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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

No you are not alone. There are a lot of married men, and women, who are on Fab, playing alone. Many won't meet married/attached though because it is seen as cheating if you are doing so without permission/knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

No there are many many married playing alone on Fab

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

and many state they are married and have no problem getting meets..

its suprising how many say on profile wont meet married - but they do

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By *obbyCock36Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

separated here, so I consider myself available without strings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to admit its a stumbling block!! But hey ho I'd prefer an honest profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your choice to do what you will do, just don't lie/pretend your single to play, stick to those that are happy to play with attached people!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

It is much easier when people are honest. I ended up seeing someone who told me he was single, everything pointed to him being single, but it turned out he was seeing someone, with a view to moving in with her when he was posted down south. So, you can never really tell on here! I have married friends, I just choose not to meet any more now.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

Lmaooooooooooooooooooo that made me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

Lmaooooooooooooooooooo that made me "

Honesty the best policy!

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


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Honesty the best policy! "

It is!!!

It also helps if they are good looking honest buggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Honesty the best policy!

It is!!!

It also helps if they are good looking honest buggers "

This is just me all round! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun "

It's not, but it's honest!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun

It's not, but it's honest!!!"

I'll give you that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun

It's not, but it's honest!!!

I'll give you that "

Just that?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

nope my hubby not interested in meeting anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun

It's not, but it's honest!!!

I'll give you that

Just that? "

I'll have to check with my hubby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun

It's not, but it's honest!!!

I'll give you that

Just that?

I'll have to check with my hubby "

You win!

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By *lueballs41Man
over a year ago

Somerset

I'm married , not looking to meet just up for some cam fun

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

i have fun ... lots of it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun

It's not, but it's honest!!!

I'll give you that

Just that?

I'll have to check with my hubby

You win! "

Usually do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a married person who is not particularly looking for full on carnal shenanagins, I hold my hand up, a nuisance to all the genuine swingers who are trying to meet a bi fem.

I apologise whole heartedly if so, but I feel I could say I haven't wasted anyone's time.

Except for the guy who rang me about PPI, I kept him talking for 5 mins before I put the phone down.

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By *orsetandheelsWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

What exactly is the dilemma OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

I can't imagine fun alone is that much fun

It's not, but it's honest!!!

I'll give you that

Just that?

I'll have to check with my hubby

You win!

Usually do "

But not always!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What exactly is the dilemma OP?"

Introducing his wife to fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

Lmaooooooooooooooooooo that made me

Honesty the best policy! "

Even better when it's stated on a profile

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By *orsetandheelsWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"What exactly is the dilemma OP?

Introducing his wife to fabs "

Or maybe she found out he's on here...

Or maybe he found out she's on here....

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By *unforfiCouple
over a year ago

CHELTENHAM

Told my hubby I was happy for him to meet alone, but hes not interested. Thought he would have jumped at the chance. Awwww, bless him x

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By *i015Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

I've put that I'm married in my profile but not had much luck, I wonder how many ladies are on here without their other halves knowing that they are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot fewer than us guys !!

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

Welcome to the leper colony.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

If you're looking for fun alone, it's called having a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

Hell no. Trust me you are not alone. There are loads down here in the SW. Just some are honest about being married or in partnership, whilst other claim to be totally songle with no attachemtns but can't accommodate for whatever reason. It's geting easier to spot the one that are married. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"separated here, so I consider myself available without strings."

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

if your other half knows...cool but if not thats not swinging its cheating....and with so many unattached people on here...we wouldnt consider it....anyway from a completly male selfish point of view id be thinking so you can have fun with my Mrs...but i cant with yours....pffft i dont think so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people in complicated situations, so while it is easy to judge it may not always be fair or appropriate.

There are so many lucky people on here in fabulous relationships. Please don't judge others who are not quite so fortunate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married but clearly state that on my profile, and fully understand that some will not want to meet due to that, but it's only fair that they know from the outset, strange that I feel the need to be honest on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if your other half knows...cool but if not thats not swinging its cheating....and with so many unattached people on here...we wouldnt consider it....anyway from a completly male selfish point of view id be thinking so you can have fun with my Mrs...but i cant with yours....pffft i dont think so..."

Straight to the point an totally how we feel about the married men and I will say women to that are on here alone as its just not the men

In our opinion we don't want to be the ones who they get cought out with , and become known as a marriage wrecker,

That's just our opinion

Its like marmite some like it some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and many state they are married and have no problem getting meets..

its suprising how many say on profile wont meet married - but they do"

Mine says won't meet married, and I won't

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

No there are loads of men cheating behind their partners back on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

No there are loads of men cheating behind their partners back on here. "

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"Married but clearly state that on my profile, and fully understand that some will not want to meet due to that, but it's only fair that they know from the outset, strange that I feel the need to be honest on here"

You find it strange you need to be honest???????

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

Hmmmmmm I see you fail to mention being married on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I see it, there is only one rule on fab, and rightly so. That rule is: Only enjoy what you what to you enjoy.

This means that there is everyone from A to Z here.

However, this also means that everyone has their own rules. Some may think a meet with a married person is just a meet. Some may think a meet with a married person is a breach of trust of a third party.

Everyone is different, and in no position to lecture anyone else. As with anything in the Lifestyle/online, I think two personal questions are good tests:

1) Am I being true to myself?

2) Am I really, really being true to myself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married but clearly state that on my profile, and fully understand that some will not want to meet due to that, but it's only fair that they know from the outset, strange that I feel the need to be honest on here

You find it strange you need to be honest???????"

Yes as I'm dishonest at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone? "

My first ever meet was with a woman and after we had sex she told me she was married yet her profile said she was single and then said if i stop seeing her she would tell her hubby

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By *exystargirlWoman
over a year ago

Warrington

the thing is however much you try, your wife is someone who knows you inside out. Believe me we notice little changes and you'll be buying meals for 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

My first ever meet was with a woman and after we had sex she told me she was married yet her profile said she was single and then said if i stop seeing her she would tell her hubby"

That is awful and should not be done ever

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By *exystargirlWoman
over a year ago

Warrington


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

My first ever meet was with a woman and after we had sex she told me she was married yet her profile said she was single and then said if i stop seeing her she would tell her hubby

That is awful and should not be done ever "

Could of been worse, her husband could of been wanking in the wardobe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes!!!

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

That has always made me smile. I have always been up front about my marital status. I have never seen the point in lying about that, cock size or anything else for that matter it would be too much hard work trying to remember what lie one told to what person lol


"and many state they are married and have no problem getting meets..

its suprising how many say on profile wont meet married - but they do"

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

We all make choices in life, mine is to be here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all make choices in life, mine is to be here x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only married fabber looking for fun alone?

My first ever meet was with a woman and after we had sex she told me she was married yet her profile said she was single and then said if i stop seeing her she would tell her hubby

That is awful and should not be done ever "

It nearly put me off fab for good as it was my first meet but i was told by a few nice people that not everyone is like her and how true were those words ive since met two stunning girls and had some amazing fun too and made some good freinds along the way but it tought me a leson early on to never straight away belive what your told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a married woman once who boasted that one guy was talking on the phone to his girlfriend while he had his fingers in her!

She thought it was hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are lots on here married,I won't meet them.if they are not Dominant enough to get the love of there life to her knees I'm dam sure I won't do it lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


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Honesty the best policy!

It is!!!

It also helps if they are good looking honest buggers "

Well I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married my wife loves the thought of me playing alone

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