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"What do you class as small medium large none of the clothing people seem to know either so who knows hubby likes my size lol " | |||
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"What do you class as small medium large none of the clothing people seem to know either so who knows hubby likes my size lol " | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x We should maybe take our lead from the Vanilla world here where there is no BBW term. The eye of the swinging beholder should, as their vanilla counterparts do, be able to work out where the line between curvaceous and seriously over weight occurs. There is absolutely no disrespect meant with the above just the observation that whilst us Swingers politely use the term BBW the vanilla world is often a lot less forgiving " Agree 100%, however, I've always seen it as a "ready reckoner". I'm on a site where the options are small, athletic and curvy. Whilst still subjective human nature dictates a man would be thinking more Kelly Brooks than Hattie Jaques. With BBW the reverse is true, allowing people the opportunity to exclude the fatties. In reality your own eyes and stirring in your loins dictates whether someone is for you. | |||
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"Basically if you fancy it fuck it and if you don't, fuck off. Easy. " | |||
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"I'm just beautiful.... " I'd have to agree with that statement | |||
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"Cone to the bbw bash at chams on 3rd November and see how varied the sizes of the ladies are. (shameless plug lol) At the end of the day it's a label you can give yourself if you want to. I use it to let people know at a quick glance that I'm a fat person. I don't believe I am beautiful because I am big. It's cos I am beautiful " | |||
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"Easy that's over a size 12 Complex anyone ? " Leave me out of this I never said a word | |||
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"Cone to the bbw bash at chams on 3rd November and see how varied the sizes of the ladies are. (shameless plug lol) At the end of the day it's a label you can give yourself if you want to. I use it to let people know at a quick glance that I'm a fat person. I don't believe I am beautiful because I am big. It's cos I am beautiful " Love open and honest answers like this | |||
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"I am just a BW - beautiful woman! Who cares about the dress size, its all about confidence. ...if you feel beautiful you ARE beautiful, whether a size 6 or 26!! " Have always thought the extra B in the description was wrong and that BW is a much politer description than a lot of BW ladies are used to outside the swinging community | |||
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"Who cares about the dress size, its all about confidence. ...if you feel beautiful you ARE beautiful, whether a size 6 or 26!! " | |||
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"Basically if you fancy it fuck it and if you don't, fuck off. Easy. " Love it | |||
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"If you go into a telephone box and you can close the door, then you're not a BBW " Wondered when you would pop up with that one lol | |||
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"Trouble is not all BBW are beautiful lol - just like any group of people are not to everyone's taste - so it is a totally misleading description in some cases " It's only misleading if you place too much emphasis on the word beautiful. I don't even register what the initials stand for. I just know that when used together it mean fat person or larger lady depending which term you like. Also. Does beautiful have to mean attractive. Can you not have a beautiful person who is average looking? Can someone not have a beautiful personality? | |||
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"Beautiful? I thought it meant 'bolshy' lol " I'm not beautiful but can be bolshy | |||
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"why is there a need to class us as anything. i hate the term bbw with a passion. i am just me, if u like me u like me if u don't bugger off! " | |||
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"If you go into a telephone box and you can close the door, then you're not a BBW Wondered when you would pop up with that one lol" got to agree you need a new book of quotes jack | |||
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"I don't think it can be solely based on dress size but on size and build. A friend of mine is a size 18, she's 5'11" tall and plays woman's rugby yes she's a big girl but in no way a BBW on the other hand another friend is 5'4" tall a size 18 also but has lots of curves/ wobbly bits. Just saying that I think it's down to individual builds rather than a generalisation of dress size." Agreed^^ says me who's a BBW | |||
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"why is there a need to class us as anything. i hate the term bbw with a passion. i am just me, if u like me u like me if u don't bugger off! " I use BBW because i don't want someone to be expecting someone stick skinny, In short I'm a thick girl with curves, I'm in no way sloppy and I look good but I'm not sure the abbreviation for that | |||
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"All bbws are gorgeous.." come on mate even i know ur full of sh*t tere | |||
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"All bbws are gorgeous.. come on mate even i know ur full of sh*t tere " Lol even so | |||
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"if a man wants skinny women it's probably because he's to tight to take his friend for lunch! What man doesn't appreciate a few feminine CURVEs? " Yes because we all want lunch before we fuck And just for the record most ladies have feminine curves with boobs and bums, just some are bigger than others | |||
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"I'm just beautiful.... I'd have to agree with that statement " So do I! | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x" I'm more curious as to how people define the 'beautiful' bit. | |||
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"I am just a BW - beautiful woman! Who cares about the dress size, its all about confidence. ...if you feel beautiful you ARE beautiful, whether a size 6 or 26!! " yep we'll put who really cares what size someone is it all about the personality and if there a spark between them | |||
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"All bbws are gorgeous.." No they're not: ridiculous and disingenuous thing to say. | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x I'm more curious as to how people define the 'beautiful' bit." horses or courses my friend, some people see beauty where others don't | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x I'm more curious as to how people define the 'beautiful' bit. horses or courses my friend, some people see beauty where others don't" Horses | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x I'm more curious as to how people define the 'beautiful' bit. horses or courses my friend, some people see beauty where others don't Horses " | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x I'm more curious as to how people define the 'beautiful' bit. horses or courses my friend, some people see beauty where others don't Horses " I believe it starts with an H................ | |||
