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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you peeps prefer to arrange meets in advance or last minute. We prefer last minute. Less chance of something spoiling our plans and sooo much hornier xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we prefer spontaneous as you never know what mood you'll be in until that weekend. we try to refrain from planning meets with others for the following weekend or whatever incase by the time it gets to friday we've had a crap week at work or whatever and arent in the mood for company. It doesnt always work in our favour though as alot of couples prefer to plan ahead and dont 'like' the fact that we wont x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree. Some couples are booked up weeks ahead. If something cropped up I wouldn't want to be classed as a time waster. We understand free time is precious.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to plan my meets as usually there is shift work involved, i have had a couple of spontaneous meets where ive been texted an hour or so before asking if im free and luckily i was but dont happen often.

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Definately spontainious!

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

Spontaneous is good for me. Life pressures get in the way otherwise. Each to their own but I have to work to pay the bills and being on call is a nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the thrill and naughtiness of spontaneous make it more horny tho. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a couple days in advance but not to far, I have always found that guys who cancel tend to be ones who have arranged to meet in advance, if there's to big a gap between arranging a meet and meeting it gives them time to arrange something with someone else or something in your personal life to come up

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Both.... Being that we are split between locations then a meet together we usually (but not always) plan and enjoy the build up to it. However love an impromptu meet or meeting alone at the last minute x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having kids, dogs and busy jobs mean we need to plan in advance so spontaneous meets are out for us. We also prefer to speak to potential meets for a while before meeting, make sure we are all on same wave length etc.

Now if I was a single girl looking for single men I'd be well up for spontaneous meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way to meet no time for messing around

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its easy to arrange a meet in advane when your horny and in the mood, easy to change your mind later, when were horny we want it now,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no objection to people being spontaneous, I just think there is a time and a place for it

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

Last minute meet ups are hot and the sex seems better too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last minute meet ups are hot and the sex seems better too."
Defo, your in the mood and up for it. don't have time to think.....

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I have a diary lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short notice meets are very horny!

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING


"Last minute meet ups are hot and the sex seems better too.Defo, your in the mood and up for it. don't have time to think....."

Hell yeah wish I could get one tonight or this weekend

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Short notice meets can be very horny. But I prefer the build up to a planned one x

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By *ancmannMan
over a year ago

manchester / Liverpool

love short notice spontaneous meets.... seems that bit more naughty meeting someone for sex who is a complete stranger who you only started speaking to a few minutes before arranging a meet..... in fact I'm getting horny thinking about it!!!

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

So far my meets gave been pre planned and often arranged several weeks in advance or even a couple of months. In most cases that's worked really well often accompanied by regular texting between both parties in the build up to the meet, although there has been the odd occasion where circumstances have changed between first contact and actual meeting that have either stopped the meeting taking place or perhaps the meet shouldn't have actually happened in the end. I think I've preferred that as I've tried to develop friendships with people I play with.

I've never ruled out spontaneous meets but these have tended to be restricted to clubs rather than one on one meets, but you never know that might change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having done last minute meets and planned both can be just as good/exciting.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I prefer a bit of notice to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely do short notice meets. Prefer the chat first which makes the build up even more exciting

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I prefer spontaneous meets, we do tend to plan in advance because of work and children but find as someone said above if it's been a stressful week at work I often don't actually feel in the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you peeps prefer to arrange meets in advance or last minute. We prefer last minute. Less chance of something spoiling our plans and sooo much hornier xx"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with either!!

Although finding the right company that's also free, in the mood, local and meets all your preferences last minute is a hell of a lot harder than finding suitable company in advance.

And having seen soooooooo many 'I've been stood up' threads over the years, the majority have been in relation to same day arrangements, rather than those planned in advance.

But whatever suits and works for the individual/couple concerned - either can be fun - or a total disaster!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've even had a couple round at ours who we been chatting to but never exchanged pics. Knew wed get on from messages. That was really horny xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Both. A little variety is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous is hot.. Planned is hot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous is very hot but so far only done planned meeting. Not for the lack of trying mind you.

anyone free then?

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