FabSwingers.com forum: Welcome to the club/party leave your preferences at the door

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Off the back of other threads where people have preferences such as:

Don't want to meet guys who can't accommodate because their probably cheats.

Or in our case

Don't meet bi guys who display straight profiles.

In club / party world all that goes out the window. Perhaps clubs should have a colour banding system for all of these things. We went to a club once that made bi women wear a colour wrist band

but not the bi guys

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

There are other things to go on when meeting people in person so yes, some of my preferences are set aside sonetimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that is true...

At a club you just go for physical appearance and "chemistry" as preferences.

Which is exactly what I select on here as well.

Can't help but wonder about all the great guys I'd be excluding if I selected against married, bi, unemployed etc...

I guess you could say I am an equal opportunities swinger

Which does not mean I don't have preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was one reason I took no bi guys off as I realised I was already meeting them at clubs already.

Cali

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't go to clubs or parties.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't go to clubs or parties....."

Is that because you have preferences that youre not prepared to compromise ?

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

Met loads couples down the years who's preference on here and other places is "not looking for single guys" but at a club have played with me. Though I do accept this is probably to stop them having to delete 300 emails every morning

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"We don't go to clubs or parties.....

Is that because you have preferences that youre not prepared to compromise ?"

Perhaps it's just not their thing. It's strange that on a thread about personal choices you pull them for having a personal choice.....

We don't do clubs or parties either. Because we don't want to.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"We don't go to clubs or parties.....

Is that because you have preferences that youre not prepared to compromise ?

Perhaps it's just not their thing. It's strange that on a thread about personal choices you pull them for having a personal choice.....

We don't do clubs or parties either. Because we don't want to."

Nobody 'pulled' anyone. They asked why they didn't go to those events!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We don't go to clubs or parties.....

Is that because you have preferences that youre not prepared to compromise ?"

Partly and partly because we have tried it and found it isn't our thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off the back of other threads where people have preferences such as:

Don't want to meet guys who can't accommodate because their probably cheats.

Or in our case

Don't meet bi guys who display straight profiles.

In club / party world all that goes out the window. Perhaps clubs should have a colour banding system for all of these things. We went to a club once that made bi women wear a colour wrist band

but not the bi guys

On our profiles we can only display the attributes we think we like or dislike in a partner. At a club we have the advantage of a face to face meeting and can decide based our actual feelings towards the potential partner/s.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't go to clubs or parties.....

Is that because you have preferences that youre not prepared to compromise ?

Perhaps it's just not their thing. It's strange that on a thread about personal choices you pull them for having a personal choice.....

We don't do clubs or parties either. Because we don't want to."

Er yes it was actually JUST a question

ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have always said you will never 100% ever know what people have done sexually prior to meeting you, & you either trust that person and your instincts that they are a truthful person & not worry about who they have shagged the day before!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I have always said you will never 100% ever know what people have done sexually prior to meeting you, & you either trust that person and your instincts that they are a truthful person & not worry about who they have shagged the day before! "

This is why we only ever meet virgins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we only ever meet virgins

Holy crap, you've found me out

Ssshh I try to pretend not to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely spot on. In either Club or party scenario or private meet you only ever KNOW what the other party tell you.

Hence common sense is a massively important attribute when swinging

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

"Off the back of other threads where people have preferences such as:

Don't want to meet guys who can't accommodate because their probably cheats.

Or in our case

Don't meet bi guys who display straight profiles.

In club / party world all that goes out the window. Perhaps clubs should have a colour banding system for all of these things. We went to a club once that made bi women wear a colour wrist band

but not the bi guys

This is how I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in clubs should have a list of previous sexual partners, do's/ don'ts, and if they are bi or not on a laminated card. Then you can check out their background before you get your knickers/ towel off. And the laminated card will wipe clean....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People in clubs should have a list of previous sexual partners, do's/ don'ts, and if they are bi or not on a laminated card. Then you can check out their background before you get your knickers/ towel off. And the laminated card will wipe clean....

brilliant. Or we could all be microchipped like pets with our info and then others have supermarket like scanners to see if we're okay for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

brilliant. Or we could all be microchipped like pets with our info and then others have supermarket like scanners to see if we're okay for them. "

Maybe a barcode tattoo on the back of the neck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

brilliant. Or we could all be microchipped like pets with our info and then others have supermarket like scanners to see if we're okay for them. "

I'm having all mine tattooed all over my body!

It'll be a pain if my preferences ever change!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have on my profile I prefer tall, dark men. I have frequently attended a party and ended up with a much shorter man, or a blond, or a TV, or an older man, or, or, or...

This either confirms I'm not that fussy, or that I find people attractive at that time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

brilliant. Or we could all be microchipped like pets with our info and then others have supermarket like scanners to see if we're okay for them.

Maybe a barcode tattoo on the back of the neck?

Oooo scan me, scan me !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have on my profile I prefer tall, dark men. I have frequently attended a party and ended up with a much shorter man, or a blond, or a TV, or an older man, or, or, or...

This either confirms I'm not that fussy, or that I find people attractive at that time.

A 2d profile and photos can't compare to an animated real life person. On the flip side that perfect profile won't tell you the person is anti-washing and riddled with STIs!

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Off the back of other threads where people have preferences such as:

Don't want to meet guys who can't accommodate because their probably cheats.

Or in our case

Don't meet bi guys who display straight profiles.

In club / party world all that goes out the window. Perhaps clubs should have a colour banding system for all of these things. We went to a club once that made bi women wear a colour wrist band

but not the bi guys

getting "branded" as somebody in a place that's supposed to be welcoming? I'm not sure how I would feel about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the wrist band thing at a club was not to 'warn' others you were bi, but given to you as a choice so that you could let others know without actually saying it

Surely you were not forced to wear one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off the back of other threads where people have preferences such as:

Don't want to meet guys who can't accommodate because their probably cheats.

Or in our case

Don't meet bi guys who display straight profiles.

In club / party world all that goes out the window. Perhaps clubs should have a colour banding system for all of these things. We went to a club once that made bi women wear a colour wrist band

but not the bi guys

isn't it better if people just have a drink a chat and get to know each other and let them take it from there all free and easy like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off the back of other threads where people have preferences such as:

Don't want to meet guys who can't accommodate because their probably cheats.

Or in our case

Don't meet bi guys who display straight profiles.

In club / party world all that goes out the window. Perhaps clubs should have a colour banding system for all of these things. We went to a club once that made bi women wear a colour wrist band

but not the bi guys

isn't it better if people just have a drink a chat and get to know each other and let them take it from there all free and easy like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a club/party you get more chance to relax & demonstrate your better qualities to people. Here to be honest it's an absolute nightmare especially for guys seeing that you only have so many words to impress and up against so much competition.

Women probably find it easier to make a list of preferences to help lower down the amount of mail they go through?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off the back of other threads where people have preferences such as:

Don't want to meet guys who can't accommodate because their probably cheats.

Or in our case

Don't meet bi guys who display straight profiles.

In club / party world all that goes out the window. Perhaps clubs should have a colour banding system for all of these things. We went to a club once that made bi women wear a colour wrist band

but not the bi guys

isn't it better if people just have a drink a chat and get to know each other and let them take it from there all free and easy like

nice profile just worried about the gun

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