FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction

By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

do you go by looks? or size of their cocks? I will admit I have changed my mind when I have seen their pic if hes handsome

have to be attracted don't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do you go by looks? or size of their cocks? I will admit I have changed my mind when I have seen their pic if hes handsome

have to be attracted don't we?"

I don't look @ c*cks.

I c enuf " c*cks " everyday? LMAO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a combination of looks and cock size?

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By *heONE4chAnceMan
over a year ago

Glasgpow

i go by the feelin you get when the offer is revealed if its a goer it cannot be stoopped regardless of anythin

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

A whole variety of things determine attraction, it is never a static concept to me. Some of those factors wax and wane depending on my mood at the time.

All down to the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like a man who is reasonably good looking to me, i dont expect them to look like the men on csi though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i go by the feelin you get when the offer is revealed if its a goer it cannot be stoopped regardless of anythin

what's a goer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number if factors. But for me got to be someone that makes me smile

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

It has to be a whole attraction for me, if he has a huge donger and buck teeth and one eye then no sorry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A whole variety of things determine attraction, it is never a static concept to me. Some of those factors wax and wane depending on my mood at the time.

All down to the individual. "

nice to know it's not just women that have changes of mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A number if factors. But for me got to be someone that makes me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First and foremost I go by humour, intelligence and then looks

They could have a body and face from Baywatch but if there's no sexual spark its a a waste of time zx

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"A whole variety of things determine attraction, it is never a static concept to me. Some of those factors wax and wane depending on my mood at the time.

All down to the individual.

nice to know it's not just women that have changes of mood

Haha, we do all the time. We just tend to be worse at communicating those changes in mood than the fairer sex (most of the time)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be turned off by a pic but when it comes to attraction I have an eclectic taste. I think it's the man's demeanour that makes me want him. Body language, mannerisms and the aura he gives off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A whole variety of things determine attraction, it is never a static concept to me. Some of those factors wax and wane depending on my mood at the time.

All down to the individual.

nice to know it's not just women that have changes of mood

Haha, we do all the time. We just tend to be worse at communicating those changes in mood than the fairer sex (most of the time)"

Do you think you have less degrees of moods? I know some men that are sexually bi polar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a cheeky smile and a sense of humour with a twinkle in the eye every time

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"A whole variety of things determine attraction, it is never a static concept to me. Some of those factors wax and wane depending on my mood at the time.

All down to the individual.

nice to know it's not just women that have changes of mood

Haha, we do all the time. We just tend to be worse at communicating those changes in mood than the fairer sex (most of the time)

Do you think you have less degrees of moods? I know some men that are sexually bi polar lol "

Can't speak for all guys, but in my case, i definitely have days where i just want hot, sweaty, rampant sex (this is usually when attraction for me is mostly determined by physical attributes)

Then there are other days where i enjoy the build up and mental jousting, leading to a more sensual experience (in this case, attraction is more about the complete picture; intelligence, wit, humour, looks)

Then some days it can be somewhere inbetween those. My sex drive might always be through the roof, but what actually gets me there varies a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's interesting because as a couple we have to find our playmates equally attractive . Obviously the first point of attractiveness comes in the form of the pics . There have been times we have agreed from these there is no attraction and said no .

However in a club we have found that by chatting and getting to know people the physical looks are not the only factor . There hss to be something physically right for us too , but the aura and vibe become just as important .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no accounting for taste. What one person finds attractive,another finds average. As for cock size what one man thinks is huge,another female thinks is average

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I do like a toned fit handsome young'un with a huge cock now and again lol

ooohh stop me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't fuck an ugly guy with a big cock or an obnoxious good looking guy its a balance of things I do like and a lacking in things I don't.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"do you go by looks? or size of their cocks? I will admit I have changed my mind when I have seen their pic if hes handsome

have to be attracted don't we?"

I usually go for the obvious, but if someone engages me and we start to connect, I can start to find them extremely attractive when I didn't at first sight. It's a fascinating phenomenon - I can look at the face and think 'This is not what I would define as handsome' and yet I get a flush of desire every time I look at it exactly as though it were. Ah, the wonders of the human mind, beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder.......

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"A whole variety of things determine attraction, it is never a static concept to me. Some of those factors wax and wane depending on my mood at the time.

All down to the individual. "

Nail on the head there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A whole variety of things determine attraction, it is never a static concept to me. Some of those factors wax and wane depending on my mood at the time.

