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By *wingerdelight OP   Couple
over a year ago

eastliegh

Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites"

God knows lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

summat to do.

stops you getting bored

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

To perve your pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites"

Hope I am not too far away lol

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites"

I had one today from a male in Folkestone. Now that is a fair distance.

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By *wingerdelight OP   Couple
over a year ago

eastliegh


"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites

Hope I am not too far away lol "
funny we just had one from Leeds. It wasnt you tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To perv pics ...I just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites

Hope I am not too far away lol funny we just had one from Leeds. It wasnt you tho"

I wonder who that was lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To perv pics ...I just delete them "

Don't delete, allegedly if you leave the invite sitting there they can't send another for 30 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait until they're offline, accept their request, perv their pics (if women) then delete them from friends before they're back. Oh, and send them a message saying how much i enjoyed them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites"

There's more chance answering the meaning of life than that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most random friends requests want free wank material.

Surprising how many people who send random requests have no private pics on their own profile.

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


"To perv pics ...I just delete them

Don't delete, allegedly if you leave the invite sitting there they can't send another for 30 days"

I simply block. If they show no manners why would I want to be friends with them. They are very naughty boys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wait until they're offline, accept their request, perv their pics (if women) then delete them from friends before they're back. Oh, and send them a message saying how much i enjoyed them. "

Sneaky. I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont understand people that have private pics the same as their public ones.

surely private is for those you dont want everyone to see (maybe intimate ones, or face pics)

its very random

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

Should fab not have a system that prevents people sending invites without first sending a message? Simple to put in place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To perv pics ...I just delete them

Don't delete, allegedly if you leave the invite sitting there they can't send another for 30 days"

Can they send another after the .30 days ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont understand people that have private pics the same as their public ones.

surely private is for those you dont want everyone to see (maybe intimate ones, or face pics)

its very random"

Agreed. I think its to attract more attention. I.E. Get mail asking for a peek at their pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really that big a deal???? Ignore and like people say it will sit there for 30 days and they can't send during this period.

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By *icechap50Man
over a year ago

Dudley

You mean you can get friends invites lol

Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away

It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that

Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday

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By *iosMan
over a year ago

Stafford

To peak at your pics....

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


"You mean you can get friends invites lol

Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away

It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that

Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday "

The majority are unsolicited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean you can get friends invites lol

Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away

It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that

Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday

The majority are unsolicited. "

Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one from London doing it on almost a daily basis, yet no message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To perve your pics."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean you can get friends invites lol

Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away

It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that

Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday

The majority are unsolicited.

Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?"

Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

cos they want to see your private pics probably .cant think of any other reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do so many people get so worked up about it???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be friends with someone who you have no intention of meeting??

We have plenty of pics not only of ourselves but others too....so why put them in private if we are going to share with random people miles away??

Some people won't get het up about it as they don't have personal pictures or pictures in their private gallery.

Gets on our nerves!!! We delete all friend requests from people who can be bothered to mail us and never send a request to anyone of the same.

But if people don't think that 'private' pics are for 'private' use.....go back to Facebook...

Sorry rant over. Lol

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?

Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^ "

Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?

Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^

Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?

Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^

Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes. "

Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first).

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

Must add, it isn't always single males doing this, get a few from couples. Mind when I feel cheeky I tease the couple to find out if it is the male or female sending invite. Any bets who in the couple are responsible in the majority if cases?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must add, it isn't always single males doing this, get a few from couples. Mind when I feel cheeky I tease the couple to find out if it is the male or female sending invite. Any bets who in the couple are responsible in the majority if cases? "

The female! They're always the nosiest!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

My Friends list started out as a "people I have played with" list, now it's gained some "people I want to play with" as well now.

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?

Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^

Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.

Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first)."

As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?

Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^

Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.

Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first).

As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get? "

I get loads actually. Usually from other guys but thats not the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have many random friends requests daily, I just ignore them,my friends list is for people I've met either socially or for fun

I like to keep up with statuses etc of people I know ,my mugshot in all private pics and completely different to front as chop me head of a lot there

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By *jgoofyCouple
over a year ago

worthing

We had one yesterday from Melbourne Australia lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Friends list started out as a "people I have played with" list, now it's gained some "people I want to play with" as well now."

In my experience the I want to play with never played just all talk to get on my list

Real genuine meets are happy with a pic of my mugshot,and are patient and get accepted wen met

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


"

Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?

Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^

Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.

Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first).

As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get?

I get loads actually. Usually from other guys but thats not the point. "

But you would agree that single females will get far more? You get loads, they will get loads more. Mind would be interesting to see how many invites you get from 'straight' males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?

Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^

Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.

Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first).

As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get?

I get loads actually. Usually from other guys but thats not the point.

But you would agree that single females will get far more? You get loads, they will get loads more. Mind would be interesting to see how many invites you get from 'straight' males "

Of course i'd agree that women get more attention than guys. And its usually always straight guys that want to be friends. Maybe they fancy going for a pint now n again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?

Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^

Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.

Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first).

As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get?

I get loads actually. Usually from other guys but thats not the point.

