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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

went to a pub with my Kids and my Friend and her Kids for Dinner. was at the bar with them and the guy Next to us i Recognised From here and had Turned him down. anyway. he got served and asked for a pint of fab swingers. Mortified!! and a bit Funny. but even still was absolutely awful!!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Just goes to show some members on here struggle with the concept of 'discreet'!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

keep seeing him everywhere now as well lol. Embarrassment!

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

I work in retail amd had a bloke asking me about plants..i work in the garden section... then outta the blue said.... i had a threesum with you once.. i went so red faced.. backed away quickly turns out a had a threesum at a couples house years ago and didnt reconize the guy from that one experiance!! Some people need to learn dicression ( yes i know i spelt that wrong)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people behave like total cockheads and then wonder why no one wants to fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a right creep. The dj in our local found our profile and spread it round the pub. Was embarrasing for a bit. Now its a joke.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I work in retail amd had a bloke asking me about plants..i work in the garden section... then outta the blue said.... i had a threesum with you once.. i went so red faced.. backed away quickly turns out a had a threesum at a couples house years ago and didnt reconize the guy from that one experiance!! Some people need to learn dicression ( yes i know i spelt that wrong)!"

Christ thats worse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have actually recognised someone in public from their profile on here but I don't think I'd ever say anything or approach them unless I knew them on a friendly basis.

That is pretty poor form if you were with people who didn't know/family/children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"went to a pub with my Kids and my Friend and her Kids for Dinner. was at the bar with them and the guy Next to us i Recognised From here and had Turned him down. anyway. he got served and asked for a pint of fab swingers. Mortified!! and a bit Funny. but even still was absolutely awful!!!!"

Apart from your embarassment the pint of fab swingers made me smile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have actually recognised someone in public from their profile on here but I don't think I'd ever say anything or approach them unless I knew them on a friendly basis.

That is pretty poor form if you were with people who didn't know/family/children. "

seen Someone else From here in same place actually they where with their mum or Nan i think. just smiled at each Other and left it at that

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

It was like three years ago.

Thing is there is a couple who come in the store regulerly ive reconized from here and im pretty sure the know me as theve blocked me but i would NEVER go up to the and say anything its rude for one and there has to be a split from reality and fantasy

I help the as best i can and be polite i would never do anything to i guess out them or ruin there experiance

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I've bumped into playmates in Sainsbury's as I meet locals. We've been alone and hardly acknowledged each other: my kind of people.

I don't know why I am, but honestly I'm truly surprised by some peoples total lack of discretion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I saw someone from here I would smile discretely and show them my boobs....discretely of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

afraid to say doesnt surprise me one little bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet people still wonder why some people don't want to have their face pics on show.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I saw someone from here I would smile discretely and show them my boobs....discretely of course "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always a bit strange seeing guys who have messaged me on our high street, then seeing their partner and kids with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"went to a pub with my Kids and my Friend and her Kids for Dinner. was at the bar with them and the guy Next to us i Recognised From here and had Turned him down. anyway. he got served and asked for a pint of fab swingers. Mortified!! and a bit Funny. but even still was absolutely awful!!!!"

Complete twat who has never heard of discretion or manners .

I once bumped into a lover down Lakeside shopping with her hubby and kids I made eye contact and walked on by.

Someones personal business is no bodies business but there's so one keeps ones mouth shut in my opinion at all times in public to avoid

embarrassment and any other possible nasty problems .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some right idiots on here who don't give a crap about how they treat people.

Think a guy recognised me in town the other day, we kept glancing at each other then he winked at me, was quite funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just us that can't see the problem with acknowledging someone you've met on the site if you're both alone?

To totally ignore someone you've enjoyed sex with or exchanged favourable messages seems a bit cold, even weird to us.

It's like these people who have sex with a work colleague and then blank them every day thereafter, odd!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just us that can't see the problem with acknowledging someone you've met on the site if you're both alone?

To totally ignore someone you've enjoyed sex with or exchanged favourable messages seems a bit cold, even weird to us.

It's like these people who have sex with a work colleague and then blank them every day thereafter, odd!

