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Straight men pretending to be bi or cpls or both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever have those famous messages.

"My girlfriend/wife is at work/on a course/ill/with friends/can't come to the phone" or even "only male wants to play/why don't you play with him/ he's lovely. Yet there are no pics or verifications on their profile.

Were not daft we know your a single male pretending to be a couple in the hope of getting a shag

Or how about "I dont put bi on my profile as my friends might see/it turns some people off/my work colleagues might see/didn't i update it/i'll do it now"

Your not bi gents, you never will be, you just want to meet in the hope that you can have the woman, and the bloke won't touch you.

This forum is for all us genuine bi couples to name and shame others who pretend to be a cpl, or pretend to be bi.

That way we can avoid the endless messages and time wasting.

So come on peeps any timewasters let us know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why lie??

Honesty is going to lose me meets i know, but what the hell would happen if during a meet it came up.

Nah, not that stupid, yet....lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

naming and shaming just wont be allowed, just report false profiles

my wife said

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By *ORNY_DEVIL_SEEKERSCouple
over a year ago

Basildon Essex

We always get one where the gf is asleep but the guy wants to Skype with us or meet us as the gf enjoys hearing about it in the morning lol or we had one where the female of the couple said she thought we was to young for them but it was ok for her guy to meet us on he's own to check us out first then let her know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naming and shaming will get you a ban. Just report them if you know that is the case. Otherwise just brush it off and move on. It happens. It will always happen. Just as there will always be female profiles who are actually men. Just as there will always be timewasters.

But also, just as there will always be plenty of genuine. So don't waste your time on the fake, just move on to the next.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"naming and shaming just wont be allowed, just report false profiles

my wife said"
....that guy steve from Brighton is hot

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There maybe sone guys who pretend to be women, but are there any women who pretend to be guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naming and shaming just wont be allowed, just report false profiles

my wife said....that guy steve from Brighton is hot "

need to replace that broken voice chip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There maybe sone guys who pretend to be women, but are there any women who pretend to be guys? "

the ones that want to catch out 'straight' men lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"naming and shaming just wont be allowed, just report false profiles

my wife said....that guy steve from Brighton is hot

need to replace that broken voice chip"

You should hear what Siri on my iPad says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 'block all straight men' option would solve this.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"There maybe sone guys who pretend to be women, but are there any women who pretend to be guys?

the ones that want to catch out 'straight' men lol"

Damn! The times I've been taken in by a Lola masquerade

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By *um and get it.Couple
over a year ago

Spalding


"A 'block all straight men' option would solve this."

Good Call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.... or you could use your common sense and ignore the dodgy ones....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get many many messages saying I'm bi but I can't put it because friends, family, ex wife Etc are on here but really I'm the most bi guy you'll ever meet. It's got to be the most tedious answer fellas can give.

Be honest, be open. Gets you a foot in our door.

Honesty really is the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get many many messages saying I'm bi but I can't put it because friends, family, ex wife Etc are on here but really I'm the most bi guy you'll ever meet. It's got to be the most tedious answer fellas can give.

Be honest, be open. Gets you a foot in our door.

Honesty really is the best policy

"

Just tell them the guys always play first while the female watches. The straight ones will disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get many many messages saying I'm bi but I can't put it because friends, family, ex wife Etc are on here but really I'm the most bi guy you'll ever meet. It's got to be the most tedious answer fellas can give.

Be honest, be open. Gets you a foot in our door.

Honesty really is the best policy

Just tell them the guys always play first while the female watches. The straight ones will disappear.

"

ha ha good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the feeling of self loathing must be beyond belief! ... can't pull a lass, so come up with a story.... ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naming and shaming just wont be allowed, just report false profiles

my wife said"

You said you were meeting me tonight? I have been sat waiting for 2 hours! Where on earth are you? A gay sauna?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"We get many many messages saying I'm bi but I can't put it because friends, family, ex wife Etc are on here but really I'm the most bi guy you'll ever meet. It's got to be the most tedious answer fellas can give.

Be honest, be open. Gets you a foot in our door.

Honesty really is the best policy

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A 'block all straight men' option would solve this."

The point is they don't state straight. Either they pretend to be a couple, or a bi/bi curious guy. Hence the above is no good, whilst we do appreciate the advice.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

I have a question, i have never done anything with a man, i don't want to meet a man alone, and only find the idea a turn on in a domme/sub context, with the woman telling me what to do.

I state this on my profile and don't think i'm bi, but there's no hetexible option on here (like there is on fet).

I'd love to know what people think i should be putting down!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naming and shaming just wont be allowed, just report false profiles

my wife said

You said you were meeting me tonight? I have been sat waiting for 2 hours! Where on earth are you? A gay sauna? "

yes...all these lesbians are steamy hot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever have those famous messages.

"My girlfriend/wife is at work/on a course/ill/with friends/can't come to the phone" or even "only male wants to play/why don't you play with him/ he's lovely. Yet there are no pics or verifications on their profile.

Were not daft we know your a single male pretending to be a couple in the hope of getting a shag

Or how about "I dont put bi on my profile as my friends might see/it turns some people off/my work colleagues might see/didn't i update it/i'll do it now"

Your not bi gents, you never will be, you just want to meet in the hope that you can have the woman, and the bloke won't touch you.

This forum is for all us genuine bi couples to name and shame others who pretend to be a cpl, or pretend to be bi.

That way we can avoid the endless messages and time wasting.

So come on peeps any timewasters let us know."

So many "straight" men message me, with the "I don't advertise as Bi as it puts women off".

"Tough shit, "straight male" puts me off, so stop bothering me" is my reply (if I bother!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank feck i'm straight. All you bi guys are worse than women when it comes to moaning about men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a question, i have never done anything with a man, i don't want to meet a man alone, and only find the idea a turn on in a domme/sub context, with the woman telling me what to do.

I state this on my profile and don't think i'm bi, but there's no hetexible option on here (like there is on fet).

I'd love to know what people think i should be putting down!? "

bi curious and block single males? Simple !!

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