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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So , you know the scene ..both had a play ,both horny , both ready for a good fucking , he's as hard as a rock so out it comes to glove him up ,then BOOM ..........condomophobia ..he goes as limp as a wet lettuce leaf !!!! 'i hate condoms i'll be ok without it ' he says ..HELL NO is my quick reply .....so ,condomophopia , anyone know how to cure this debilitating and extremely frustrating disease ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. Must admit had that before, I used to go limp putting on the condom. Turns out I was using the wrong condoms. I now get Skins XL and they are a great fit. Shame I don't use them often (been a while since I've had sex) urgh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing its a con by some blokes.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

If enough people say 'hell no' I'm guessing it will cure itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So , you know the scene ..both had a play ,both horny , both ready for a good fucking , he's as hard as a rock so out it comes to glove him up ,then BOOM ..........condomophobia ..he goes as limp as a wet lettuce leaf !!!! 'i hate condoms i'll be ok without it ' he says ..HELL NO is my quick reply .....so ,condomophopia , anyone know how to cure this debilitating and extremely frustrating disease ?

"

Don't know a cure I'm afraid but have felt your frustrations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha. Must admit had that before, I used to go limp putting on the condom. Turns out I was using the wrong condoms. I now get Skins XL and they are a great fit. Shame I don't use them often (been a while since I've had sex) urgh."

Xtra Little?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If enough people say 'hell no' I'm guessing it will cure itself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just guessing but maybe it shows the level of experience of some people, having grown up with them and always used them (unless I'm a long term relationship) I have never had a problem. Condoms femidom and dental dams are always in our naughty bag we even use them for play with each other form time to time for a change.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If enough people say 'hell no' I'm guessing it will cure itself."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha. Must admit had that before, I used to go limp putting on the condom. Turns out I was using the wrong condoms. I now get Skins XL and they are a great fit. Shame I don't use them often (been a while since I've had sex) urgh."

will have to invest in some of those ....frustration is the worst state to be in x

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"No such thing its a con by some blokes."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us it would just go to prove that the guy wasn't used to wearing them.

The more you use them the easier it gets until it gets second nature.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them on and let the games begin! (I found Durex XL a much better fit too!)

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

If a guy goes limp when putting one on, that tells me he isnt used to wearing them...

Thats when I STOP play...

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"To us it would just go to prove that the guy wasn't used to wearing them.

The more you use them the easier it gets until it gets second nature.

XXXX"

should have read this before I commented lol

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

i get they're not fun but no glove no love!

Their choice x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if they cant get it up..... with or without... it aint going in lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

COC .. Condoms Of Course .. i cant use delay condoms cos they make me go numb and get an attack of mr floppy ...maybe i should use a cock ring too

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

wasnt that a film starring the who

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't quite follow some of the comments on here, it is a problem for a lot of guys, hubby hates wearing them and they do cause problems sometimes, but he would never play without them.

As for I won't play because they obviously aren't used to using them, not sure how a woman can come to that conclusion!!

By all means if someone tries to use it as an excuse to try without tell them where to go, but don't just assume that all guys are trying it on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To us it would just go to prove that the guy wasn't used to wearing them.

The more you use them the easier it gets until it gets second nature.

XXXX"
I was married for 24 years before i came on here so of course i am not use to wearing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a similar issue, was in a committed relationship before coming here so trying to get used to them again.

Use cheap and cheerful for posh wanking at home and in combo with a fleshlight to retrain and use skyns and viagra when on a meet otherwise i dont penetrate and use other methods to satisfy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To us it would just go to prove that the guy wasn't used to wearing them.

The more you use them the easier it gets until it gets second nature.

XXXX I was married for 24 years before i came on here so of course i am not use to wearing them "

I do think those married for many years will or can have a problem...we've been trying to find the best fit so when we play this wont happen, so far it hasn't, but I think it's trial and error of the condoms lol I know sounds weird but I those with mentioning it are making a valid point!!

Loser fits I heard are better....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looser*

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I've never met a guy (or girl for that matter) who's gone "Really, condoms?!? I soooooo love them!"

They are not ideal but I think trying to find ways to work with them is a good discussion

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt it be easier if the woman was on the pill lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't understand is teenagers can fit the things over their heads but men say they are to tight on their cocks how does that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldnt it be easier if the woman was on the pill lol x."

And you're totally clean and disease free you numpty!!!!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Wouldnt it be easier if the woman was on the pill lol x."

don't protect against stis though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldnt it be easier if the woman was on the pill lol x.

don't protect against stis though"

I know it was a joke x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldnt it be easier if the woman was on the pill lol x.

And you're totally clean and disease free you numpty!!!!"
Yes I am actually x

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