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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like the chat the chase the getting to know what makes a fab partner tick etc. Much more than the hello lets meet and shag approach. What about you out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends, I get bored of someone if the talk goes on to long if i'm honest, I don't mind a but of chat and get to know but if after 2 or 3 weeks we're still chatting its time to move on

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By *j188Couple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire


"I like the chat the chase the getting to know what makes a fab partner tick etc. Much more than the hello lets meet and shag approach. What about you out there?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to get to know someone really well first. After all I do need to think of my safety

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

I agree, there has to be a spark there too but alas unfortunately most and note i say most guys seem to think they are just gonna turn up and get a shag...... not my style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the chat the chase the getting to know what makes a fab partner tick etc. Much more than the hello lets meet and shag approach. What about you out there?"

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"depends, I get bored of someone if the talk goes on to long if i'm honest, I don't mind a but of chat and get to know but if after 2 or 3 weeks we're still chatting its time to move on"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to just make friends and chat. If they can't even do that, they're not worth the slightest fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well seeings as we only get to meet every other weekend, then messages can go on for a little while

not to mention ,we have friends we have been trying to hook up with for ages, but we just cant tie up a date we are all available, but still chat.

hate the hi, lets fuck, ok approach.

makes for a crappy evening when you realise you actually have nothing in common to chat about inbetween playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chemistry past drop your trousers and come here means absolutely no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to chat first not sure there is any other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person and the flow of the conversation some people I have met in a week some it takes months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends, I get bored of someone if the talk goes on to long if i'm honest, I don't mind a but of chat and get to know but if after 2 or 3 weeks we're still chatting its time to move on"

Here here I agree

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago

You know by the first post if there's any common ground. After that get a meet sorted. The few days chatting before meet should be plenty time to give you a good idea that its worth a shot. Doesnt take ages to suss them out.

Or is that too simple?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"You know by the first post if there's any common ground. After that get a meet sorted. The few days chatting before meet should be plenty time to give you a good idea that its worth a shot. Doesnt take ages to suss them out.

Or is that too simple?"

Nope...

Thats all it takes...

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