FabSwingers.com forum: Help required

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been on here for 7 days it was 5 months before I got a meet you just have to wait and keep trying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i wish getting a shag was as easy as paying someone a half assed compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have only been on here for 7 days it was 5 months before I got a meet you just have to wait and keep trying lol

And theres not much on your profile ether could do with updating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have tried most approaches, you look stunning, beautiful, lovely, gorgeous, you have a great body, would be interested in meeting, hello, how are you..etc..... None seem to work, what am I doing wrong?"

I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lol i wish getting a shag was as easy as paying someone a half assed compliment

What I meant was, most messages are automatically deleted without any reply...smart arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic. "

Am looking for advice, not sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i wish getting a shag was as easy as paying someone a half assed compliment

What I meant was, most messages are automatically deleted without any reply...smart arse

its the same for us all mate

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Could always try the opposite, you look terrible, unattractive and have a terrible body. I'd never wantto meet anyone like you.....see if that get's you a meet, lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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That is advice

Most women can see though compliments so I would try something else, maybe saying what you are looking for or mentioning something on their profile and asking for them to check out your profile etc.

Then I would be patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could always try the opposite, you look terrible, unattractive and have a terrible body. I'd never wantto meet anyone like you.....see if that get's you a meet, lol

Maybe I should give that a try

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Many women look at the profile without opening the message.

If you clearly do not fit what they are looking for then it's delete.

If it's a very generic message, chances are you wont get a high response. I've seen a number of profiles stating, 'how are you', 'you look hot', 'can I do your mrs' messages will be deleted.

Effort in (both personalised message's and on your own profile) equates to effort out (reward) or you could just leave it to chance for a while

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Oh and welcome to the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That is advice

Most women can see though compliments so I would try something else, maybe saying what you are looking for or mentioning something on their profile and asking for them to check out your profile etc.

Then I would be patient.

Thank you

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By *andF_funCouple
over a year ago

Philly PA area

We respond to messages that actually mention something we wrote about in our profile. This way we know the person read it instead of just looked at our pics.

Good luck in your search. Be a gentleman first and give it time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic.

Am looking for advice, not sarcasm"

I wasn't being sarcastic. I really would delete all the above. The advice was that you're sending out dull and generic messages hence why its not working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic.

Am looking for advice, not sarcasm"

she wasn't being sarcastic. Women get hundreds of messages like yours. They don't stand out or tell us anything other than you pay compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and even the perfect message will be deleted by some if you arent their cup of tea or for any other number of reasons

just dont let it get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try waiting until they are actively seeking a meet , then message them and sell yourself to them then . Much more chance if they are the ones looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a nice looking man with a lovely smile. Show your personality in your messages and profile text. As in real life you have to attract women to you. You can't do with body language you only have text so try to bring your best side out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're a nice looking man with a lovely smile. Show your personality in your messages and profile text. As in real life you have to attract women to you. You can't do with body language you only have text so try to bring your best side out "

Thank you

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By *ornyunhotCouple
over a year ago

crazytown

When we get message I look at the profile before looking at the message to see age,height and all that, then look at what is wrote in the profile and then of course the pictures.....if then and only then they have sparked my interest I read the message....

So yes I think your profile needs a little tweeking...also when massaging for the first time try a little humour its much more powerful than compliments.....

Good luck hun

Sammy

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Sorry but a 10 word profile will get you nowhere! You get out of this site what you put in and from what I can see you can't be bothered to put much in!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have just updated my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When we get message I look at the profile before looking at the message to see age,height and all that, then look at what is wrote in the profile and then of course the pictures.....if then and only then they have sparked my interest I read the message....

So yes I think your profile needs a little tweeking...also when massaging for the first time try a little humour its much more powerful than compliments.....

Good luck hun

Sammy"

Have just updated it, thank you Sammy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry but a 10 word profile will get you nowhere! You get out of this site what you put in and from what I can see you can't be bothered to put much in!"

you`ve got 2 pics of ur cleavage. sort it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that. It's clearly all wrong as not one woman has dropped to her knees for you.

So stop doing it and also completely remove any expectations of getting anything from this site. That way you'll never be disappointed.

