FabSwingers.com forum: Accommodate or not

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think this actually has a major effect on the interest a person gets? Effects their meets if they can't or can accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it definitely does yes

I get loads of mail from guys who try and talk me into letting them come here and when I say no they are no longer interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think this actually has a major effect on the interest a person gets? Effects their meets if they can't or can accommodate "

if someone cant accom,its a nuisance,as i cant because of family.it does impact on where they live in relation to me as well.if a chap can accom then its chocks away.hotels ent cheap.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i makes a huge difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't think anyone who cant accommodate should expect anyone to accommodate them

If you cant accommodate yourself then you should be prepared to get a hotel in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some yes - others, no - depending on their use of hotels, clubs and socials.

It's never affected me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its never stopped me from meeting someone, i'm more than happy to get a hotel but i've spoken to guys who aren't and have basically told me if I cant accommodate them they aren't interested in meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't think anyone who cant accommodate should expect anyone to accommodate them

If you cant accommodate yourself then you should be prepared to get a hotel in my opinion "

I said something very similar, I said if you can't accommodate then dont expect others to do it for you

a few didnt really like what I said but there you go you can't please everyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate but I house share so won't until I trust a man enough and he becomes a regular.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Do you think this actually has a major effect on the interest a person gets? Effects their meets if they can't or can accommodate "

Suppose it depends on how people meet. If they are more into club meets or parties, no it's not so much a problem.

Private meets then yes it can make a big difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can accommodate but I house share so won't until I trust a man enough and he becomes a regular."

a regular!!! so does he walk in and you say the usual tonight love in your barmaids leopard print bet lynch top

then pour a pint

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I can't. Wouldn't expect someone to accom me in return. But saying that money is tight so I can't afford hotels a lot. I would accom but have my boy here so it's a no x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I personally don't think anyone who cant accommodate should expect anyone to accommodate them

If you cant accommodate yourself then you should be prepared to get a hotel in my opinion "

I don't see why if other people can accommodate and are happy to - it is their choice to offer or not after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant say ive ever had a problem and i cant accom , if lad worth seeing i make sure i get to see him , hotel or club and i travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't think anyone who cant accommodate should expect anyone to accommodate them

If you cant accommodate yourself then you should be prepared to get a hotel in my opinion

I don't see why if other people can accommodate and are happy to - it is their choice to offer or not after all."

expecting people to accommodate you is not the same as taking up an offer to be accommodated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to accommodate for meets-feel more comfortable and in control in our own environment and are child free in our house for the vast majority of the time so it doesn't really bother us if people can't. We don't accommodate overnight though unless it's very good friends who we've known for a good while

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I've never had can accommodate on my profile, and it's unlikely I will for another 15 years or so.

I have never found it a problem and have never been asked why I cant accom either.

But then I go to clubs and what not so it's easy enough to work round.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

This is all presupposing that people read profiles, or search for criteria that they'll only accept.

It all depends for me - who people are, their interests, location etc. I prefer to accom and meet at clubs and in public, and then it's down to potential partners and interests/capabilities on the day concerned. Hotels are good, but most discounted hotel rooms have to be pre-booked by a number of weeks, so it depends on budget if last minute rooms are considered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't. Wouldn't expect someone to accom me in return. But saying that money is tight so I can't afford hotels a lot. I would accom but have my boy here so it's a no x"

I got money off premier inn who says romance is dead ey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't think anyone who cant accommodate should expect anyone to accommodate them

If you cant accommodate yourself then you should be prepared to get a hotel in my opinion

I don't see why if other people can accommodate and are happy to - it is their choice to offer or not after all.

expecting people to accommodate you is not the same as taking up an offer to be accommodated "

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I can't. Wouldn't expect someone to accom me in return. But saying that money is tight so I can't afford hotels a lot. I would accom but have my boy here so it's a no x

I got money off premier inn who says romance is dead ey! "

Premier inn is good for me.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"I think it definitely does yes

I get loads of mail from guys who try and talk me into letting them come here and when I say no they are no longer interested"

Same applies here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it definitely does yes

I get loads of mail from guys who try and talk me into letting them come here and when I say no they are no longer interested"
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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

expecting people to accommodate you is not the same as taking up an offer to be accommodated "

Yea, but people have the choice to offer or not on their profile, so I only talk to people who do and therefore presumably are happy to, because I cannot.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I only accommodate those who also can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well currently in the process of getting a house share so can accommodate soon so guess we will see if this changes things?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I personally don't think anyone who cant accommodate should expect anyone to accommodate them

If you cant accommodate yourself then you should be prepared to get a hotel in my opinion

I don't see why if other people can accommodate and are happy to - it is their choice to offer or not after all.

expecting people to accommodate you is not the same as taking up an offer to be accommodated "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think this actually has a major effect on the interest a person gets? Effects their meets if they can't or can accommodate "

Would say so but then the alternate option is just split hotel room costs or meet in a club ...always a way around it ....if ....their willing to ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't think anyone who cant accommodate should expect anyone to accommodate them

If you cant accommodate yourself then you should be prepared to get a hotel in my opinion "

Yet you cannot accomadate

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

People can't accommodate for various reasons. We make it clear in our profile why we can't.

