, happened to me very recently! Someone cancelled at the time we'd planned to meet.

Also had several guys chat to me for a while/ delaying the 'social meet' then admit they have a GF or aren't in my area at all or suddenly can't meet as they've got a date!

Thats a piss take. I'd love to come to Edinburgh to look around and see what it is like. Maybe you could show me around

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

"seen lots of complaints about em.. so what happens? they arrange a neet then fail to show?"

i could write a book about them lol

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

I consider the biggest time wasters are the ones don't read profiles or just take no notice of age requirements etc and message anyway. They waste most of my time, people not turning up is rarer x

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

luckily only had one timewaster that didn't show up. He found someone slimmer than me!

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

yep, have to agree with you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Happened to me twice this week."

That is not nice at all you are a beautiful lady. Why would anyone in there right mind stand you. I would ask but your so far away from me.

It is sad that are so many time waster on here. Sometime things happen and you cannot make it.

It happend to me a few time I alway had a text well beforehand to say sorry. Never been left hanging.

Thing that shut do not turn up should be kick off the time. Proving it is the hard part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Happened to me twice this week.

That is not nice at all you are a beautiful lady. Why would anyone in there right mind stand you. I would ask but your so far away from me.

It is sad that are so many time waster on here. Sometime things happen and you cannot make it.

It happend to me a few time I alway had a text well beforehand to say sorry. Never been left hanging.

Thing that shut do not turn up should be kick off the time. Proving it is the hard part.

I suspect they have girlfriends, I've go so far as texting 10 minutes before telling me they're on their way, then nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet most are fakes on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been invited for a threesome tonight! Only joined 3 hours ago!!! 2 pictures and not verified but has given me am address!!!???? Should I risk my bum virginity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Happened to me twice this week.

That is not nice at all you are a beautiful lady. Why would anyone in there right mind stand you. I would ask but your so far away from me.

It is sad that are so many time waster on here. Sometime things happen and you cannot make it.

It happend to me a few time I alway had a text well beforehand to say sorry. Never been left hanging.

Thing that shut do not turn up should be kick off the time. Proving it is the hard part.

I suspect they have girlfriends, I've go so far as texting 10 minutes before telling me they're on their way, then nothing.

Yes sound like they have bottled it and have no balls. why text to say you on your way then not turn up?

It is a dam pity you live some far from me. As you are one beautiful lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Happened to me twice this week.

That is not nice at all you are a beautiful lady. Why would anyone in there right mind stand you. I would ask but your so far away from me.

It is sad that are so many time waster on here. Sometime things happen and you cannot make it.

It happend to me a few time I alway had a text well beforehand to say sorry. Never been left hanging.

Thing that shut do not turn up should be kick off the time. Proving it is the hard part.

I suspect they have girlfriends, I've go so far as texting 10 minutes before telling me they're on their way, then nothing.

Yes sound like they have bottled it and have no balls. why text to say you on your way then not turn up?

It is a dam pity you live some far from me. As you are one beautiful lady xx"

Had one message saying I was kinda hoping just me and you would be fuck buddy's. Erm, no thanks I have a f.w.b already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we've been on here just over a month and had more than our fair share of timewasters- most recently last night when G fancied some fun, messaged a guy who he'd chatted to who said yup, half an hour mate I'll be there.... and apparently fell asleep straight after that.

Aye. Right.

Had enough, its all we ever seem to get now

either that or gain a random stalker. ....

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Just been invited for a threesome tonight! Only joined 3 hours ago!!! 2 pictures and not verified but has given me am address!!!???? Should I risk my bum virginity?

YES!! Then send me pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been invited for a threesome tonight! Only joined 3 hours ago!!! 2 pictures and not verified but has given me am address!!!???? Should I risk my bum virginity?

YES!! Then send me pics

For some strange reason they said they only been on today so couldn't send me anymore pics! Think it's the sceptical in me but gave it a miss! I will get my threesome one day lol Guess I want it to be right for my first time awwwww

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Just been invited for a threesome tonight! Only joined 3 hours ago!!! 2 pictures and not verified but has given me am address!!!???? Should I risk my bum virginity?

YES!! Then send me pics

Should have stayed on the train and came to mine, could have wasted a fair few hours putting that right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been invited for a threesome tonight! Only joined 3 hours ago!!! 2 pictures and not verified but has given me am address!!!???? Should I risk my bum virginity?

YES!! Then send me pics

Should have stayed on the train and came to mine, could have wasted a fair few hours putting that right

Ha ha wasted is not the right word!!!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Happy spend time wasting your virgin ass....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,Mrs Fox here. No shows are par for the course.People forget that the Swinging world is outside the norm and the usual rules of courtesy don't apply.Swinging is first and foremost about self gratification.If someone arranges a meet then gets a better offer you will get blown off. If you can't deal with that don't call yourself a swinger you have to be hard,cold and self assured to make anything of this game.Deal with it or go join E Harmony.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I have filtered out the fake meet time wasters. If you are too shy to give out your number, talk on the phone or face cam beforehand I don't bother.

My only irritant now is guys wanting my help to talk their wife into swinging. Like i have time for that grrrrrr

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By *erby mf40sCouple
over a year ago

derby

yes there is loads o here esp couple , were the guy is really wishing his wife would swing

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Timewaster - someone who sets up a meet without having any intention to of actually meeting.

Fake - someone purporting to be someone/thing they're not, like a guy pretending to be female or a couple."

Or married

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I got this question for you all.

Is actually a timewaster someone who has neither turned up for a meet after you have arranged a specific time and day nor notified you or can it be someone who has not got back to you after they vaguely agreed to meet some time next week for example?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find time wasters ( those who set up a meet and then go all silent ) quite rare on this site. Plenty of Fish was appalling for time wasters and pic hunters. Only had two from this site as I can spot them straightaway now. I never send any other pics than I post on here, no vids and no detailed sex talk before a meet. Also if they go silent two days before a meet - I just meet someone else - if they had a genuine reason to be silent ( phone lost ) then I can always re arrange x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got this question for you all.

The latter IMO is just an annoyance, likewise with those who contact you without reading profiles (as mentioned somewhere above).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find time wasters ( those who set up a meet and then go all silent ) quite rare on this site. Plenty of Fish was appalling for time wasters and pic hunters. Only had two from this site as I can spot them straightaway now. I never send any other pics than I post on here, no vids and no detailed sex talk before a meet. Also if they go silent two days before a meet - I just meet someone else - if they had a genuine reason to be silent ( phone lost ) then I can always re arrange x "

I'm with you. Nothing is set in stone until I get confirmation on the morning of the meet. No confirmation = I don't get ready and turn up to have a no show. It works for me

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

"I have filtered out the fake meet time wasters. If you are too shy to give out your number, talk on the phone or face cam beforehand I don't bother.

My only irritant now is guys wanting my help to talk their wife into swinging. Like i have time for that grrrrrr"

Agreed on the first para

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

The thing is, this "annoyance" as you put it has happened to me twice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is, this "annoyance" as you put it has happened to me twice...

When it happens regularly you'll learn to ignore it and move onto the next.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You generally get a feel after 2-3 messages if it is going to happen or not.

The guy with no pics, no verifications, who lives 200 miles away is generally a chancy proposition at best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm learning. I'm a no pic swapping, no skype girl. I've done weeks of swapping pics and getting nowhere. Now I just say, google youporn, get your kicks there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of timewasters...men and women !

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