XXXX"

yea that is different

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"If I saw someone from here I would smile discretely and show them my boobs....discretely of course "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey god knows what I would have done

Luckily I've not seen anyone from here .. Yet

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted"

What a tosser!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

What a tosser!"

I know what gave him the right to tell him I tried to deny it but his mate had showed him my pics and profile so no getting away from it and that was because I had turned him down on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

What a tosser!

I know what gave him the right to tell him I tried to deny it but his mate had showed him my pics and profile so no getting away from it and that was because I had turned him down on fab"

ah bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im glad nothing like that has ever happened to me. I would never approach someone i recognised if they were with anyone, alone i would say hi if they sent out the right signals.

Im fortunate in my job that i work in a non public environment so no danger of a previous meet tapping me on the shoulder diring work

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

He was probably stood at the bar saying to himself "don't mention Fab, don't mention Fab" over and over again'

Barman "what would you like?"

"I'll have a pint of FABSWINGERS please"

Doh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was probably stood at the bar saying to himself "don't mention Fab, don't mention Fab" over and over again'

Barman "what would you like?"

"I'll have a pint of FABSWINGERS please"

Doh!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted"

Sorry to here this story but sadly its very true to most guys if you use one of these sites your damaged goods ( please don't shoot me for saying that its not my opinion at all but I've been in the locker room with guys enough to know that a lot will think like that )

That's why discretion is so very very important in this game weather your married single playing away it doesn't matter the world is full of judgmental people .

Gossip in the work place ...school gates ..social events ..work place .not only will it effect how people see and act towards you it will also effect how they act toward your love ones as well .

Which in my opinion is far worse as they are on the receiving end of something not of there choosing or there doing .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He was probably stood at the bar saying to himself "don't mention Fab, don't mention Fab" over and over again'

Barman "what would you like?"

"I'll have a pint of FABSWINGERS please"

Doh!"

ha ha ha ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does half decent behaviour make a difference?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"He was probably stood at the bar saying to himself "don't mention Fab, don't mention Fab" over and over again'

Barman "what would you like?"

"I'll have a pint of FABSWINGERS please"

Doh!

And the bar keeper said 'I'll pull it for you and get a good head on it"

ha ha ha ha ha ha"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He was probably stood at the bar saying to himself "don't mention Fab, don't mention Fab" over and over again'

Barman "what would you like?"

"I'll have a pint of FABSWINGERS please"

Doh!

And the bar keeper said 'I'll pull it for you and get a good head on it"

ha ha ha ha ha ha "

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

What a tosser!

I know what gave him the right to tell him I tried to deny it but his mate had showed him my pics and profile so no getting away from it and that was because I had turned him down on fab"

If that's his reaction it's probably for the best that you didn't get involved with him. As for his mate who told him and showed the photos you obviously made the right decision to turn him down

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

That's why we don't tend to play in Peterborough.

Saying that we have spotted the odd person in Queensgate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've bin spotted a cple of times,they were discreet just messaged me here saying where,not bin confronted while out thankfully lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you are lucky. its blooming awful

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"went to a pub with my Kids and my Friend and her Kids for Dinner. was at the bar with them and the guy Next to us i Recognised From here and had Turned him down. anyway. he got served and asked for a pint of fab swingers. Mortified!! and a bit Funny. but even still was absolutely awful!!!!"

probably best thing you did turning him down he obviously is a class one prick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"went to a pub with my Kids and my Friend and her Kids for Dinner. was at the bar with them and the guy Next to us i Recognised From here and had Turned him down. anyway. he got served and asked for a pint of fab swingers. Mortified!! and a bit Funny. but even still was absolutely awful!!!!"

Did you have your tits or feet out at the bar?

Otherwise how did he know it was you? If you'd turned him down I assume you hadn't sent him face pics?

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"went to a pub with my Kids and my Friend and her Kids for Dinner. was at the bar with them and the guy Next to us i Recognised From here and had Turned him down. anyway. he got served and asked for a pint of fab swingers. Mortified!! and a bit Funny. but even still was absolutely awful!!!!"

What an arse!! Would never dream of 'outing' anyone i recognise. Just a polite smile if we recognised each other or a chat if we were friends but to publically do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"went to a pub with my Kids and my Friend and her Kids for Dinner. was at the bar with them and the guy Next to us i Recognised From here and had Turned him down. anyway. he got served and asked for a pint of fab swingers. Mortified!! and a bit Funny. but even still was absolutely awful!!!!