But you would agree that single females will get far more? You get loads, they will get loads more. Mind would be interesting to see how many invites you get from 'straight' males "

Still don't see what the big deal is. You don't have to do anything with the invites. Simply ignore. Do they jump out if the screen and kick you in the fanny? Are they losing you sleep? Noooooo. Ps.You haven't accepted my friend request yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wait until they're offline, accept their request, perv their pics (if women) then delete them from friends before they're back. Oh, and send them a message saying how much i enjoyed them. "

Ooh that's sneaky ! But I like it going for a perv right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wait until they're offline, accept their request, perv their pics (if women) then delete them from friends before they're back. Oh, and send them a message saying how much i enjoyed them.

Ooh that's sneaky ! But I like it going for a perv right now "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites"

I use a tablet sometimes and in error have hit the send invite as it sits below send wink this is because touch screens aren't always accurate. I'm not saying this is everyones reason but just possibility?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is so true, I've noticed that, they more often than not have no verifications either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you send me a random friend invite, you go straight to my block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they trying to pinch your pics

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites"

I get these as well. I don't delete the request though so they cant ask again. I prefer my friends to be either people I have met or like chatting to or have something about them that I like. Random requests just get ignored.

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!"
sarcasm at its best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!"

Gutted. No honestly I am. Sense of humour failure lol. Right I'm off to find the nearest bridge. Been emotional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!sarcasm at its best "

Not really although your pandering is deffo at its best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!"

People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!

People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know. "

How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol.

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!

People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know.

How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol."

I mentioned no names, you outed yourself. Now that is funny, not hilarious but certainly funny

With regards distance, I am a working single parent so long distance just isn't going to work. Time is at a premium and most of my meets are short notice. The fact remains, unsolicited invites just end up on my blocked list. They are tedious, show lack of imagination or effort and more often than not come from single males who do not fit my criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!

People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know.

How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol.

I mentioned no names, you outed yourself. Now that is funny, not hilarious but certainly funny

With regards distance, I am a working single parent so long distance just isn't going to work. Time is at a premium and most of my meets are short notice. The fact remains, unsolicited invites just end up on my blocked list. They are tedious, show lack of imagination or effort and more often than not come from single males who do not fit my criteria. "

So basically you fuck all your friends? Surely the Friend option is there so you can add people you might actually just be quite content to chat and banter with. So in your case it should be called a Fuck List.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean you can get friends invites lol

Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away

It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that

Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday

The majority are unsolicited.

Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?"

This

I might have a nose when they are offline if I have time, otherwise doesn't bother me and the requests can just sit there.

I have people I accept as friends as I want to keep in touch with them.

That is the way I use it.

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!

People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know.

How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol.

I mentioned no names, you outed yourself. Now that is funny, not hilarious but certainly funny

With regards distance, I am a working single parent so long distance just isn't going to work. Time is at a premium and most of my meets are short notice. The fact remains, unsolicited invites just end up on my blocked list. They are tedious, show lack of imagination or effort and more often than not come from single males who do not fit my criteria.

So basically you fuck all your friends? Surely the Friend option is there so you can add people you might actually just be quite content to chat and banter with. So in your case it should be called a Fuck List. "

I have friends outside the side for social activities. I am here to meet people to play with, not talk about the news and weather. Isn't that what Facebook is all about? We are all here for different reasons, my reasons are clear. Simplez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!

People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know.

How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol.

I mentioned no names, you outed yourself. Now that is funny, not hilarious but certainly funny

With regards distance, I am a working single parent so long distance just isn't going to work. Time is at a premium and most of my meets are short notice. The fact remains, unsolicited invites just end up on my blocked list. They are tedious, show lack of imagination or effort and more often than not come from single males who do not fit my criteria.

So basically you fuck all your friends? Surely the Friend option is there so you can add people you might actually just be quite content to chat and banter with. So in your case it should be called a Fuck List.

I have friends outside the side for social activities. I am here to meet people to play with, not talk about the news and weather. Isn't that what Facebook is all about? We are all here for different reasons, my reasons are clear. Simplez"

So I'm right. Cool. Leave it there then. No really shhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind people perving our pictures, but our profiles states this.

" If you want to friend us to look at our pictures, we don't have a problem with that no matter your orientation. Just send us a message first telling us why your sending us the friend invite Otherwise we will DELETE the request. "

Only about 1 in 30 people that send requests read our profile and bother to send us a message telling us why the are sending the request. If they can't follow instructions, they don't get to peek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wait until they're offline, accept their request, perv their pics (if women) then delete them from friends before they're back. Oh, and send them a message saying how much i enjoyed them.

Sneaky. I like it."
guilty as charged sneaky sneaky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind long distance friend invites as long as I've had some interaction with them in the forums and in pm's first. I don't mind travelling a fair old distance for a meet if that's why they want to be on my list either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will sometimes accept requests from a distnce away, if we have been chatting and get on, as we fancy having holidays away from time to time, and using it as an excuse to visit that area is only a positive thing

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

People can sometimes admire your look and want more.

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