FabSwingers.com forum: question

By *ovingjimbo OP Man
over a year ago

the UK

just wondering why it is I only get "looked at me" by loads off guys is it I have got the wrong settings on my profile or am I just not anyones' type? I do send out emails to people grom time to time and mosy off them get deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turning into a gay site no decent straight pple left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are more guys on the site than anyone else put together..everyone views profiles and has a nose!

i view womens profiles yet not after women and women view mine...no big deal i dont think.

just times all the guys by 50, as most are in stealth mode so u dont know whos viewed u really haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly they are sussing out their competition, alot of couples and single women use stealth mode so you wont know if they have looked

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because when people look (and read the profile) they are deciding if they are interested.

If not then they don't mail - so lots of looks but no messages means you don't take anyone's fancy.

If it's the same people returning again and again then they're knocking one out looking at your pics.

Paying so much attention to looked at me will drive you mad. Step away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turning into a gay site no decent straight pple left "

What a very strange thing to say.

I wouldn't take any notice of the looked at me bit , just think for every one that looked and you can see there are probably 2 more in stealth mode

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Turning into a gay site no decent straight pple left "

Where in the site rules does it say this site is not for gays too?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I agree with moody. For every 2 that you know have looked, more have looked on stealth mode. I didn't btw.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Turning into a gay site no decent straight pple left

Where in the site rules does it say this site is not for gays too?"

What about the bisexual people? You never know with them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondering why it is I only get "looked at me" by loads off guys is it I have got the wrong settings on my profile or am I just not anyones' type? I do send out emails to people grom time to time and mosy off them get deleted."

if you block single men you won't be able to see they've looked at you if it bothers you that much..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I will never understand is why guys get so worried about blokes looking at them?

There could be a number a reasons why, doesn't mean they want to jump your bones and they won't be able to jump out of their computer/phone screen and pounce on you!

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By *ovingjimbo OP Man
over a year ago

the UK

Im not worryed at guys looking at me im strsigjt and i do have a few gay male friends. Im just wonfering if i had my settings on the wrong settings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not worryed at guys looking at me im strsigjt and i do have a few gay male friends. Im just wonfering if i had my settings on the wrong settings"

When on a public site, all and any members can look at you, no way to stop that.

You can only change your filters to stop blokes messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure a lot of woman browse in stealth mode, they get bombarded as it is so to then receive messages dating, are you looking at me, don't you like me, whats wrong with me is just more admin for them to deal with. Just a pointer mate, you have that you can accommodate but then state your married and your wife doesn't know. I'm prety certain 90% of the single females on here have morals and don't fancy bunking up in the marital bed and risk unnecessary aggro.There are thousands of single guys who are literally like Pinocchio, no strings. Block single guys if they bother you, but as far as I can see your lack of success is down to a poor sales pitch. Search the forums, there's plenty advice on improving profiles.

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