Did you have your tits or feet out at the bar?

Otherwise how did he know it was you? If you'd turned him down I assume you hadn't sent him face pics? "

sure did. well my Friend did From my f f profile .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"went to a pub with my Kids and my Friend and her Kids for Dinner. was at the bar with them and the guy Next to us i Recognised From here and had Turned him down. anyway. he got served and asked for a pint of fab swingers. Mortified!! and a bit Funny. but even still was absolutely awful!!!!

Did you have your tits or feet out at the bar?

Otherwise how did he know it was you? If you'd turned him down I assume you hadn't sent him face pics?

sure did. well my Friend did From my f f profile ."

i can clarify i absolutely did have my tits and feet out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two chaps I've seen on here are members of my book club.

Small world!!

One says he's single on his profile but bought his girlfriend last night!

I certainly am not going to be saying anything anytime soon. I have no pics for a reason...... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dopplegangers!

They get me in some right scrapes!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is it just us that can't see the problem with acknowledging someone you've met on the site if you're both alone?

To totally ignore someone you've enjoyed sex with or exchanged favourable messages seems a bit cold, even weird to us.

It's like these people who have sex with a work colleague and then blank them every day thereafter, odd!

XXXX"

I don't talk to some playmates when they're buck naked tied to my bed apart from to give instructions, so hardly going to indulge in small talk in the bakery section of Sainsbury's!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

Sorry to here this story but sadly its very true to most guys if you use one of these sites your damaged goods ( please don't shoot me for saying that its not my opinion at all but I've been in the locker room with guys enough to know that a lot will think like that )

That's why discretion is so very very important in this game weather your married single playing away it doesn't matter the world is full of judgmental people .

Gossip in the work place ...school gates ..social events ..work place .not only will it effect how people see and act towards you it will also effect how they act toward your love ones as well .

Which in my opinion is far worse as they are on the receiving end of something not of there choosing or there doing ."

You only have to read some of the posts on here to know some men think that, that's why some get the hump they get turned down by the "damaged goods".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"went to a pub with my Kids and my Friend and her Kids for Dinner. was at the bar with them and the guy Next to us i Recognised From here and had Turned him down. anyway. he got served and asked for a pint of fab swingers. Mortified!! and a bit Funny. but even still was absolutely awful!!!!

Did you have your tits or feet out at the bar?

Otherwise how did he know it was you? If you'd turned him down I assume you hadn't sent him face pics?

sure did. well my Friend did From my f f profile .

i can clarify i absolutely did have my tits and feet out"

Keep your distance from a pricks like that, that cannot n should not be toleratedxx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted"

don't be gutted..

sounds like a shallow type..

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

don't be gutted..

sounds like a shallow type.."

Why is the guy a prick and shallow for having preferences?

Would the answers be the same if it was the other way around?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

don't be gutted..

sounds like a shallow type.."

Why? Perhaps he was just looking out for his mate? I know I would inform one of my friends if she was looking to date a guy who I recognised from here.

And at least the guy had the decency to text and explain why rather than just 'lose' your number!

Single guys are allowed to have preferences too...I don't understand why he's getting slated for exercising his and daring to turn you down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep seeing him everywhere now as well lol. Embarrassment!"

Lol. Well... that happens, put your mind elsewhere then you'll stop seeing him everywhere lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

don't be gutted..

sounds like a shallow type..

Why is the guy a prick and shallow for having preferences?

Would the answers be the same if it was the other way around?"

didn't say he was a prick..

the fact that on the word of his m8 he dropped it on the 'she is on a sex site'..

he was interested enough to chat to the OP and swap numbers, just comes across as a bit shallow to then say no ty..

respect about preferences etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why we don't tend to play in Peterborough.

Saying that we have spotted the odd person in Queensgate"

That might have been me. I look odd and go to the queen gate

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

don't be gutted..

sounds like a shallow type..

Why is the guy a prick and shallow for having preferences?

Would the answers be the same if it was the other way around?

didn't say he was a prick..

the fact that on the word of his m8 he dropped it on the 'she is on a sex site'..

he was interested enough to chat to the OP and swap numbers, just comes across as a bit shallow to then say no ty..

respect about preferences etc.."

