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Bi double standard no pun intended

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

New to fab so hello to all. My question is this. I'm seeing a lot of women post that they are turned off by a mmf threesome with male interaction. If a male is willing to have interaction with another male (no anal) in a mmf threesome to please his woman, but has NO interest in a relationship with the same sex. How does that differ from a woman having a ffm threesome and the women touch during it to please her man? Seems like a double standard. I would like to hear what women have to say about the stigma surrounding this topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer bi mmf to any other kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is a double standard? Women are women and men are men. Bi women and bi men are not the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot more straight men who love being entertained by 2 bi women, than straight women being entertained by 2 bi gents on FAB.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I needed to add that it's culturally more acceptable for women to do this than men. A guy gets labeled as gay while no label goes to a woman. To me, that makes it a double standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I needed to add that it's culturally more acceptable for women to do this than men. A guy gets labeled as gay while no label goes to a woman. To me, that makes it a double standard. "

Good point. Just one of those things I think.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

There are many woman who say they are bi, when infact they are just bi playfull! Many like to recieve yet have no intention of returning the pleasure! I have seen this many times!

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By *sa fun bradfordMan
over a year ago

bradford/leeds

I am just happy to go with the flow of things on a meet if some one touches my cock does it make any difference witch one of the couple does it really? I am gay will never have another man fuck me or me him but were all adults and things happen when your having FUN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I don't like guys with guys.. Why is it a double standard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Forth comment down should explain it. Thanks for posting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am just happy to go with the flow of things on a meet if some one touches my cock does it make any difference witch one of the couple does it really? I am gay will never have another man fuck me or me him but were all adults and things happen when your having FUN"
It's how I feel too if everyone participating is caught up in the moment. Seeing a woman turned on over it gets me going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it double standards all because a woman likes to play with other women I don't think that means she should like to see men playing together too

What I do think is double standards tho is how bi women can play together in open rooms in clubs on none bi nights but men cant

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"New to fab so hello to all. My question is this. I'm seeing a lot of women post that they are turned off by a mmf threesome with male interaction. If a male is willing to have interaction with another male (no anal) in a mmf threesome to please his woman, but has NO interest in a relationship with the same sex. How does that differ from a woman having a ffm threesome and the women touch during it to please her man? Seems like a double standard. I would like to hear what women have to say about the stigma surrounding this topic."

I am struggling to see why it is a problem if people don't want to have a bi MFM...surely it is down to preferences and choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New to fab so hello to all. My question is this. I'm seeing a lot of women post that they are turned off by a mmf threesome with male interaction. If a male is willing to have interaction with another male (no anal) in a mmf threesome to please his woman, but has NO interest in a relationship with the same sex. How does that differ from a woman having a ffm threesome and the women touch during it to please her man? Seems like a double standard. I would like to hear what women have to say about the stigma surrounding this topic."

To us, anybody going against their sexual nature just to please someone, partner or not, man or woman, needs to have a serious word with themselves.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"New to fab so hello to all. My question is this. I'm seeing a lot of women post that they are turned off by a mmf threesome with male interaction. If a male is willing to have interaction with another male (no anal) in a mmf threesome to please his woman, but has NO interest in a relationship with the same sex. How does that differ from a woman having a ffm threesome and the women touch during it to please her man? Seems like a double standard. I would like to hear what women have to say about the stigma surrounding this topic.

I am struggling to see why it is a problem if people don't want to have a bi MFM...surely it is down to preferences and choice?"

True

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater


"I don't think it double standards all because a woman likes to play with other women I don't think that means she should like to see men playing together too

What I do think is double standards tho is how bi women can play together in open rooms in clubs on none bi nights but men cant"

Totally this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot more men would get into it with a guy an a girl if they were totally honest with themselves. I tried it once was with a couple the guy had his cock rite next to my face I got turned on with the thought of it so I said let me touch your Dick he said ok go On it felt weird at first but good weird I thought stuff it in for a penny an all that an said stick it in my mouth which he did it got me so worked up I loved it never looked back since then I always try to meet with a couple with bi male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wish some would accept that not all men are curious... And not all women want to see guys with guys...

I don't think it's so much double standards from me, more sexual preferences.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it double standards all because a woman likes to play with other women I don't think that means she should like to see men playing together too

What I do think is double standards tho is how bi women can play together in open rooms in clubs on none bi nights but men cant

Totally this "

Why are there non bi nights ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do you think single guys who are on here and say they are bi are trying to get more meets or brave as they are cutting the number of available women down by half but being true to them selves?

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Guess this is one of the few examples of women having the advantage.

straight male MMF often means the woman gets 2 men all to herself.

straight male FMF often means 2 women, yea playing with the man.. but also with eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no point pretending to be bi when it comes to the crunch an your with a couple your gunna have his Dick very near your face if you can't deal with it you will be told to go away. Don't know what the fuss is about girls suck cocks so why can't the men I think its lovely having a big hard cock to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer bi mmf to any other kind "

There is a shock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it double standards all because a woman likes to play with other women I don't think that means she should like to see men playing together too

What I do think is double standards tho is how bi women can play together in open rooms in clubs on none bi nights but men cant"

It probably comes down to the fact that although we've seen many people on the forums ( both male and female ) say that they're totally turned off by male bi play, we've never known anyone say that about bi women.

We'll admit that we are one of the couples that are turned off by it but because of that wouldn't go to a club on bi nights.

Club bi nights should be unbiased for ALL patrons .

So we'd say "If you don't like it, don't go".

After all, bi women can play with each other on any night.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it double standards all because a woman likes to play with other women I don't think that means she should like to see men playing together too

What I do think is double standards tho is how bi women can play together in open rooms in clubs on none bi nights but men cant"

I did wonder about this, is it not acceptable at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phil is as straight as they come but has no issues with mmf just as i have no isues with ffm, as long as everyone is comfortable what does it matter, men will come into contact with men at some point in this lifestyle not all men are comfortable with that others are, why there is a stigma attatched i dont know, i am marked as Bi but i am more bi-playful as i have no issues playing with or recieving from another woman but would'nt go out of my way to have a ff meet, men playing together does'nt phase me either some of my best friends have been openly gay or bi and as long as everyone is having fun what does it really matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many woman who say they are bi, when infact they are just bi playfull! Many like to recieve yet have no intention of returning the pleasure! I have seen this many times! "

And we hear from a lot who will give but not receive! There are many shades of bi after all- think we need a Kinsey scale and some new words to describe likes and activities.

Theres some shocking double standards around sadly

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