All down to the individual.

nice to know it's not just women that have changes of mood

Haha, we do all the time. We just tend to be worse at communicating those changes in mood than the fairer sex (most of the time)

Do you think you have less degrees of moods? I know some men that are sexually bi polar lol

Can't speak for all guys, but in my case, i definitely have days where i just want hot, sweaty, rampant sex (this is usually when attraction for me is mostly determined by physical attributes)

Then some days it can be somewhere inbetween those. My sex drive might always be through the roof, but what actually gets me there varies a lot."

Might have to have a word with my mum!

Are you sure we weren't separated at birth!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Might have to have a word with my mum!

Are you sure we weren't separated at birth!

Brother from another mother,

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

It is a mixture of things that make me attracted to someone.

Looks, humour, personality, attitude....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is a mixture of things that make me attracted to someone.

Looks, humour, personality, attitude, nice boobs, massive knob....

Shocking - truly shocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood as well.. I don't have a set "type" and the gorgeous man that sounds like an idjut unable to hold a conversation can turn me off pretty quick.. The chemistry has to be there.. For me the chemistry includes more than the sense of sight covers... The plainest, most average man with the right touch and that slightest hint of cologne that makes you want to sniff him up... Ok getting carried away.. You get the idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I agree, wit, intellect, charisma and charm all work towards attraction but then...

I see a gorgeous guy with a perfect six pack who just happens to be hung like a horse and I really don't give a shit if he can string two sentences together and knows the difference between their there and they're. I just have to have him...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"It is a mixture of things that make me attracted to someone.

Looks, humour, personality, attitude, nice boobs, massive knob....

Shocking - truly shocking!

Sod....Didn't see what you had added for a minute.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Yes, I agree, wit, intellect, charisma and charm all work towards attraction but then...

Hahaha!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"A whole variety of things determine attraction, it is never a static concept to me. Some of those factors wax and wane depending on my mood at the time.

All down to the individual. "

^^^^^This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First and foremost I go by humour, intelligence and then looks

They could have a body and face from Baywatch but if there's no sexual spark its a a waste of time zx "

This....

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By *exystargirlWoman
over a year ago

Warrington

when I've met single guys in the past, I've treated it as a semi date. As if i make the effort to look good, then he should an effort with how he looks and treats me. In my view, both of you should feel like it not about sex, don't bring fab meets, try and have a good night, laugh and see where it leads

Some guys are fab, as cream always rises to the top. But alot clearly think a drink and half hearted chat, followed by clock watching, is enough to move thing further, it stands out a mile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

easy on the eye for me Im afraid then can they communicate then an idea of how they like to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only time I have ever turned a meet down for cock size is if its to big, I don't like huge cocks and no matter how good looking they are I refuse to put myself thro pain for their pleasure, I would never turn a meet down if a guy had a small cock if I liked everything else about him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sixpacks and horse-like dimensions do sweet f-all to me. Again, it's the quirky mind, the sly sense of humour, and if possible all wrapped in an male who makes me feel attractive, wanted, brings out the siren in me. Sometimes they'll be what's generally perceived as attractive, but sometimes there's something that only I will see. Who cares.

Am I always in the mood? Heck no. Sometimes a PM or even thinking of a friend will make me feel horny, and at other times it'll just make me smile and feel lucky to have such friends.

But once I can hear the crunching of the gravel on the garden path...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do you go by looks? or size of their cocks? I will admit I have changed my mind when I have seen their pic if hes handsome

have to be attracted don't we?"

Don't do ugly !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not be interested in meeting a gent who is built like a Greek God who has a personality and conversational skill of a slug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction with me changes day by day with my mood.

But as a whole...an intelligent, strong, confident, charming man with an athletic toned body. If he has a lovely bum then bonus points and if he is good looking with expressive eyes then double whammy!! But if he is all of the above and doesn't know how to smile and have a good laugh then he may as well pack up and go home.

As for the ladies, I love a curvy lady with a natural look. That's make up by the way. Not into Ozzy lookalikes. Who again is confident and let's her personality shine. If she has a lovely smile with kissable lips then perfect.

Cocky and over confident, edging on arrogant people are soooo not sexy.

Mrs here by the way. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A whole variety of things determine attraction, it is never a static concept to me. Some of those factors wax and wane depending on my mood at the time.

All down to the individual.

nice to know it's not just women that have changes of mood

Haha, we do all the time. We just tend to be worse at communicating those changes in mood than the fairer sex (most of the time)

Do you think you have less degrees of moods? I know some men that are sexually bi polar lol

Can't speak for all guys, but in my case, i definitely have days where i just want hot, sweaty, rampant sex (this is usually when attraction for me is mostly determined by physical attributes)

Then some days it can be somewhere inbetween those. My sex drive might always be through the roof, but what actually gets me there varies a lot."

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