FabSwingers.com forum: Soft Swap

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok folks, maybe I should know this but I don't.

What exactly is Soft swap. Is is everything except full intercourse? Or vanilla sex?

Angus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything but penetration....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some it's everything but sex, to some it's f on f only, to some it's playing with own partners in front of each other, some have even said anal only. We've even met a couple who thought it meant that they could do whatever they wanted with me but 2wheels could only play with me!

There's a range of interpretations so if you're asking as you're interested in playing with someone who says soft only, clarify exactly what they mean first.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anything but penetration....

I did think that as I said above. But would that mean rimming, fisting etc would be allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think that depends on a person personal interpretation of it , i was taking to a lady last night who only does soft swing , she likes to suck a guy off and have him cum on her tits , ide be allowed to play with her but thats all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything but penetration....

I did think that as I said above. But would that mean rimming, fisting etc would be allowed? "

That would have to be discussed with any potential meets, as it's already been said... Different people have different opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To some it's everything but sex, to some it's f on f only, to some it's playing with own partners in front of each other, some have even said anal only. We've even met a couple who thought it meant that they could do whatever they wanted with me but 2wheels could only play with me!

There's a range of interpretations so if you're asking as you're interested in playing with someone who says soft only, clarify exactly what they mean first.

crystal"

Thanks for reply. I had a feeling it may not be as straight forward as it seemed. I thought full intercourse would be a no no in Soft Swap, which seems to be correct.

I would not consider it myself because I like dirty sex. However so many couples say they like Soft Swap I just wanted to know what it was all about.

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By *omerset-filthCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

We like dirty sex too..we have been surprised how many say soft and then it turns into hard core lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anything but penetration....

I did think that as I said above. But would that mean rimming, fisting etc would be allowed?

That would have to be discussed with any potential meets, as it's already been said... Different people have different opinions

I am getting to understand it more now. Basically it is a session where certain boundaries that need to be discussed beforehand.

As I said this is not for us as we have hardly any boundaries (pain, pee and poo are no goes though). But was interested as to what it was. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"think that depends on a person personal interpretation of it , i was taking to a lady last night who only does soft swing , she likes to suck a guy off and have him cum on her tits , ide be allowed to play with her but thats all. "

I am sure some men would be happy with this, each to their own.

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By *achnrandyCouple
over a year ago

Ascot

We prefer soft play ie not penetration but have ventured beyond with the right couple, everything can change when you are there playing and it feels right....

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By *achnrandyCouple
over a year ago

Ascot

We prefer soft play ie not penetration but have ventured beyond with the right couple, everything can change when you are there playing and it feels right....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything but penetration....

I did think that as I said above. But would that mean rimming, fisting etc would be allowed? "

Soft swap people may enjoy rimming & fisting.

Full swap people may not like fisting & rimming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anything but penetration....

I did think that as I said above. But would that mean rimming, fisting etc would be allowed?

Soft swap people may enjoy rimming & fisting.

Full swap people may not like fisting & rimming.

Now I am really confused. So complex. Not to worry, thanks for reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok folks, maybe I should know this but I don't.

What exactly is Soft swap. Is is everything except full intercourse? Or vanilla sex?

Angus."

there is no 'eact' interpriation of soft, because it encompasses everything that isnt intercourse.

HOWEVER, whereas with full swing, you know nothing is off limits, per se, with soft, it really is up to those involved what is included.

it can range from pure voyeurism to full on play, with the ultimate with your own partner only.

you will have to ask those you are interested in playing with what their limits are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok folks, maybe I should know this but I don't.

What exactly is Soft swap. Is is everything except full intercourse? Or vanilla sex?

Angus.

there is no 'eact' interpriation of soft, because it encompasses everything that isnt intercourse.

HOWEVER, whereas with full swing, you know nothing is off limits, per se, with soft, it really is up to those involved what is included.

it can range from pure voyeurism to full on play, with the ultimate with your own partner only.

you will have to ask those you are interested in playing with what their limits are."

The only bit I disagree with this is when you say with full swing there is nothing off limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok folks, maybe I should know this but I don't.

What exactly is Soft swap. Is is everything except full intercourse? Or vanilla sex?

Angus.

there is no 'eact' interpriation of soft, because it encompasses everything that isnt intercourse.

HOWEVER, whereas with full swing, you know nothing is off limits, per se, with soft, it really is up to those involved what is included.

it can range from pure voyeurism to full on play, with the ultimate with your own partner only.

you will have to ask those you are interested in playing with what their limits are.

The only bit I disagree with this is when you say with full swing there is nothing off limits. "

i meant the full sex thing.

obviously people still have their limits.

i reread it after i posted it rather than before lol

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