It's the "single males" who "live alone" that can't accommodate that make us wonder. When we ask if they are attatched it suddenly goes quiet.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"People can't accommodate for various reasons. We make it clear in our profile why we can't.

It's the "single males" who "live alone" that can't accommodate that make us wonder. When we ask if they are attatched it suddenly goes quiet."

I don't meet men that can't accommodate: I don't give two hoots why not as I'd assume they were lying anyway: however...I think it unfair that only single men are expected to declare why they can't!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"People can't accommodate for various reasons. We make it clear in our profile why we can't.

It's the "single males" who "live alone" that can't accommodate that make us wonder. When we ask if they are attatched it suddenly goes quiet."

I'm single and can accommodate quite easily and find it handy and easy. Being a single man I can't be bothered spending on high club fees especially when I can meet lots of people and entertain at home quite easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah most men that cant accommodate are hiding something!!

all sad excuses got kid living with me but really are MARRIED OR ATTACHED !

AVOID em !

most men invite themselves over why the hell cant us women be spoilt n pampered elsewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah most men that cant accommodate are hiding something!!all sad excuses got kid living with me but really are MARRIED OR ATTACHED !AVOID em !

must be the same for all single ladies then who use the sad excuse of kids living with them eh, but really are all MARRIED OR ATTACHED! ! AVOID EM TOO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah most men that cant accommodate are hiding something!!all sad excuses got kid living with me but really are MARRIED OR ATTACHED !AVOID em !

must be the same for all single ladies then who use the sad excuse of kids living with them eh, but really are all MARRIED OR ATTACHED! ! AVOID EM TOO "

very true honesty is best pollicy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't think anyone who cant accommodate should expect anyone to accommodate them

If you cant accommodate yourself then you should be prepared to get a hotel in my opinion

Yet you cannot accomadate

but i don't expect or ask anyone to accommodate me my profile clearly states i cant accommodate so meeting would mean getting a hotel

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Yeah most men that cant accommodate are hiding something!!all sad excuses got kid living with me but really are MARRIED OR ATTACHED !AVOID em !

must be the same for all single ladies then who use the sad excuse of kids living with them eh, but really are all MARRIED OR ATTACHED! ! AVOID EM TOO

very true honesty is best pollicy"

Honesty is, however in the case of most divorces the kids usually live with the mother, not always I know, certainly was in my case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite happy to accommodate on a first meet but would expect the other party to accommodate for a second meet.

A few people, (who can't accommodate), have tried to use my place as a knocking shop.....ain't happening!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

A few people, (who can't accommodate), have tried to use my place as a knocking shop.....ain't happening!

A definite case of sod that for a game of soldiers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah most men that cant accommodate are hiding something!!

all sad excuses got kid living with me but really are MARRIED OR ATTACHED !

AVOID em !

most men invite themselves over why the hell cant us women be spoilt n pampered elsewhere!

Plain ignorance really thinking along those lines ....myself personally can accommodate but I live in a house share and some folks really see that as not being able to accom ...well mainly couples but singles are normally fine with it so basically it's take it or leave it ....

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Chester

Maybe because women can afford to be choosy on here but I find many who can't accom themselves to have the audacity for the man to pay for the hotel room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe because women can afford to be choosy on here but I find many who can't accom themselves to have the audacity for the man to pay for the hotel room! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe because women can afford to be choosy on here but I find many who can't accom themselves to have the audacity for the man to pay for the hotel room! "

but that's only because men on here are daft enough to do it, if guys on here keep asking how high, some women will keep shouting jump

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Maybe because women can afford to be choosy on here but I find many who can't accom themselves to have the audacity for the man to pay for the hotel room!

but that's only because men on here are daft enough to do it, if guys on here keep asking how high, some women will keep shouting jump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't accommodate. Not a problem. We get lots of offers from men offering to pay for a hotel or for us to come to theirs. We travelled 100 miles to meet a lovely couple. And we will be visiting again. And offered overnight accommodation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man wants a fuck he will pay for a room. I never approach a man on here so if they ask to meet me they know U can't accommodate. If they ask I say sorry no. I would never ask them to get a hotel room as I can't afford to for every man who wants to meet me that doesn't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ..... that cant accommodate are hiding something!!all sad excuses got kid living with me but really are MARRIED OR ATTACHED ! ... "

I can't tell if this is sarcastic or just a very blinkered view ...

Personally I have 3 sad excuses (kids) and am a single parent ... Which OBVIOUSLY is code for being married or attached

And yes, my profile says 'can't accommodate' it deters those who are naturally suspicious, and those who want an impromptu fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ..... that cant accommodate are hiding something!!all sad excuses got kid living with me but really are MARRIED OR ATTACHED ! ...

I can't tell if this is sarcastic or just a very blinkered view ...

Personally I have 3 sad excuses (kids) and am a single parent ... Which OBVIOUSLY is code for being married or attached

And yes, my profile says 'can't accommodate' it deters those who are naturally suspicious, and those who want an impromptu fuck. "

my profiles quite honest, I could accommodate if I wanted to but I choose not to, and i'm 100% singe and have been for 5 years, I don't want guys on sex sites knowing where I live and that's my choice, but as I have said before I do not expect anyone to accommodate me i'm perfectly happy sharing the cost of a hotel or I can get ready and go to a club any time I choose, I don't have to have people here to get sex there for I choose not to

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