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By *igax2001 OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands

My fb wanted anal tonight and whatever position we tried hurt . Any advice ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

plenty and plenty of lube, make sure your partner is very relaxed and build up very slowly and gently. Dont try to rush it

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

plenty of lube plenty of teasing before hand and should then slip in no trouble xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love anal with my fella xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put ur tongue up there first, that will get her relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of trust and lots of lube

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By *igax2001 OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands

What position is best ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off with a small butt plug to help relax the sphincter, with lube.

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

When I tried anal I found lying on my side the best position, also good with a bullet vibe on your clit!!!

But I'm not a big fan, some of us never really take to it and prefer other stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start off with a small butt plug to help relax the sphincter, with lube."

So are you a fan of it yourself vanilla? Do you still need a little butt plug to warm you up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start off with a small butt plug to help relax the sphincter, with lube.

So are you a fan of it yourself vanilla? Do you still need a little butt plug to warm you up?"

Part of my prep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start off with a small butt plug to help relax the sphincter, with lube.

So are you a fan of it yourself vanilla? Do you still need a little butt plug to warm you up?

Part of my prep."

Have you never "collar"ed anyone willing to warm it up with their tongue?

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Deep breathing, this helps relax you and takes the focus away from your arse and possible pain.....then get him to go slow, plenty of lube

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The deep breathing will also ensure there's plenty of blood to supply your tissues, allowing easier stretching.

Start the anal after some foreplay, as the higher your sexual arousal, the easier it should be. As others say, rimming will get you more sexually turned-on down there. You also don't have to do a full session in one go, you can stop and start, perhaps getting in deeper each time etc.

It's worth playing with different positions: it's also about what you find pleasurable and not just easier. Potentially just bent over is simple and adjustable, as is on all fours. As you build up expertise, you'll have an incredible variety of positions to move onto. Have fun

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

and try you pushing onto him rather than him thrusting that way your in control may find it easier to relax as well

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By *obbobeanMan
over a year ago

dagenham

Firstly a nice massage will help to put her in the mood. Hover about her arse teasing her with your fingers and of course tongue. Now the all important lube use lots and then lots more and start by inserting a solitary finger slow and easy and then graduate to 2 fingers. If she is happy with this the go for it, but 1st use more lube on her and LUBE YOUR COCK aswel I'm sure then she will be able to accommodate your cock. Remember pull out of course if she feels any uncomfortable sensations, you can of course try again at a later date. All the best and hope the pair of you enjoy your anal experiences. By the way, maybe you should allow her to finger fuck your arse aswel using of course lots of lube and maybe you could graduate onto a dildo or vibrator in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My top tip - when you first put finger in, use the pad if your fingertip and gently massage until it is taken in. resist the urge to poke !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My top tip - when you first put finger in, use the pad if your fingertip and gently massage until it is taken in. resist the urge to poke !"

Still reckon a tongue is better than finger

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"My top tip - when you first put finger in, use the pad if your fingertip and gently massage until it is taken in. resist the urge to poke !

Still reckon a tongue is better than finger"

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