FabSwingers.com forum: Making the next move

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, you've had the chat, messaging, a social meet or maybe a bit more and then...nothing! Who is supposed to make the next move? How can one avoid looking desperate, grredy or needy?

Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want to chat, or whatever I'll get in touch. I don't get these weird rules that people live by.

My advice to you is be open, be clear

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By *estEndGentMan
over a year ago

London

It's a swingers site. Everyone is after the same thing. Just go for it!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

never had that problem talk about what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who is supposed to? There isn't such a thing. Just go for it. What's the worse that can happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are if you want it then go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strike while the iron is hot !

If you dilly and dally - it will invariably fizzle out and you will look back one day and regret it

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

pretty much what everyone else has said, contact the person and say do you want to meet up again? Play it by ear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have sucked his cock by now. Too slow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat, meet and have fun, leave a verification making sure the gent knows I am interested in meeting with him again, then leave it at that.

If he is interested in meeting again, he'll get in touch.

As for gents that I am interested in meeting, I let them know I am interested in meeting them, and leave it at that.

If they are interested, they will get in touch, otherwise they don't.

Sex is a recreational activity that I enjoy from time to time, and is not high on my list of priorities.

I certainly do not sit at home moping and waiting for the phone to ring, to receive texts, e-mails or PMs etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I want to chat, or whatever I'll get in touch. I don't get these weird rules that people live by.

This! If they choose to think I'm odd because I may just text to see how they are etc then it is probably them who are odd...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"So, you've had the chat, messaging, a social meet or maybe a bit more and then...nothing! Who is supposed to make the next move? How can one avoid looking desperate, grredy or needy?

Any thoughts?

They could be sitting thinking the same thing....

Just send a quick text or message and see what happens.

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