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Couples only part swapping

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some couples only 'part swap'- female A will play with female B and have sex with guy B and also her partner (guy A), but female A's guy isn't allowed to fuck the other female B.

If the guys are both bi they will also play with each other.

What is the other female B supposed to do while the other 3 are all fucking each other?

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Has this somewhat complicated scenario actually happened to you then? Watch and play? Make a cup of tea? Nip to the shops?

Master x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Dunno and don't want to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some couples only 'part swap'- female A will play with female B and have sex with guy B and also her partner (guy A), but female A's guy isn't allowed to fuck the other female B.

If the guys are both bi they will also play with each other.

What is the other female B supposed to do while the other 3 are all fucking each other?

"

Having been in some pretty hot rooms recently - fan them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has this somewhat complicated scenario actually happened to you then? Watch and play? Make a cup of tea? Nip to the shops?

Master x"

Yes it's happened to me and it was pretty crap to say the least, I felt like a spare part. They didn't notice because they were all busy.

I am possibly in this position again (with someone else) but I can't think how it would ever work without me taking a book to read.

Looking for ideas.... before I turn the 'offer' down.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

Perhaps guy A doesn't want to fuck her or even him.

Perhaps he enjoys the eroticism of the play and her getting pleasure but isn't attracted to the other couple. Surely to be positive but not involved is better than taking it for the team and faking it?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

when its only the male will play with one or both of the other Cpl we tend to think its a case of the other fem being either not comfortable or coerced into 'playing'..

then again we avoid meeting cpls where only one plays..

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

but surely you would sort out what sort of meet you were looking for , before you actually met up ?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"but surely you would sort out what sort of meet you were looking for , before you actually met up ?"

this......... I thought that would have been one of the things discussed pre-meet/play for most people...

maybe thats the one thing you take out of this experience in any potential future meets......

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

watch i guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but surely you would sort out what sort of meet you were looking for , before you actually met up ?

this......... I thought that would have been one of the things discussed pre-meet/play for most people...

maybe thats the one thing you take out of this experience in any potential future meets......"

Good point. I'm pretty new to this and unfortunately mostly learning by my mistakes.

I'm going to give this particular scenario a miss as it's probably not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dunno and don't want to find out "

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"but surely you would sort out what sort of meet you were looking for , before you actually met up ?

this......... I thought that would have been one of the things discussed pre-meet/play for most people...

maybe thats the one thing you take out of this experience in any potential future meets.....

Good point. I'm pretty new to this and unfortunately mostly learning by my mistakes.

I'm going to give this particular scenario a miss as it's probably not for me. "

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Given you would be female B in this scenario, may I ask who is imposing the no fuck rule? Female A or one of the males?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if that is the case one person (male or female) would be left out at any one time.

I would be too busy punching the selfish twats in the face to get bored anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Given you would be female B in this scenario, may I ask who is imposing the no fuck rule? Female A or one of the males?"

I would be female B. Female A is the one making the no fuck rule for her guy.

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Has this somewhat complicated scenario actually happened to you then? Watch and play? Make a cup of tea? Nip to the shops?

Master x

Yes it's happened to me and it was pretty crap to say the least, I felt like a spare part. They didn't notice because they were all busy.

I am possibly in this position again (with someone else) but I can't think how it would ever work without me taking a book to read.

Looking for ideas.... before I turn the 'offer' down. "

Turn it down, meet hubby and I, he will look after you and I will fan you both and make a nice cup of tea for when you're done

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By *HELONDONCOUPLECouple
over a year ago

london

give us the address and we will cum and keep you company lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to read the OP 3 times before I got it. Bi man actually gay but fucks his friend to prove he isn't or jealous wife who won't let him have a woman. Strange to me

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Why would you want to be involve in this sort of set up ???

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By *ll of a QuiverCouple
over a year ago

Douglas


"Given you would be female B in this scenario, may I ask who is imposing the no fuck rule? Female A or one of the males?

I would be female B. Female A is the one making the no fuck rule for her guy."

Sounds like female A is being waaaay too selfish. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would be spending far too much time trying to figure out who could do what with whom

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Jealousy type thing? Nothing wrong with soft swap for all if that is what is agreed but a one-sided soft-swap seems selfish to me tbh, you deserve fucking you luscious lady! x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Happily buy you a drink during your 'break' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am severely confuddled. If you are B, then how can Mr B indulge and not notice that you are forced to play wallflower? He should have pulled the plug straightaway. pun intended).

And yes - communication beforehand.

Enjoy next time

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By *1KandiCouple
over a year ago

Jacksonville

Good thing you know ahead of time.

Some rules are a good thing but things get heated sometimes when playing and we have a tendency to wander and have fun for all.

We do not meet .... if one of the couples are off limits. Takes the fun out of a play date with a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my head hurts with all the A, B etc. It's either algebra or the instructions to assemble an ikea cabinet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Score them for technical merit and artistic interpretation

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

id find a person c to explain what person a and person b were doing because i couldnt follow that one bit !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jealousy type thing? Nothing wrong with soft swap for all if that is what is agreed but a one-sided soft-swap seems selfish to me tbh, you deserve fucking you luscious lady! x"

I don't know if it's a jealousy thing. Lots of couples only play with 'just men' or 'just women'. I guess not many couples only play with one half of couples while the other sits on the end of the bed twiddling their thumbs.

And thank you, your last comment means a lot (as you've seen me!) xx

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Jealousy type thing? Nothing wrong with soft swap for all if that is what is agreed but a one-sided soft-swap seems selfish to me tbh, you deserve fucking you luscious lady! x

I don't know if it's a jealousy thing. Lots of couples only play with 'just men' or 'just women'. I guess not many couples only play with one half of couples while the other sits on the end of the bed twiddling their thumbs.

And thank you, your last comment means a lot (as you've seen me!) xx"

As a dom however, the idea of telling my sub to sit and watch me pleasured as she is not even allowed to touch herself does appeal, the ulimate punishment perhaps! x

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