Because the mate that told you this site was full of women dying for any cock and he got a threeway with some hot lesbians off've here, was a total liar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that. It's clearly all wrong as not one woman has dropped to her knees for you.

So stop doing it and also completely remove any expectations of getting anything from this site. That way you'll never be disappointed.

Because the mate that told you this site was full of women dying for any cock and he got a threeway with some hot lesbians off've here, was a total liar.

lol! class

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic.

Am looking for advice, not sarcasm"

The above is advice, people will see the first words of the message and think 'oh no, more dull generic mail.' As someone else said the profile is pretty empty, study other peoples profiles, you can learn a lot from them. An interesting profile doesn't half help, I couldn't give an estimate of the amount of women, couples and Tgirls I've met from here over the years I've met since I started on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above, just be patient, thousands of people on the site so you will get responses

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh..and what a nice looking man you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry but a 10 word profile will get you nowhere! You get out of this site what you put in and from what I can see you can't be bothered to put much in!"

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

So yes I think your profile needs a little tweeking...also when massaging for the first time try a little humour its much more powerful than compliments.....

Good luck hun

Sammy

Have just updated it, thank you Sammy"

I've just had another look at it and it still needs more work. I suggest you spend the evening looking at other single men's profiles and working on yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try further North

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Sorry but a 10 word profile will get you nowhere! You get out of this site what you put in and from what I can see you can't be bothered to put much in!

you`ve got 2 pics of ur cleavage. sort it out :-

Yup, so I have, but I certainly ain't complaining about lack of interest!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

not showing any patience if this post is anything to go by!!! it can take months for single guys to get a meet lets face it your one of about 30000!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box.

Turn my mind on before my body....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box.

Turn my mind on before my body...."

I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box.

Turn my mind on before my body....

I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on"

Nice to see you're completely ignoring any good advice you've been given and instead getting all pissy with people.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box.

Turn my mind on before my body....

I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on

Nice to see you're completely ignoring any good advice you've been given and instead getting all pissy with people.

Good luck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You use all the cliches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profile take something from that and add it to your message ...

No copy and pastes - each woman is individual and so should the mails you send them

Be yourself - don't say what you think they want to hear .... be YOU

Good luck handsome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Read their profile take something from that and add it to your message ...

No copy and pastes - each woman is individual and so should the mails you send them

Be yourself - don't say what you think they want to hear .... be YOU

Good luck handsome "

Thank you cutie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would delete all of the above without looking at your profile... dull and generic.

Am looking for advice, not sarcasm

she wasn't being sarcastic. Women get hundreds of messages like yours. They don't stand out or tell us anything other than you pay compliments "
dont think was sarcasm I think was constructive criticism to sort out ya profile and as said u need to rethink ya chat up line us women get lots of ( nice pics and you look stunning if meant would be fine but most dont mean it )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'll revise my last statement.

Nice to see you responding positively to comments from women who compliment you and getting pissy with those that don't.

Again, good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn my mind on before my body....

I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on"

Thank god for that, I haven't time for men who get arsey when they don't get what they want

I suggest you grow up before you try and get a meet because your attitude indicates you might be the kind of man who becomes abusive if rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I'll revise my last statement.

Nice to see you responding positively to comments from women who compliment you and getting pissy with those that don't.

Again, good luck. "

It is all so predictable

I should have licked his are instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is advice

Most women can see though compliments so I would try something else, maybe saying what you are looking for or mentioning something on their profile and asking for them to check out your profile etc.

Then I would be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We respond to messages that actually mention something we wrote about in our profile. This way we know the person read it instead of just looked at our pics.

Good luck in your search. Be a gentleman first and give it time."

Same here

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By *r gentMan
over a year ago

sudbury

Morning every one been on site few mths now not meny people seem to want day time adult fun week days yet they are on all day wud love to meet for all day fun

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Heard it all before, I get dozens of messages a day so try to say something to get me thinking and think outside the box.

Turn my mind on before my body....

I won't be trying to turn your mind or body on"

Having an arrogant attitude with someone who has had actual meets will really do you a lot of good on here. You wonder why women and couples just delete your messages, simple you have a problem with people, several women have said you're good looking, quite true. However have you noticed none of them actually meet and shag you?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

You have had some great advice and yet are then rude to people who's post you read all wrong.

Maybe time to shut this one now

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