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so hows that work then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it a bit odd that people (mainly bloke's) put on there profile cannot accommodate cannot travel. Do they have something to hide. Just wondering how they actually get meets. Or even if they do.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Even dynamo couldn't get a shag with that profile.

Maybe they're happy with a non travelling wank.???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got to be fake profile with a messer person at the other end - I'm sure they are roundly ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, different people have different circumstances.

Of course some are chancers and fakes, but some people may for example live with house mates (not family or alone) or just simply don't own a car.

Not everyone is 2+2.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meh, different people have different circumstances.

Of course some are chancers and fakes, but some people may for example live with house mates (not family or alone) or just simply don't own a car.

Not everyone is 2+2."
I know this but how do they get to the meet. On the bus on a bike. Or expect to be picked up and chauffeur driven about..seems to me they want it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same can be said for some women aswell as some men.

I can't accom but do travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same can be said for some women aswell as some men.

I can't accom but do travel. "

Yes but what she is saying is some profiles say...can't accommodate and can't travel...so if they can't get to a meet or can't have anyone at theirs then how do tthey expect to get a meet... surely they can get a taxi !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same can be said for some women aswell as some men.

I can't accom but do travel.

Yes but what she is saying is some profiles say...can't accommodate and can't travel...so if they can't get to a meet or can't have anyone at theirs then how do tthey expect to get a meet... surely they can get a taxi !"

Book a local hotel??

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Meh, different people have different circumstances.

Of course some are chancers and fakes, but some people may for example live with house mates (not family or alone) or just simply don't own a car.

Not everyone is 2+2."

2+2=5

For very large values of 2

I have that on a t-shirt.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Maybe it means they can only travel locally i.e. within walking/cycling/reasonable taxi distance or close to a bus route.

They might merely intend to convey that they couldn't meet anyone anywhere that couldn't be easily reached.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

I can't accommodate or travel and I do just fine for meets....but then again I am imagining a guy in the same situation would find it more difficult

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I have cannot accom cannot travel.

I cannot accom because my son is here and I do not drive. But I can meet locally or anywhere accessible by public transport and when I am meeting this is explained in my profile

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

we need a come and get me button

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

We need Funky to hurry up and perfect and market commercial teleportation devices!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the 'mainly blokes' jab, as if we need any more grief. I've seen it on countless profiles. Men's women's and couples, and would say its fairly even, maybe more common on single fems profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the 'mainly blokes' jab, as if we need any more grief.

"

Good morning and that certainly put a smile on my face, yep I have to agree, alot of the emphasis is put on guys, especially having to send face pics with a message or you get no reply and instantly deleted

I have had a good few messages from the fairer (or not) sex and they never attach a face pic, not only that but getting back to the point in hand, also state that they cannot travel nor accommodate, this just sets off alarms in my mind.

I am single and have nothing to hide so I'm happy to put CAN accommodate and CAN travel.

Back to my lush cup of Earl Grey on this dismal grey morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 'don't accom, don't travel'

I don't accommodate as I have kids at home, and being a single girl I don't want people knowing where I live.

I don't travel because I don't drive. It's no good people asking me to meet them at theirs when I can't get there. I do club meets, which means they have to pick me up.

I don't meet 'new' people very often now anyway, out of choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't accomodate and won't say why not. I don't travel far. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first started swinging we didn't accom as we wanted to keep our personal life very seperate we also said we didn't travel (& still won't) because we wanted it to be obvious that we wouldn't travel any real distance (seperate city etc) for a meet, but we would travel locally, into town say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the travel thing gets interpreted differently by everybody really. Personally getting about in the local area by bus ect... doesn't class as travelling i will only put can travel when we get a car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it no one could just meet at clubs then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take it no one could just meet at clubs then? "

There should be a tick box for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just wondered

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I usually think it's online/cyber/phone sex, dogging/car and club meets they like.

Just ask the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be personal preference although saying that I have had a couple of meets in the homes of women who said that they cant accommodate on their profile.

I have accommodate on my mine but it would have to be carefully planned as i have kids that live with me full time, it possible but not at the drop of a hat

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"I can't accommodate or travel and I do just fine for meets....but then again I am imagining a guy in the same situation would find it more difficult "

Me too.

I see local playmates regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have discussed it with a lady on here in the past, as she had it on her profile, and she said she meets at local hotels only, so its not really that much of a stretch of the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im.glad to see a few single ladies explain the cant accommodate cant travel thing before It turned into a males cant do it because they married, timewasters etc etc the normal single male bashing stuff that goes on haha

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"im.glad to see a few single ladies explain the cant accommodate cant travel thing before It turned into a males cant do it because they married, timewasters etc etc the normal single male bashing stuff that goes on haha "

I don't have time or inclination to travel and don't accomodate for a few reasons, none of which are because I am playing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im.glad to see a few single ladies explain the cant accommodate cant travel thing before It turned into a males cant do it because they married, timewasters etc etc the normal single male bashing stuff that goes on haha

I don't have time or inclination to travel and don't accomodate for a few reasons, none of which are because I am playing away.

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no I said the single male bashing not you ladies I said im.glad a few said how it works

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Can't accommodate + can't travel could =

1: Can't accommodate but doesn't drive, so can't really "travel" far (local meets only)

2: Can't accommodate and won't travel to someone's home (club meets only)

3: Can't accommodate at their own home, but happy to get and meet in hotels on local turf (local hotel meets only)

4: Made a mistake checking boxes on profile and hasn't noticed.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"im.glad to see a few single ladies explain the cant accommodate cant travel thing before It turned into a males cant do it because they married, timewasters etc etc the normal single male bashing stuff that goes on haha

I don't have time or inclination to travel and don't accomodate for a few reasons, none of which are because I am playing away.

no I said the single male bashing not you ladies I said im.glad a few said how it works "

I know, I was just adding to my explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Public transport, lifts, hotel, club, and contribute towards petrol and hotel etc.?

Personally someone who cannot travel or accommodate does not interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok let's be honest , anyone who can't travel and can't accomodate isn't gonna get far !

If as black shadow says , they can do hotel or clubs then that's cool , but surely that's what profile text is for ?

So there we are ... simple

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