Sorry I didn't quote that very well, 'prick' was from an earlier post by someone else

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

don't be gutted..

sounds like a shallow type..

Why is the guy a prick and shallow for having preferences?

Would the answers be the same if it was the other way around?

didn't say he was a prick..

the fact that on the word of his m8 he dropped it on the 'she is on a sex site'..

he was interested enough to chat to the OP and swap numbers, just comes across as a bit shallow to then say no ty..

respect about preferences etc..

Sorry I didn't quote that very well, 'prick' was from an earlier post by someone else "

Np..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh id love for someone to publicly out me in the supermarket...id go straight to the vedge section and find the biggest cucumber and the smallest mushroom and shout loudly "that's how big your cock should be luv, not like that"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

don't be gutted..

sounds like a shallow type.."

I'd disagree there: having preferences don't make a person shallow.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

don't be gutted..

sounds like a shallow type..

Why is the guy a prick and shallow for having preferences?

Would the answers be the same if it was the other way around?"

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've had a guy who's been to several of my GBs come up to me and chat a couple of times in a supermarket. I found it quite surprising, however he did know I was single so it didn't really worry me to much. The other day I was coming out of the petrol station after paying for fuel and heard someone call my name as I walking back to my car. It turned out to be a regular from my GBs, he also knows I'm single and could see I wasn't with anyone. We chatted for a minute and I went on my way, personally though I think it's risky for people to do that though as you never know when some other person, family member etc may suddenly appear, one reason I wouldn't do it myself.

I have been recognised from here only once as far as I know. I was down a bar in the Village with Katie from my couples profile as part of a fab social. I was near the bar when a guy said 'You're Heddo and that's Katie isn't it', I said yes. It turned out that he and his wife weren't on the social but I had sent them a mail some 3 weeks before. we chatted for a minute and I suddenly realised his wife was playing with my cock while stood in a crowded room about 2; from the bar. It was very nice I must say and had the desired affect. Sadly I had to leave fairly quickly so things didn't come to their natural conclusion. I've exchanged mails with them since, hope to bump into them again soon. Not something you get in must pubs, even in the Village, personally though I can't see me approaching someone apart from in that bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

Sorry to here this story but sadly its very true to most guys if you use one of these sites your damaged goods ( please don't shoot me for saying that its not my opinion at all but I've been in the locker room with guys enough to know that a lot will think like that )

That's why discretion is so very very important in this game weather your married single playing away it doesn't matter the world is full of judgmental people .

Gossip in the work place ...school gates ..social events ..work place .not only will it effect how people see and act towards you it will also effect how they act toward your love ones as well .

Which in my opinion is far worse as they are on the receiving end of something not of there choosing or there doing .

You only have to read some of the posts on here to know some men think that, that's why some get the hump they get turned down by the "damaged goods". "

Sad but true.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

Seriously what happened to the old fashioned wink... s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friendly nod and smile is all that's necessary in public. You can always pick up your phone and send a message to them with a bit of banter. Surely that would be more fun.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I was in a bar a few weeks ago got chatting to this guy and his mate come up to me and said are you on any sites so I said yes on pof, then when the guy who was chatting me up went to the loo his mate said I know you , you are on fab I tried to deny it but he got up the message which he sent and I replied with a pic so I was busted. then me and his mate exchanged numbers as you do. the next morning I got a text saying thanks but no thanks mate told me your on a sex site was I gutted

Sorry to here this story but sadly its very true to most guys if you use one of these sites your damaged goods ( please don't shoot me for saying that its not my opinion at all but I've been in the locker room with guys enough to know that a lot will think like that )

That's why discretion is so very very important in this game weather your married single playing away it doesn't matter the world is full of judgmental people .

Gossip in the work place ...school gates ..social events ..work place .not only will it effect how people see and act towards you it will also effect how they act toward your love ones as well .

Which in my opinion is far worse as they are on the receiving end of something not of there choosing or there doing .

You only have to read some of the posts on here to know some men think that, that's why some get the hump they get turned down by the "damaged goods". "

They most be in pretty bad condition if the "damaged goods" turn them down

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