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"anyone size 14 and over..simples x" shit. am i a bbw!!?? | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x I'm more curious as to how people define the 'beautiful' bit. horses or courses my friend, some people see beauty where others don't Horses I believe it starts with an H................ " I can categorically state that would not be BBW | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x I'm more curious as to how people define the 'beautiful' bit. horses or courses my friend, some people see beauty where others don't Horses I believe it starts with an H................ I can categorically state that would not be BBW" hungry hippos?? | |||
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"Trouble is not all BBW are beautiful lol - just like any group of people are not to everyone's taste - so it is a totally misleading description in some cases " | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x We should maybe take our lead from the Vanilla world here where there is no BBW term. The eye of the swinging beholder should, as their vanilla counterparts do, be able to work out where the line between curvaceous and seriously over weight occurs. There is absolutely no disrespect meant with the above just the observation that whilst us Swingers politely use the term BBW the vanilla world is often a lot less forgiving Agree 100%, however, I've always seen it as a "ready reckoner". I'm on a site where the options are small, athletic and curvy. Whilst still subjective human nature dictates a man would be thinking more Kelly Brooks than Hattie Jaques. With BBW the reverse is true, allowing people the opportunity to exclude the fatties. In reality your own eyes and stirring in your loins dictates whether someone is for you. " and i reckon that hattie got probably a lot more than kelly brooks..... according to the tv annals | |||
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"Horses I believe it starts with an H................ I can categorically state that would not be BBW hungry hippos?? " Was just teasing | |||
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"Easy that's over a size 12 Complex anyone ? " Why on earth should anyone get a complex because they are not size 12 ? some peoples egos are way over bbw status if you ask me | |||
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"Well to answer my own question I reckon I'd look at it this way: Dawn French BBW Jo Brand isn't. Although I do find her quite funny recently." didn't dawn loose loads of weight?? | |||
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"Horses I believe it starts with an H................ I can categorically state that would not be BBW hungry hippos?? Was just teasing " i know lol.... | |||
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"I have always been confident in my own skin and i have been skinny....and i have been much bigger funny thing is i see myself as beautiful....to others i might be ugly but to me i am beautiful.. " | |||
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"Well to answer my own question I reckon I'd look at it this way: Dawn French BBW Jo Brand isn't. Although I do find her quite funny recently. didn't dawn loose loads of weight?? " Ooh she did But she was always beautiful. I know people who were more attractive when bigger and likewise when not, but I think on here it tends to be more of a term that assumes everyone that's big is beautiful. | |||
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"Well to answer my own question I reckon I'd look at it this way: Dawn French BBW Jo Brand isn't. Although I do find her quite funny recently. didn't dawn loose loads of weight?? Ooh she did But she was always beautiful. I know people who were more attractive when bigger and likewise when not, but I think on here it tends to be more of a term that assumes everyone that's big is beautiful." ## well they havent seen me first thing in the morning then..... ken dodds dads dead dog, springs to mind | |||
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"Well to answer my own question I reckon I'd look at it this way: Dawn French BBW Jo Brand isn't. Although I do find her quite funny recently. didn't dawn loose loads of weight?? Ooh she did But she was always beautiful. I know people who were more attractive when bigger and likewise when not, but I think on here it tends to be more of a term that assumes everyone that's big is beautiful." agreed not everyone is a beautiful person whether internally or externally | |||
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"Just googled Dawn - and I cannot believe she is 55!" I have always thought she seemed a lovely person....loved her in French and Saunders | |||
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"If you go into a telephone box and you can close the door, then you're not a BBW " I defy anyone to get into the little box that my new iPhone came in...by that definition all women are BBW's | |||
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"Me lol x cuz I got wobbly bits Sod me size bit obvious I'm not slim " Its the extra that guys lije me love more to pkay an feel mor baby oil to use stay the eay u are ur gorgeous | |||
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"anyone size 14 and over..simples x shit. am i a bbw!!?? " I'm pretty sure tats opinion lol don't worry a size 14 isn't BBW!! My word what is the world coming to!?!? Everyone has their own opinion on the matter | |||
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"If you go into a telephone box and you can close the door, then you're not a BBW Wondered when you would pop up with that one lol got to agree you need a new book of quotes jack " Well, you can't say I'm not consistant with my replies. I'll have to invent some new ones | |||
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"Let me suck ur cock then u can all decide if a BBW matters or not! Lol " | |||
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"I'm just beautiful.... " You are..! I am a size 18/20 5'7" so a BCW (big curvy woman) Cannot believe people regard 14 as BBW .. its crazy ! Size is height / weight related surely. Personally always preferred the look of a woman with shape than a boyish stick figure. Guess its a good job we all like something different in life. This subject has been done to death now. | |||
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"Easy that's over a size 12 Complex anyone ? Why on earth should anyone get a complex because they are not size 12 ? some peoples egos are way over bbw status if you ask me " And others lack sense of humour hitch again is not size related. It was a joke. | |||
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"Hi there Just curious as to what size everyone sees is a bbw? N x" Its simple its a heavy set woman with big bones thats where the term originated. | |||
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